Reprinted: How to Train Your Wife

(This is a repost of someone else's article, and I think it's well-written.)
Recently, I've seen many netizens on couples' websites asking this question, or seeking advice on how to persuade their wives to participate in couples' video chats, couples' dating, and threesomes. In my personal opinion, this is more than just a sexual game; such a decision is no less difficult than choosing the girl next door as your wife. Before starting this game, try answering a few questions yourself, preferably in your own home with the door closed and no one disturbing you, with a small light on, looking through old photos of you and your wife, and sincerely reflecting on the following questions:
1. Are you mentally prepared for this?
2. Do you have the psychological capacity to handle this?
3. How sincere are you in sharing your wife's body with others in this game? Watching your wife enjoy the excitement and orgasm brought by the physical contact with a stranger, or enduring the constant moans?
4. How many years have you been married? (If you've been married for less than two years, it's best not to consider couples' dating; I think your marital sex life should still have room for mutual exploration.)
5. Do you love your wife? Does she love you in return?
6. Is your communication with your spouse open and honest?
7. Can you and your spouse trust each other?

If you can answer these questions correctly, then you have the necessary conditions to persuade your wife to participate in video chat, couples' dating, or threesomes. This means you fully understand your wife and can control the scope and direction of such activities. Some
might say, "You're making this a bit complicated!" Actually, I think this initial complexity will make your future activities simpler and happier. Every game has rules. Since you've decided to participate in video chat, swapping, or threesomes, all activities should adhere to your initial agreement—mutual and shared. Breach of contract by either party will turn what should be a beautiful affair into something awkward and sordid, even irreparable. Everything has its pros and cons; the goal of this is to ensure the benefits far outweigh the drawbacks. Only then can we fully enjoy and experience couples' dating.
Everyone is excited and eager to participate when they encounter such websites or topics, wondering if they can persuade their wife today. Such thinking is simplistic and overly eager for quick results. In reality, persuading your wife is also a life experience and enjoyment, allowing you to witness changes in her during the process. These changes include changes in her language, physical behavior, and most importantly, a shift in the passion during your intimate moments. The previously unchanging positions and restrained sounds of sex suddenly offer a new physical experience. You discover how open your wife is; her primal, impulsive, and sensual beauty is fully displayed before you, leaving you wanting more… Under the call of sex, you gain a new understanding and appreciation of your wife. This is why you might choose video conferencing, couples engaging in intimate acts, or threesomes. All this is to encourage readers to be prepared for a long-term commitment and to experience the feelings and beauty that come with the process.
The following text and time will teach you how to begin persuading your wife. Any shortcomings are open to correction and guidance from experienced individuals. Learning, learning, and learning again is Lan Xinrong's consistent principle.

Part 1: Breaking the Ice in Sexual Relationships (Overcoming Verbal Shame)

In daily life, you can use many situations to guide your wife, encouraging her to openly express her views and needs regarding sex, even revealing her desire for a particular part of your body. During intimacy, play some interesting movies. This adds spice to the act and allows her to enjoy watching others engage in sexual activity, increasing curiosity and excitement. The best content includes films featuring two men and one woman or two women and two men, played while you and your partner are making love. Let your wife learn different sexual positions, experiencing the stimulation from different angles, ensuring she can see the content. Then, verbally tease her, encouraging her to directly comment on the strength and muscularity of the men in the films, and the pleasure derived from the size and length of a penis. Whisper in her ear if she wants such a penis inside her, and simultaneously ask if she wants to suck on a penis. While engaging in sexual intercourse, try to elicit vulgar and open language from your wife. The more open her language, the less shame she will feel, which is crucial. A woman's thoughts are blurred and beyond her control when she's experiencing orgasm. Encourage her to call you "brother," "older brother," "father," or the names of people she usually likes and trusts. You should act as the objects of your fantasies. The choice of fantasy object during intercourse depends on your wife's personality; this will make her more excited and eager. Observe what sounds or how she addresses you most wantonly and passionately, and mention those things during repeated encounters.
Gradually, during intercourse, subtly suggest finding another man for the three of you to have intercourse together. Imagine your wife giving you oral sex while you insert your fingers into her vagina, giving her double stimulation. Whisper to her, asking if she enjoys two penises, or if she wants two penises to be used simultaneously… After establishing a certain foundation, during your intimate moments, suggest to your wife that she find you a girlfriend. In the heat of passion, make sure she names the person she's finding you. As you call out the name of the girlfriend your wife has found for you, both of you should reach climax. Afterward, guide your wife to relive the excitement. After several repetitions, you'll find your wife is no longer shy in your presence, and bold, provocative words will come from her mouth without embarrassment.

