How to get my wife to accept threesomes?

Many couples, especially the men, find guiding their wives into a threesome incredibly difficult, unsure where to begin.

Actually, guiding your wife into a threesome is like making a work plan. You need to understand your goal. To achieve this goal, you need to break it down into several stages. What are the objectives for each stage?

As a man, you need to understand women's psychology, their sexual psychology, and their personality. And as a man, engaging in this activity should not be done impulsively, without considering the consequences or the psychological state of both partners at each stage; otherwise, the outcome often leads to loss of control. So how exactly do you guide your wife into a threesome?

First, you need to be clear about which stage you are currently in. Most couples usually stop at saying to their wives during sex, "Shall I find another single man to 'bully' you?" Because of the excitement during sex, the wife might reply, "Okay, find someone else to 'do it with me,'" or remain silent, but noticeably become more wet and tighter. At this point, very few women will directly say, "You're a pervert!" Haha

, but often many men don't take it to the next step because during sex, wives will think that when you say you want to find a man to sleep with, it's like saying dirty words during sex, just to provoke her. They'll think it's a joke. Only after sex, when you hold your wife and continue to be tender, and in a relaxed and half-joking state, seriously say to your wife: Honey, when are we going to find a single man, and I'll sleep with you with a single man? At this point, the wife will finally realize that you really had this idea. However, due to different personalities and individuals, her response will vary: 1. "You're a pervert!" 2. "No comment!" 3. "Get out!" (or her face will immediately change color).

So what should the man do at this point? The man must understand that women are generally reserved. Even if she secretly desires you to have sex with another man, she won't say it aloud. Men are lustful, but women are even more so; otherwise, who would men lust after? Because most women are secretly passionate. The man needs to understand that women's reserve stems from concerns. What are these concerns? The man must explain to his wife the reason for playing this game. He must let her know that he plays this game because he loves her, wants her to enjoy herself, and wants to make her more passionate. If you want your wife to be more satisfied, and this activity won't affect your marital relationship or your family, then you've already succeeded halfway through your threesome plan. Perhaps your wife won't agree the first time you talk to her about it, but after repeatedly explaining to her that you love her, truly love her, and just want her to enjoy herself while you get excitement and passion, and that this activity won't affect your family or your marital relationship, and that if you've already done this, there will definitely be no more infidelity between you, and you'll have good, honest communication, which is more conducive to family harmony, then after repeatedly explaining and communicating with your wife, you'll gain her trust and eventually get her consent.

As a husband, you must think carefully about whether you are truly mentally prepared for your wife's intimacy to involve another stranger, and to witness that man's penis entering her body. Close your eyes and imagine it. If you feel comfortable, then continue. If not, stop immediately. There is a big difference between imagining and actually doing it. When your wife is actually penetrated by another man, the husband will often feel a pang of guilt, perhaps even a moment of regret, but it will be too late; it's already happened. Those who are mentally prepared will experience these feelings, but also feel excitement, passion, and thrill, and will join the battle of conquering their wives more quickly. If you are not mentally prepared and cannot withstand this pressure, then you can expect endless regret afterward.

Next, you must carefully and cautiously find a suitable single man as soon as possible. In fact, you should start preparing for this even before your wife agrees. The most important requirements for a single man are: stability (as this involves privacy), not being a blabbermouth, gentleness, sensitivity, good communication skills, the ability to observe and understand the mindset of couples at any time, the ability to control the pace of the activity, consideration for everyone's feelings, rich sexual experience, strong sexual ability, sensitivity, sufficient foreplay, and a gradual approach. Appearance is actually a last resort; as long as he's not frightening, he should be clean, hygienic, healthy, and energetic. You must act as soon as your wife agrees, because many couples, even if the wife agrees, often procrastinate, resulting in the wife later disagreeing, and the man starting to doubt whether anyone can actually have such an activity. The first time is very important; a good and satisfactory threesome often makes future activities more beneficial.

If you've talked to your wife for a long time and she still doesn't agree, then as a second-best option, take her to a private room and have a male foot masseur give her a foot massage. She'll be tempted, and you can then make some lighthearted jokes about it, slowly moving from her feet to her back. You'll then realize that all you really need is the right man to gently push your wife down—it's that simple.

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