Casual Talk 3P

I feel this article contains some fallacies, so I'm forwarding it. Regarding

the statement that "this has become a popular trend in Chinese society," I disagree. I still agree with Wikipedia's revelation: "This form of intercourse is not a recent development; polygamy creates favorable conditions for threesomes. Furthermore, threesomes are also common in prostitution, keeping mistresses, or one-night stands." "Tracing back through several dynasties: Emperor Cheng of Han, Liu Ao, was extremely fond of 'double-flying' (a euphemism for sexual intercourse). After having the Zhao Feiyan and Zhao Hede sisters, he often slept in the same bed with them, embracing them on both sides. Emperor Xiaowu of Southern Song, Liu Jun, did not avoid his mother, Lu Huinan, during sexual intercourse, indulging in debauchery in front of Empress Dowager Lu, and even raped her. From then on, 'the emperor (Liu Jun) showed little respect in his boudoir, and when he had sexual relations with someone, he would sometimes keep them in the Empress Dowager's room' (Book of Song, Biographies of Empresses and Consorts). Emperor Shun of Yuan, Toghon Temür, practiced 'double cultivation' through his brother-in-law... From the corrupt Han, Tang, and Ming dynasties, from imperial families to ordinary alleys, the phenomenon of 3P was commonplace and not worth mentioning. I also believe that our country has a huge market population. For example, the recent photos of Kunming officials in compromising situations—according to an editor who has worked in film and television advertising for 10 years: 'The three people sitting on the bed all looked directly at the person lying on the bed, their expressions were rich and extremely natural, and there was a high degree of tacit understanding between the three of them.'" "It's clear they've practiced repeatedly and deeply understand the essence of the 3P (partnership, partner, and partner) dynamic. Some say the Chinese workplace is an art of dining; who you eat with every day requires careful consideration and planning. Do it well, and you'll ride the wave of promotion; do it poorly, and you'll be sidelined or reassigned. And friendships at the dinner table tend to be superficial. After all, a dinner party involves anywhere from a few to a dozen people; developing a truly close relationship is clearly not deep enough. Hence the folk saying: 'For a truly close relationship, you either need comrades-in-arms or casual sex partners.'" This scenario, in our young minds, usually conjured up this image: a subordinate sitting outside, silently smoking, listening to their boss inside with their mistress or even their wife, the bed creaking and groaning, fantasizing about a bright future. Now, thinking about it, wouldn't a threesome with your boss, a shared battle, be even more effective? Working in the same company, dining at the same table, nothing beats sharing a bed. After all, working together makes you colleagues, eating together makes you comrades, and "fighting" together makes you kindred spirits, or even brothers-in-law. So, having the chance to have a threesome with a colleague or comrade means you're incredibly close, and only then could you become a trusted confidant. Of course, threesomes aren't a guaranteed win-win situation; after all, nothing in this world is perfect. Sexual relations are like warfare. Since it involves a threesome, you must master the timing and acting. Like playing cards with your boss, you can't always win, or you'll be asking for trouble. But you also can't blatantly lose, clearly throwing the game to curry favor, which will only make your boss less satisfied and less favorable. The key is to make your boss excited while losing just the right amount. This principle applies to threesomes as well, and it's even more subtle in practice. Having previously worked in the media, rumors circulated that a certain superior frequently had fringe models and actresses under his wing who sought to advance their careers through sexual favors. This self-proclaimed highly capable individual boasted that he would "open the eyes" of a subordinate, and thus summoned a woman willing to engage in such a scheme for a threesome. The encounter began with the superior and woman being uninhibited, while the subordinate remained quite shy and reserved. After the night, the superior and woman felt that this man was merely a spectator and lacked ability. Although he remained employed by the superior afterward, he was clearly held in low regard and never given any important responsibilities. This boss's threesome with another man had a completely different ending. This man and his boss enjoyed themselves immensely, but as time went on, the boss, being older and less energetic, eventually gave in. The man, however, became increasingly vigorous, monopolizing the woman's body, which aroused the boss's jealousy. As a result, the boss was gradually distanced and no longer trusted. Furthermore, male threesomes have a major drawback: they easily lead to negative effects. For example, in a female threesome, both partners can observe and comment on each other's breasts; but in a male threesome, size is a taboo subject, especially when the man is smaller than the woman, making it even more awkward. Therefore, to successfully flatter someone in the 3Ps (promotion, sales, and management), one must