Second: Couples' Websites (Breaking Through Mindset Changes)
Having taken the first step, your wife may have thought that your intimate conversations were just private talk, but she's surprised to discover the existence of so many couples' dating websites and so many people searching and experiencing these things in real life. You should earnestly introduce your wife to the various sections of these websites, sharing articles by experienced couples discussing dating and threesomes. Occasionally, ask her for her opinions and thoughts on the protagonists in the stories. Fortunately, the comments and replies from users on these websites are objective, positive, and encouraging. This is a subtle, proactive shift in mindset. Your wife discovers that it's not just you and your husband who engage in sexual activity this way. She realizes there's a group of people who share her pursuit of sexual pleasure, and whose views and actions on sex are even more fashionable and avant-garde than yours. When your wife reads these kinds of articles, her body will likely react strongly; she'll probably be aroused. Use your hands to caress her body, from her breasts to her genitals, letting her experience both visual stimulation and physical pleasure from her husband. Perhaps at this point, your wife will push you down on the bed, letting you experience that rape isn't just a male-only experience.
These websites also have sections for couples' selfies, where many wives, encouraged and supported by their husbands, take photos showcasing their figures in various sexy lingerie. While you and your husband enjoy these photos, have your wife comment on them, commenting on the women's charm (and also have her comment on articles about couples dating or threesomes; if your wife can't type, you can do it for her, but it's best if you ask for her opinion on the content). The purpose of this is to help your wife have a correct understanding of this matter and accept it intellectually. The photos posted online are all faceless. You can use words to compliment your wife on how slim, voluptuous, and sexy she is. Posting a few photos online will definitely get you more compliments and replies from men. After using couples' dating websites for a while, you can move on to the next step.

Three: Couples' Selfies (Breaking Down Physical Barriers)
Initially, your wife might feel shy about wearing revealing lingerie. You can choose ordinary pajamas, sitting or lying on the bed, subtly revealing her long, shapely legs, a hint of her pert buttocks, her still-slim waist despite years of marriage, and a low neckline that reveals an alluring cleavage. Compile these photos and post them on a couples' dating website, browsing the comments and replies with your wife daily. When your wife discovers so many netizens, mostly men, praising her figure, she feels proud and honored—a fiery feeling, a sweet and exciting sensation that quenches her thirst like parched land. Your wife is slowly enjoying it. At this point, she'll be eager to post even better photos online, garnering even more praise from men. Imagine, what woman doesn't want men to admire and praise her, even with her naked body? The explicit praise from netizens only fuels her desire. When you take photos again, you can buy some sexy lingerie to make her look alluring. Perhaps during your intimate moments, she'll pose seductively and flirtatiously, already showing signs of being a little slut. You'll then ask your wife to be bolder, more open, and more revealing. She'll likely comply. Your wife will no longer be satisfied with just your compliments; she'll crave the attention and praise of other men. (Perhaps from this moment on, you'll feel a slight pang of sadness and pain, but to achieve your ultimate goal, you'll restrain your words and control your emotions so your wife won't notice). If you want to continue this, let's move on to the next step:

