What defines a high-quality single man?

Many couples who frequent the 69 forum often face numerous obstacles in their search for single men, constantly worrying about encountering scumbags. Some couples, especially first-timers, fear that a failed first attempt will leave a lasting psychological scar.

Based on my own experience, I'll share some points to consider when choosing a single man.

1. First and foremost, he should be an honest person. From a couple's perspective, if you're considering entering this circle, you should be mentally prepared. Whether you're reading posts or recruiting yourself, this first step is crucial. There are
thousands of single men on the forum, with approximately 3,000 regularly online daily. Of these, single men make up 80%, and they can be divided into three types.
One type is simply there for the spectacle; they come to read the posts, sometimes replying, hoping to find a suitable match.
The second type is the dedicated camper. These single men prepare their own scripts, which they tirelessly copy and paste. They're present behind every recruitment post; they seem born for this circle. They have ample time, a keen sense of smell, and exceptional language skills.
The third type is the lurker. These single men are either those who want to participate but lack the means, or they're committed. Those who want to participate but lack the means might be college students, high school students, 9-to-5 office workers, or unemployed. They enjoy reading and commenting on posts, adding various couples, and curiously exploring other people's secrets. Some are simply there to chat and never intend to take any action. They don't have the time to cultivate relationships; they only chat casually on their phones. The committed type, needless to say, has their own small, established circle that they generally don't abandon. They come to the forum, post when bored, and share their thoughts. However, these single men are very low-key and generally don't proactively contact others.
Returning to the main point, a trustworthy single man is the primary criterion for selection. You need to have a carefully prepared set of photos, language, and strategies to present yourself. And all of this should be the real you; there's absolutely no need to exaggerate your size or abilities. The proof is in the pudding; if you're honest, the couple's positive impression of you will greatly increase.

2. What should you pay attention to during the courtship process?
Many single men struggle with communication with couples. Their carefully prepared words often fail to find the right opportunity to express themselves. As the saying goes, the greater the hope, the greater the disappointment. Many single men fail before they even begin, not because they aren't good enough, but because they fail to cater to the couple's tastes. If we compare it to a job interview, single men must be prepared to go all the way. The interviewer is the husband in the couple; you need to find a way to impress him and prepare your own plan. Interviewers don't like nitpicking; humility and prudence are what they value.
If you succeed in the interview, congratulations, you've taken the first step. Here's a turning point. Many single men might succeed directly from this step, luckily meeting mature couples. However, for a significant number of single men, this is just the beginning for their partners.
Communication with the husband in a marriage is crucial. I don't think it's necessary to use your past experiences as leverage, let alone boast about it. Those are just the past. If you truly lack experience, it's better to learn and communicate more. Couples with less experience might need this kind of person; those who start on equal footing are more likely to come together.
If the husband thinks you're a good person and you get along well, he'll quickly arrange for you to meet his wife. Whether chatting or video chatting, a high-quality single man must understand his position and avoid usurping others' opportunities. Before you've reached that stage with them, don't engage in excessive flirting or try to manipulate others' thoughts. Every action you take is facing the test of impending success. Remember to avoid arrogance and impatience. Many single men reach this point but don't take the next step. A
high-quality single man also needs to be able to endure the challenges. I believe everyone has encountered this type of person: they chat enthusiastically the first day, become silent the second, and then disappear completely by the third. When a couple chooses you, you need to be proactive yet also passive at the right time. It's helpful to explain your usual schedule and free time beforehand. Choose opportune moments to initiate conversations. Some couples are hesitant at first; they're indecisive, wanting success but afraid of failure. Therefore, the best way to harmonize the relationship between the three of you is, if you truly run out of things to talk about online, single men, take the initiative to meet up. Have a meal, a movie, karaoke—anything goes. If you don't take the initiative, they won't either. If you boldly take this step, you're not far from success.

3. Scenario design is especially important. Once in real life, don't think about how to get immediate gratification. I think this is the real test of a quality single man. Your time is limited; it might only be a short meal or a movie. How well you seize this opportunity and create more chances for yourself depends on your performance. A friendly smile, a graceful and gentle gesture will subtly earn you points in the woman's heart, playing a seemingly insignificant but crucial role in your subsequent physical intimacy. The more harmonious you are, the easier it is to get into the mood. The woman needs guidance—guidance from a stranger, guidance from a familiar person, guidance from a trusted person, guidance from someone she's looking forward to; her feelings will be different each time. I hope single men can be the last type.

4. Interact well with your husband. An excellent single man always knows when to stop. Being an excellent single man isn't enjoyable; it's actually very tiring. The pressure is immense, stemming from the internal test of oneself and the evaluation of the other couple. Don't put in effort for nothing. When you do put in effort, do your best to perfectly cater to the other person's feelings. If they don't like your flirtatious or provocative language, say less. At appropriate times, take the camera from your husband and, as an appreciator, capture the wonderful moments for others as well. Don't monopolize someone else's wife. This activity isn't for you alone; it's a three-person game. If you quit too early, it will make others feel awkward.

5. Be playful and quick-witted. Being playful isn't just about knowing how to play with women and understanding their bodies; it's also about knowing how to play various games. After taking the first step, there will always be awkward moments. If the husband isn't prepared, single men should always have something ready in advance. A quick-witted person will always say the right thing at the right time, whether it's praising the other person, easing the atmosphere, or guiding actions. Be sure to seize every opportunity to continuously improve your performance in this activity.

6. It's actually difficult to describe in words how to perform better in front of different people. If the other person treats you as a regular playmate, then you'll be excellent in the future, whether it's a three-person game or you're allowed to have a solo date. Always treat yourself as a guest, don't interfere in other people's family affairs, don't pry into their privacy, and don't invest your feelings. It's important that you can strictly control yourself when needed and when not needed.

7. Couples, don't always be afraid of not meeting good people. Good people not only need to be discovered by yourself, but also need to be changed by yourself. Carefully cultivating an excellent single man will make your life more colorful. Why search so hard? Isn't it better to create your own? Single men, don't always observe. Sincerely adapt to others and improve yourself. You will become more excellent.

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