The reasons why men are cuckolded

The term "green hat" has a long history and various explanations, but the most widely circulated one is that Emperor Zhu Yuanzhang once decreed that men working for prostitutes must wear green headscarves and red armbands. From then on, people knew that the man wearing a "green hat" was unfaithful, and "green hat" became a colloquial term for a man's wife engaging in prostitution or adultery. Chinese people have historically despised those who wear green hats, but in reality, there are men who are "enthusiastic" about wearing them. Don't believe it? Read on.
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There are approximately 40-50 million homosexuals in China. Due to a lack of understanding and respect from society, some homosexual men, in order to conceal their homosexuality, reluctantly choose heterosexual women as wives, leading many women into the tragic life of "wives of gay men." Because homosexual men are not interested in women, some may have limited sexual activity with their wives in the early stages of marriage for the purpose of procreation, but this gradually decreases and soon disappears. Some even have no sexual activity at all, with wives remaining virgins for many years of marriage.
In families where homosexuals and heterosexuals are married, both parties are victims, a result of cultural rejection and persecution of sexual orientation by the mainstream. After learning of their husbands' homosexuality, most wives of gay men (or "wives of gay men") remain silent for various reasons, allowing the marriage to continue. Faced with their wives' sexual deprivation, some gay husbands tacitly allow their wives to have lovers, or even actively help them find lovers. Their aim is to reduce the guilt of deceiving their wives during courtship and not satisfying them, alleviate their wives' sexual anxiety, and maintain the marriage.
2. The Considerate Man:
This type of man is often away from his wife for various reasons, or if he is, he may be unable to satisfy her due to sexual dysfunction. Faced with his wife's sexual needs, out of pity and concern that she might be tempted by unscrupulous men, he might hint at or even help her find a reliable man to be her lover and fulfill his sexual obligations. I have a client whose husband works in another city and often sends a friend to help his wife. Later, this friend wanted to have sex with her, which she refused. The friend then told her it was her husband's idea, which angered her so much that she wanted a divorce. She felt her husband was testing her and didn't trust her.
3. Men who cheat first:
These men love their wives but occasionally cheat for some reason and then feel guilty and worried. Fearing their wives will find out and divorce them, they might orchestrate a situation to make their wives cheat on them, alleviating their anxiety. Their purpose is twofold: first, to hold evidence against their wives should the affair be exposed; second, to achieve psychological balance by balancing things out (which is actually very difficult). Some men want to cheat but worry about not having a reason to be forgiven if their wives find out, so they also orchestrate a situation to make their wives cheat first, giving them a reason to cheat and allowing them to have their own fun without guilt.
4. Men seeking novelty and variety in their sex lives:
In today's diverse society, sex is no exception. Prostitution, group sex, and BDSM, which deviate from traditional sexual culture, are becoming increasingly accepted. I had a client who longed to see his wife raped by other men. When she refused, he invited a group of men and women with similar fetishes to his home to perform, driving his wife to the point of wanting a divorce.
5. Men who treat their wives as money-making tools:
These men are lazy and incapable of earning money. To make money, they will actively force their wives to become sex workers or seduce men, reaping the benefits. If their wives disagree, they will patiently lecture them, even resorting to physical violence to force them to agree.
6. Men who use their wives to pay off their superiors to pave the way for their careers:
These men value power highly. If their careers are hindered, they will do anything to advance their careers. If they encounter a powerful figure who "prefers feminine attire to military uniforms," these men will not hesitate to have their wives pay off their superiors to pave the way for their own advancement. This often occurs in the civil service, and it's not a secret that the media frequently reports on secretaries simultaneously bestowing two hats (official hat and cuckold's hat) upon new leaders.
7. Men who force their wives to conceive:
These men believe in the saying "Of the three unfilial acts, the greatest is to have no offspring," but are distressed by their own infertility. To continue their family line, they will painfully force their wives to seduce men they believe have good genes. Once successful, they will quickly force their wives to break off the relationship, then spend the rest of their lives agonizing over whether they will have a "son" or a "bastard."

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