4. QQ Dating (Breaking Through Verbal Flirting with Strangers)
Before posting your couple's selfies online, create a QQ account for your wife. Posting her photos will attract interested netizens who want to chat. Through these initial chats, select a few netizens you think are suitable, or potential partners for future video calls, swapping, or threesomes. Tell them about your current situation and that you need their help, and persuade your wife through QQ. At this point, you'll feel like a traitor, a mole, because you're so determined to pursue alternative sexual satisfaction and excitement. All of this must be done secretly, behind your wife's back. You and your online friend reach an agreement, you tell your friend about your wife's current situation, as detailed as possible. It must be planned and methodical, with the language in the chat gradually deepening… You give your wife's QQ number to your online friend. The next step is to create time for your wife to add your friend and get them chatting. Trust your online friend, who is also your ally, they will use all their skills to first build friendship and gain your wife's favor, then mutual trust. It's best to address each other as "brother," "sister," "older sister," or "younger brother" to easily build rapport. Then, use increasingly suggestive language, gradually revealing and teasing your wife with risqué jokes. This will be an interesting process; your ally will challenge their abilities and charm, while your wife will gain psychological pleasure from their words. On the surface, you appear to be an outsider, but you are fully aware of everything, occasionally participating in their chat. Your ally will definitely ask for photos or videos of your wife. Then encourage your wife to send the photos you took together to the other person and exchange photos with them. After this familiarization process, suggest that your wife video chat with the other person. With your encouragement, your wife will naturally accept the video chat because of the groundwork laid and the positive conversation between you and your partner. Through the video chat between you and your partner, your wife's initial restraint and nervousness will gradually disappear. She will gradually adapt to the other person's verbal teasing and stimulation amidst her excitement, and a hint of desire will emerge from her shyness—a desire for something to happen between her and the other person. This inner anticipation is the opportunity for your next step.

Five: Video Sexual Intercourse (Overcoming the Psychological Barrier of Being Spied On)
After a period of verbal stimulation and communication with the online friend, coupled with the instilling of your values in daily life, the time is ripe. What you need to do is find an opportunity to video chat with the online friend couple. Ideally, you and your partner should video chat together. The initial chat is just to cultivate interest and get to know each other, gradually deepening the relationship as you become more familiar. During the chat, use verbal teasing to ignite each other's desire. Your online friends must be quite experienced; they're definitely much more open-minded than you. Try to imitate them, learning their actions in the videos. You should frequently touch your wife's body, letting them see. The couple will also touch each other in response, and the best part is that the video shows not only each other but also themselves. With two layers of images appearing before your wife's eyes, this visual effect is something she's never experienced before, a truly overwhelming experience that will leave her both shy and excited. At this point, she'll likely be completely uninhibited, letting your hands roam over her body, even though she knows they can see everything. Cooperate with your online friends' actions, slowly removing your wife's clothes until she's completely naked in your video… The rest is self-explanatory. After this exciting live stream, openly savor the experience with your wife.

Six: Couples' Friendships and Threesomes (Overcoming Your Inner Bitterness and Pain)
With the above groundwork laid, the substantive couples' friendships and threesomes are just around the corner. I suggest you start with a threesome, since it's your first time, especially for your wives. The success of your first time will influence your next steps. In a threesome, the woman takes the lead, with the two men supporting her. Imagine how focused she will be, enjoying the pleasure from both men. Would your wife then object to further threesomes? A word of advice: when choosing a single man, let your wife decide who is suitable. After all, she's offering her body to another man besides her husband, so try to satisfy her. Your wife's satisfaction will ensure a happy and fulfilling sex life in the future.
As a man, you'll undoubtedly experience a bittersweet moment in this game. Your beloved wife will be naked, enjoying another form of love, receiving the impact of another body… You'll feel heartache, perhaps regret, and may even bear the consequences for your future actions!

In conclusion:
every wife's level of conservatism is different, and their understanding of life and the world varies, so it depends on the individual. You should adapt to the specific circumstances. If any netizens need my help, I, Lan Xinrong, would be happy to oblige. Here, I wish all my readers can find their own sexual happiness. I hope that you can learn something from my article and that it can help you, even if it's just a little bit...

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