be concise, soft, and praise the superior's abilities. This leads to a broader trend in the workplace: in the modern workplace, if your superior is incompetent and you are capable, you're doomed. As a result, the superior is always wise, and subordinates all feign ignorance and weakness. This perpetuates the rigid hierarchical system of ruler-subject, father-son, and husband-wife relationships, naturally resulting in a scarcity of young talent and a lack of skilled personnel at the grassroots level. After all, good talent comes from the forest, and good people come from humble beginnings. This 3Ps analogy reveals a larger truth: it's no wonder that today's companies promote new employees either through hereditary succession by the boss's children or by those who are concise, soft, and obsequious. Consequently, companies lack new blood and pillars of society, hindering research and development, innovation, and industrial upgrading. Looking ahead to the future of 3P, imagine if we adopt a more open-minded approach; this once feudal relic might become a symbol of a new society. The reason is simple: 3P is not a male prerogative, but rather a "devil" lurking in everyone's heart. The desire for novelty and excitement is human nature. It's said that couples engaging in 3P with a third party can even benefit family harmony and stability, a result of mutual understanding and respect between loving couples. Feminism could also use this to humiliate male partners, letting them know that their partners are more interested in women's bodies. 3P might even become a new sporting event… a scenario that respects human rights and promotes fairness and well-being. Alternatively: Forcing everyone to forbid 3P will inevitably lead to someone saying, "I'll die if I don't do it." "If you play the game and get punished, you accept it. Many people dare not violate the explicit rules, so they don't play it, and over time, they get used to it. This is also a fair and beautiful situation. The worst is the third type: neither supporting nor opposing private 3P, nor supervising nor investigating officials' 3P. Once exposed, they shift the blame to one person. I feel sorry for that person: he's been in officialdom for so long that he no longer realizes his mistake. Many people know about his affair, so why didn't anyone stop or resist him? He must think 3P is consensual, or even something everyone enjoys. Bringing something underground to the surface is like an absurd drama; you can see the whole picture from a glimpse. The anger isn't about the resistance to 3P, but about the injustice. It's not about scarcity but inequality; it's not about whether you can 3P yourself but whether ordinary people can. If the higher-ups can't address the internal problems, how can they educate the people? If this continues, 3P will become a luxury and a symbol of the powerful, creating a very unfair and unpleasant situation." How innocent are these threesomes! In fact, I agree with the statement: "Everyone has the right to seek more than one intimate partner, to release stress and fill individual gaps in their private space through living with multiple partners." Honestly, having this need is perfectly normal. Just as some people are born attracted to the same sex, some enjoy unusual foods, and some remain unmarried—it's all human freedom. I believe that as long as it doesn't harm others and the consequences are acceptable, this personal choice shouldn't be explicitly suppressed. What's difficult to ascertain is whether the participants in a threesome felt hurt, or even coerced. And whether they can truly bear the consequences afterward. In reality, many people are like the man who professed to love dragons but was terrified of them. Who hasn't thought about arson, robbery, getting something for nothing, or committing evil deeds? But when it comes to actually doing such things, most rational people with self-control restrain themselves. Besides legal constraints, there's also the matter of self-moral judgment. Take Kubrick's film *Eyes Wide Shut*, for example. The initially loving couple believed that mutual honesty and even attending "swapping" parties would enhance their relationship. However, they didn't realize they weren't as open-minded as they thought, and their resentment ultimately led to their separation. It's said that Tom Cruise and Nick Fury divorced after filming this movie, demonstrating that human nature is far more complex and difficult to control than we imagine. If you're not confident in handling the psychological consequences of a threesome, can't guarantee you won't hurt others, and can't bear the social backlash if it's exposed; if you haven't even carefully considered these possibilities and concerns, I suggest you abandon your threesome dream. If you're certain you won't harm anyone, won't have any psychological burden afterward, will remain a happy "resilient" person even after being exposed, and are determined to continue with a threesome, then I can only offer my admiration and blessings. And I beg to be allowed to visit. After all, Superman and Martians deserve protection, don't you think? Everyone has the right to seek more than one intimate partner, to release stress and fill their individual gaps in privacy through living with more than one intimate partner.

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