Some thoughts on couples and single men dating (repost)

First of all, I think that mutual respect is the most basic requirement, whether you're a married couple or a single man.
As a single man, of course, sleeping with someone else's wife can be exciting. But if the couple makes too many demands, like expecting licking or gifts, honestly, if it were me, I'd just block them. Some might ask, why? My answer is, this is something both parties want to do, but why should it be up to the married couple to decide? Without even basic mutual respect, what's the point? I might as well just go to a prostitute. To those who say single men are impatient, I want to say, even without a girlfriend, does that mean you can't have sex? I don't think so, because I myself am a single man without a girlfriend, but I have a divorced, respectable lover.
Seeking a single man is a voluntary act; don't make it sound like single men are begging. As single men, we also need basic respect.
I think we shouldn't always talk about manners. This kind of thing is consensual; if you can't get along after meeting, just let it go. How can you know what the other person is like if you don't meet them? Many people demand a single, well-mannered man, but couples don't have such requirements. Doesn't that seem unfair? It's supposed to be a mutually enjoyable experience, but is it really okay to ignore the feelings of the single man?
Many people post saying it's hard to find a single man; they want to have fun but can't find one! Actually, if you don't have such high standards, you'll find one eventually.
Some people say that lower education equates to lower quality, but there are far more hypocrites than honest people in this world! So what if someone is less educated? They know how to respect others. And what if someone is highly educated? If they look down on others and have high demands, why would I want to have fun with them?
I think it's best to split the costs for this kind of thing. Because this kind of thing can't be done frequently; if it happens often, one of the couples will definitely have a problem. Also, many people who do this are in long-distance relationships, and the couple might only meet a few times a year. Even if they live in the same city, it's impossible to do this every few days. Splitting the costs between the couple will significantly reduce expenses for both.
The first meeting is usually just a meal to get acquainted, then going to a hotel; everything else is already discussed online or via QQ. If, upon meeting, the couple immediately demands dinner, karaoke, or something similar, and insists the single man pay, as a single man, firstly, I'd be unhappy, and secondly, I'd wonder if I've encountered someone who scams people into spending money for a commission. Of course, if the couple has been together a few times and is familiar with each other, and the single man is a bit wealthy, paying more is acceptable; after all, one
shouldn't be stingy. As a couple, don't make too many demands. Also, if you've invited a single man, you should be prepared. Don't let him come and then decide you don't want to continue—that would be incredibly unfair. Furthermore, don't force him; you want to have fun, and so does he. Some single men may have limited sexual experience. These men are usually honest and straightforward; you can teach them gradually. Never suggest expecting a single man to lick your feet or genitals immediately after sex. Of course, if he's a seasoned womanizer, he'll do it anyway without you saying anything.
Furthermore, some people say that after adding a single man as a friend, they find him to be stiff and awkward in conversation, so they block him immediately. I don't understand this behavior. Some single men are very young, haven't been working for many years, and don't have a girlfriend yet. It's not surprising that such people aren't very good at talking. Moreover, some of these single men are often quite rigid in real life, often with little social circle and only a few friends. However, these people are usually clean, have no criminal record, and don't have any unusual medical conditions. This is because their fixed mindset has already constrained them. Such people, even if they meet in person, are often embarrassed and shy.
As for those experienced womanizers who are very good at chatting, don't get too excited. If you encounter someone who's setting a trap, the spouse will be in trouble. It's very likely that the wife will be taken advantage of and blackmailed, and she'll be too ashamed to report it. As for contracting a sexually transmitted disease, you can only blame your bad luck.
In short, respect is the foundation of a bright future!

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