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Methods to help women achieve orgasm, written by a girl. I personally feel you should learn these for a sense of happiness! (Six-Pit Peach, 2014-09-28 15:00)19. Let me talk about a few things guys do that I hate most. Some guys never give girls oral sex, but they expect girls to blow-feed them, or lick them until they're wet, or even spit on their hands, smear it on their genitals, and then insert it. Please, that wetness is from saliva, not the girl's natural lubrication. It's so inconsiderate. Even if I thrust for a long time, I hardly feel anything. First, it's psychologically uncomfortable, and second, the clitoris isn't stimulated enough, so the vagina isn't sensitive enough. Many guys say their girlfriends don't like being licked or don't like clitoral stimulation. The first reason is that the girl thinks it's dirty, a psychological factor. This requires a lot of communication, or even a little coaxing. Many guys say that if a girl doesn't want to blow-feed you, but you really make her feel good, she will reciprocate. If you only use your penis to thrust, a woman will never orgasm. The best method is to thrust while simultaneously rubbing her clitoris with your hand. When she's close to orgasm, increase the speed. After a while, she won't need your hand anymore because she's already orgasmed. Stop rubbing her clitoris then, otherwise she'll just be in pain. At this point, if you can increase the speed of your thrusting during her orgasm (how to tell if she's orgasming is very simple: she'll moan loudly, and her body will move involuntarily), then she's orgasming. At this point, increase the speed of your rubbing her clitoris, while keeping the speed of your thrusting at a moderate to high speed (to avoid ejaculating or running out of strength later). After she orgasms, don't worry, she'll automatically remove your hand without you having to say anything. If you still can't ejaculate at this point, then increase the speed of your thrusting by 200%. I guarantee she'll moan louder and louder. So, you'll never orgasm by just thrusting with your penis. The first method I mentioned was to bring a woman to orgasm, guaranteed to make her fall in love with you. Another method is to use your tongue to lick her clitoris. The technique requires a bit of skill. The best way is to start from the vaginal opening and work your way up to the clitoris, as the vaginal opening also has sensation. However, to bring her to orgasm, you need to shift your tongue and focus on the clitoris (adjust the pressure as needed). When licking the clitoris, don't lick directly down. If I pulled back the foreskin and licked the glans immediately, many men would cry out in pain! It's too sensitive. So, lick the left and right sides of the clitoris first, occasionally brushing it over. Be careful with your teeth, or use a little saliva to cover the clitoris with your lips, opening and closing them like a fish, or press down on the clitoris with your tongue, using the underside of your tongue instead of the tip (because I can only feel it; men with practical experience, please share). Regularly rub the sides of the clitoris up and down. Strangely, my right side is more sensitive than my left. When I masturbate, I constantly rub the right side of my clitoris with my hand instead of directly rubbing the clitoris. You could ask your girlfriend to masturbate in front of you, and then you could masturbate together and watch. This way, you can understand what feels good for her, because some things are hard to explain just by asking. I'm certain that licking the clitoris can lead to orgasm, but it's like a woman just using her mouth to make a man ejaculate—it's quite tiring. But which feels better, a woman using her hand to make a man ejaculate, or using her mouth to make him ejaculate? I once met a really difficult guy who took 40 minutes of oral sex to ejaculate. I swear, my oral sex skills aren't too bad. He was a very strange person; he could thrust for two hours straight without ejaculating. He said that in the three years he'd dated his girlfriends, he only ejaculated three times using penetration. He had a large penis, was on the basketball team, and had great stamina, but he just couldn't ejaculate. Having sex with him was an endurance race, going from initial pleasure to pain, to exhaustion, to numbness—it was incredibly unsatisfying, so it's not about how long it lasts. And it was very boring. Towards the end, he said he was hungry and asked me to cook instant noodles, which left me freezing cold. If you have a free hand, caress the breasts, or use your two fingers – but before inserting two fingers, use one finger first to get the vagina used to it. I love it when the guy licks while stirring his finger inside the vagina, like a whisk. Or, with your palm facing outwards, do a cycling motion to stimulate the G-spot. The sensitivity of the G-spot is beyond imagination, so the guy needs to adjust the pressure of his fingers. When the clitoris is stimulated, the entire vaginal opening becomes sensitive. At this point, you can reduce the stimulation to avoid the girl being overwhelmed. Cover the vaginal opening with your palm and vibrate. This kind of stimulation can also bring me to squirt. Or, you can rub your penis against the opening, especially when the guy is about to ejaculate. You can do this after pulling out, so the girl won't feel like you're about to come, but it will still make her feel very comfortable. Many people say that girls will ask you to stop. I've thought about many reasons, but I basically know that most girls feel like they need to urinate during orgasm, or afterward. These girls may have the ability to squirt, but the key point is that they can't handle that overly sensitive feeling, or they feel like they need to urinate and suppress it. This feeling is similar to a man needing to urinate but being unable to. For those who can't handle it, it can be uncomfortable, just like how some men feel pain when touching their penis after sex, while others don't. So when a woman gets too stimulating, she might ask to stop. But when stopping, you can simply stop thrusting, but try the less stimulating method I mentioned earlier. At this point, don't touch the clitoris anymore, as it will be uncomfortable, but the vaginal opening is fine. Also, the G-spot on the breasts (if you don't understand, read my "Squirt Girl's Account"), areas that aren't