How to be an excellent single man

Currently, more and more men are interested in 3P (threesomes). Indeed, 3P sex is a very special and exciting form of sex, offering a unique physiological and psychological enjoyment. A truly meaningful 3P experience can be unforgettable.
Many people lack experience in 3P dating, finding partners is difficult, and their efforts often yield little result. I previously wrote an article on how to engage in 3P dating, but it wasn't very detailed. Here, I'll elaborate further to hopefully help everyone.
Generally speaking, 3P dating can be divided into five steps, which can be summarized briefly: 1. Preparation; 2. Finding Partners; 3. Communication; 4. Meeting; 5. 3P.
Let's start with the first step. Once you have the idea of engaging in 3P and are willing to work towards it, you need to prepare. Most importantly, you need to understand why you want to engage in 3P, what kind of pleasure you're seeking, and what the stimulation of 3P sex is. Those who don't even understand it themselves will always be in a passive state, making it even more difficult to truly experience 3P sex. One crucial point is that 3P dating requires certain expenses. If the couple you're dating is involved with, you'll have to cover the costs of hotel rooms and meals. This expense may be greater than simply hiring a prostitute. So, if you're only doing this for sex, it's best not to. Only pursue this unique form of sex if you truly understand it.
After considering your own perspective, before officially seeking partners, you should understand why many couples want to experience 3P sex, what kind of pleasure they seek, and what their psychology is. Research the age range and social class of couples who engage in this activity. While this takes time, it will greatly help in future dating and can be very effective.
I have no respect for those who have only read a few erotic novels, know nothing, and then seek out 3P sex.
Once you're mentally prepared, you also need to do some practical work. I suggest everyone create a dedicated QQ account for this. In threesome dating, it's not enough to just add one or two friends; you might need to add many. Having a dedicated QQ account is more convenient and also helps maintain confidentiality, as most people don't want their friends to know about this. Besides the dedicated QQ account, if possible, prepare a few photos to send to the couple if they request to see them. There's no fixed formula for preparation; you can tailor it to your own personality.
The second step is finding partners. This is a crucial part of threesome dating, and many people fail because they can't find suitable partners. My basic principle is "widespread cultivation, focused selection." In threesome dating, you need patience, but don't put all your eggs in one basket.
There are many ways to find partners: you can add them directly on QQ, or through forums and QQ groups. I assume everyone knows how to do these, so I won't go into detail. Let me mention a few points to keep in mind.
Forums are a good method. You can post a thread there and then sit back and wait for your prey to bite. Posts should be as engaging as possible. These websites have many posts from single men, so without something unique, it's hard to attract attention. Also, post frequently; forum posts are updated quickly, and your post will soon be pushed to the back. However, things are different now. These websites are fewer, and many are either paid or require points, which is annoying.
Currently, the best way to find a partner is through QQ groups. Please note, this isn't an advertisement for our group. Although many groups have fake members, the sheer number of people means you can still find some good matches.
Regarding the age of the couple, you can choose according to your own preferences. I think couples aged 35-40 generally have a higher success rate because couples in this age group have more stable careers and families, and their thinking is relatively more open. As for
location, some say it's better to find someone in the same city, while others say it's better to find someone a little further away. My opinion is that if you're in a big city like Beijing or Tianjin, you can find someone in the same city; if you're in a smaller city like Qinhuangdao, it's better to find someone in a nearby city.
Adding a new couple inevitably leads to conversations. While most couples engaging in threesomes are contacted by the husband, if the conversation is always dominated by the husband, problems are bound to arise. Although couples involved in this activity are generally open-minded, they are usually of high character and speak with discretion. If you encounter someone whose conversations are erratic and who even asks for explicit photos, you should question their sincerity.
Thirdly, communication. This refers to the exchange between you after finding a couple who are generally satisfied in all aspects and who also approve of you. Finding a suitable, genuine couple doesn't guarantee you can engage in threesomes. Threesomes require mutual satisfaction and attraction, so communication is essential. This may take time, so be patient; it's the most crucial aspect of threesome dating.
This communication involves two parts: communication with the other person's husband and communication with their spouse. Threesome dating is unique in that the sexual activity is centered around the other person's wife. Therefore, the activity will only proceed if the wife is satisfied and interested in you. For the husband, it's essentially finding a partner for his wife, so he also needs to be satisfied and feel you are of good character.
In most cases, the person seeking a partner in a threesome is the husband, and he will only introduce you to his wife if he is satisfied. When chatting with the husband, be sincere and genuine, and project a high level of sophistication. There's no fixed formula; just normal communication to build trust. This communication with the husband is crucial, as the threesome involves three people, including the husband. Mutual trust and understanding are essential for achieving the desired effect. When the conversation is nearly complete, you can video chat with the husband or send him your photos.
It's important to avoid asking trivial questions at the beginning, such as how he used to engage in threesomes or whether his wife is open-minded. Such questions can easily offend him. Another point is to avoid boasting. Be truthful and state the facts. Some single men like to say in chats that they are "180cm tall, super handsome, and have amazing sexual prowess," which is very immature.
Normally, if the woman's husband is satisfied with you, he will quickly introduce you to his wife so you can communicate. When chatting with a woman, don't start by bringing up threesomes; just have normal conversations, talk about your hobbies, and recent events. Many couples have said that many single men go astray in conversations, using vulgar language or even suggesting looking at the woman's body, which is offensive. If you really want to have fun, please don't do that. Communicating with a woman takes time. Slowly build trust, and once the woman is interested in you, you can naturally move on to the topic of threesomes.
A husband who genuinely wants to have fun will also communicate with you while you're chatting with the woman. If they feel you're a good match, they will tell you how much their wife approves of you, and even tell you about their wife's hobbies, to facilitate better communication. So don't forget to communicate with her husband just because you're chatting with her.
Fourth: Meeting. If the communication goes well and both parties are satisfied, the real-world stage naturally begins. Just because the other person agrees to meet doesn't mean you'll actually engage in the activity. Online communication and real-life interaction are different. Meeting in person is a crucial process for building trust and goodwill in real life.
When meeting, dress formally, projecting a refined and cultured image. Avoid wearing outlandish clothing. Those who engage in this activity are usually stable, white-collar couples with families and careers, and they naturally expect you to be like that.
Since you're involved, don't be stingy. I've always felt that while this activity is passionate and avant-garde, it's also a gentlemanly act. It's best to give the lady a gift when you meet, as couples who engage in this activity are generally older than you. It's not about the value of the gift, but about the overall impression.
It's best to meet in a public place to give the other person a sense of security, and preferably in the morning so you have ample time for real-life communication. You can start by inviting them to dinner; eating, chatting, and drinking are the simplest and most effective ways to communicate. After dinner, if there's time, you can invite them to have some fun, preferably in a relatively private setting, such as a karaoke bar or a movie. If the man is satisfied with you at this point, and wants you to spend more time with his wife, for example, he might have her sit next to you during the movie.
Once the communication is mostly complete, you can move on to the practical stage. You can tentatively ask, "Where are you staying tonight?" Usually, at this point, the man will express his opinion, and you can then go to a hotel. The room should ideally be high-end, quiet, and safe, preferably with a large bed.
Again, since you're going to have fun, don't be stingy; be generous. The couple is usually older than you, and they won't expect you to pay for everything—that's only natural.
Five: Threesome. Once the room is booked and the couple enters, they're obviously not just there to relax. I won't go into too much detail about how to start or how to play, as everyone's preferences are different. I'll just share a few of my own experiences.
Foreplay: In a threesome, a woman can receive caresses from two men, but at the same time, the presence of a man other than her husband can make her nervous. You need to use foreplay to ease her tension and arouse her emotions. Don't rush into penetration. At the beginning, you and the other woman's husband should caress her together. There are many ways to do this; you can kiss her simultaneously, for example, the husband kissing his wife while you caress her breasts. A better approach is to lick the woman's genitals while the other woman's husband is caressing his wife; this can quickly arouse her. Remember not to rush; arouse the woman's emotions before proceeding.
Don't forget the other woman's husband during penetration. In a threesome, the woman is the focus; the husband's satisfaction comes more from psychological needs, so he usually won't last very long. However, don't forget the other woman's husband's presence during penetration. Encourage the woman to approach her husband so she can feel his caresses.
If possible, you can try some new methods. Women are most open when there is penile penetration in the vagina, and most can accept new methods and variations. You can discuss this with your partner's husband.
These are my suggestions, and I hope they are helpful. Experienced friends are welcome to add any missing information.

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