normally major erogenous zones will become very sensitive. And the worst experience I've ever had was when a guy said, "You're not wet yet, lick me wet before I put it in." I remember this guy vividly; we were going to continue dating, but his behavior made me think he was incredibly selfish. If a woman isn't wet, it's because the guy didn't try hard enough, not because he expects me to provide full service. So we broke up not long after. It wasn't that his bedroom skills were bad, although they really weren't great, but I think his rudeness was the main reason. There's also the issue of ejaculation occurring without warning. Even if I haven't climaxed yet, and I know guys might not be able to hold back, saying it makes the girl feel more involved, rather than just being a vessel for release. I like it when guys say things like, "I'm so excited, you have to climax with me! I'm going to give you a lot of my semen!" before ejaculating. It's the same as when Maggie says she likes men moaning; I love hearing that too. But don't swear. (Remember, no matter how excited a girl is, if she says she can ejaculate inside, you shouldn't, unless she's in her safe period. Respect and equality are the foundation of a relationship and the key to perfect sex next time.) I've met guys who were 183cm tall, but their penises were only the length of a thumb—like using a small glue bottle. Do you understand? So height and penis size really don't matter. Size is important, but I've met guys with large penises who didn't provide much pleasure. So technique is still the most important. Do you expect to have superhuman stamina in your 30s and 40s? Men's libido starts to decline after 25, but women's libido increases during this period. I hate it when some men emphasize their "gifted" nature but have terrible technique. I think these guys only know how to thrust, and they think they're naturally gifted and don't need to work hard. The men who make me squirt aren't very big, but they don't rely solely on penis size for ejaculation. These two men are around 12-13 cm, normal girth. One is a bit bigger, 15 cm. She makes me squirt just from thrusting, and our foreplay isn't long, but compared to her, the one with superior technique I'll mention below is more pleasurable. One of them is incredibly skilled; his "gifted" nature is average, his duration is short, and he can't even thrust quickly, only for a few tens of seconds. I think if he didn't stop, he'd probably ejaculate in less than ten minutes. But his strength is that he knows her vaginal muscles and will pull out to rub against my vagina. I don't know if other women do this, but when I'm being penetrated, my vagina keeps pushing outwards, like it's pushing the man away. He suddenly pulled out, and because the force pushing outwards suddenly lost its resistance, my fluid gushed out. After I squirted, my vagina became very tight. I've often heard people say that during sex, women become looser the more penetration goes in, or that too much fluid makes it slippery and reduces friction. I don't know if that's true, but mine didn't. The bed was already soaked with fluid. My boyfriend was once squeezed so tightly that he came out and went limp, I'm so sorry. So at this point, even a not-too-thick, not-too-big penis feels amazing to me. I really like the rear-entry position, where the woman lowers her body and raises her buttocks, making it easier to hit the G-spot. Also, the rear-entry position allows for deep penetration, strong thrusts, and quick movements. For the missionary position, try having the woman lie on her side, one leg on the man's shoulder, and the other under his foot. This also allows for deep penetration and easy G-spot stimulation. A woman's erogenous zones and sensitivity need to be developed. Many of my friends never had an orgasm when they first started having sex, even in the first few years. It's not necessarily because the man's skills or talent are lacking; it's just that the body needs to get used to certain sensations.Next, let's talk about the 69 position. 69 is certainly great, but honestly, many women don't necessarily like it. This is because in 69, the woman is usually on top, and when her vagina is stimulated, she's already exhausted. Maintaining a prone position is difficult enough, let alone performing oral sex on the man. It's impossible to concentrate on enjoying the position. It's preferable for the man to perform oral sex on the woman first, then switch roles. Before penetration, some women may already be aroused, so the man can use his penis, moistened with the woman's saliva, to gently rub against the vaginal opening before starting thrusting. This improves the quality of oral sex for both partners. It's true that sometimes the woman's odor is stronger, so if you don't like it, you can shower and start foreplay at the same time. Even though the man's genitals are outside, they still have an odor. So, have empathy! (But I did encounter one who smelled really bad—not from the penis, but from the feathers, which smelled like body odor. I almost threw up, but I still blew on her. Although I didn't like the smell, I couldn't be too selfish and suppress it. I just blew on her less often after that.) Finally, everyone, please don't worry about size or time. Treat your girlfriend well, be considerate and caring about her feelings, and make her love you to death. That's much better than a womanizer who's technically skilled, naturally gifted, and has one-night stands everywhere, thinking he's a savior for women. Because love is the best aphrodisiac for women. When I give my beloved man oral sex, just his satisfied sounds and his expression of wanting to die makes me incredibly wet. There's no kissing or caressing though. Love alone can't bring a physical orgasm, but during sex, letting your partner feel your love can make them orgasm anytime. Once, when I was menstruating, my partner wanted to lick me before we started having sex. I told him I was menstruating, but he said it would hurt if I was dry, and he still licked my clitoris and the surrounding area. I was stunned. Although the licking only lasted a few minutes, I immediately orgasmed when he penetrated me. Many people might find this hard to accept, and even I found it strange myself. I'm not suggesting you do it this way, but it's a kind of thoughtfulness—thoughtful words and gentle actions—that makes people happy.

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