Repost: Finding a sex partner is no easier than finding a husband.

During a dinner gathering, a woman in the divorce group said she never wanted to get married again and only wanted to find someone to satisfy her sexual needs. The married women in the group were incredibly envious and immediately started chattering, planning and screening casual sex partners for her, as if casual sex partners were everywhere, something you could bump into anywhere.

Actually, finding a good casual sex partner is no easier than finding a husband.

First, the casual sex partner has to be clean. Yes, I've said before, a good casual sex partner can't have oily hair, can't wear underwear with holes, and if he has a beard, it can't smell. No cavities, bad breath, armpit odor, onychomycosis, athlete's foot, etc. He should be at least 1.76 meters tall and can't have a big belly. Most importantly, he shouldn't sleep with women easily. There are so many diseases these days, and promiscuous men are dangerous; some viruses don't show up in men. But the phrase "a clean-living casual sex partner" sounds ridiculous. If he doesn't sleep with people easily, why would he sleep with you? He wants a clean private life, yet he wants to sleep with you, and he wants to sleep with you without any feelings. This is a huge paradox from the start, and it feels like it all depends on fate.
Secondly,
a casual sex partner can't be poor. If a woman is going to find a casual sex partner, she doesn't intend to spend their money, but she also doesn't want to spend much on them. A poor man usually dresses poorly, eats until he's about to throw up at a buffet, and is stingy about comparing prices on several group-buying websites when booking a hotel room—it really affects his libido. Moreover, poverty makes people ignorant. While a little girl's ignorance is cute, a man's ignorance is simply unappealing.

For example, when trying to ease the awkwardness before bed, he might suddenly say, "Wow, look, these curtains are so high-end, they can even be remote-controlled!" and open and close them twice. If you're applying something to your face and he sees Japanese writing, he'll immediately jump up and say, "How can you use Japanese products? Every Japanese person should die! And you're giving them money!" He might spend a few hundred dollars on a doctor's visit and conclude that all doctors are greedy and only know how to rip people off… He always has a knack for killing the conversation. Even if two people only have sex and don't talk about money or feelings, they can't remain completely silent. If the partner is short on cash, lacks worldly experience, and suffers from paranoia, the sex will become very disheartening. We all know that it's easy to feel empty after an orgasm. When your orgasm is brought on by a man you despise, the emptiness will be mixed with self-blame, regret, confusion, discouragement, and other negative emotions. This can lead you to compensate with even more intense sex the next time, quickly turning you into a promiscuous woman. I strongly discourage women from promiscuity; you should be able to see that from the first point.
Thirdly
, there should be no cooperation with your partner except for physical intimacy. Otherwise, the ensuing conflict will be chilling. Your purpose in having a casual sex partner is to improve your skin and mood, not to create unnecessary trouble.

Fourth, a casual sex partner must have the quality of being able to handle things independently if problems arise. Since there's no emotional connection between casual sex partners, men often sacrifice the least valuable one when forced to make a choice. Therefore, a casual sex partner's sense of responsibility is crucial and should be carefully assessed beforehand. He should genuinely respect you and respect sex. This kind of high-quality, scarce resource is already rare, and it's uncertain if any are left in the casual sex partner community.

Fifth, a casual sex partner must be far removed from your social circle to avoid lingering issues after a breakup. Everyone understands. Casual sex partners are temporary, like a vibrator that whispers sweet nothings. Love, or rather, relationships, are more likely to last. If you have casual sex with a few people during your single period for six months, and then find a boyfriend, imagine seeing him laughing and chatting with his casual sex partner at work. Wouldn't you feel uneasy? Wouldn't you feel that his laughter had ulterior motives? Wouldn't you feel disgusted? If you find someone outside your social circle, it's different. After a breakup, there won't be such a person hovering in front of you, reminding you of that unsavory past.
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In addition, it's important to consider whether your sexual partner has heart disease, high blood pressure, or cardiovascular disease. Nobody wants to die suddenly during orgasm, but similar news reports surface every year. Your sexual partner must be safe in every way: they won't lie to you, won't secretly take nude photos of you, won't blackmail or extort you, won't cause you any trouble, won't try to develop a deeper relationship with you, and must be physically and mentally healthy, have a spirit of dedication, and a grateful heart. Furthermore, your sexual partner must reach a consensus with you in bed—note, this is a consensus without feelings or love.

This requires one person to have a good personality, be particularly willing to compromise, or be naturally compatible in terms of sexuality. It can't be that you prefer condoms while they prefer medicated films, you prefer anal sex while they prefer anal sex, one person can have pleasure in three minutes while the other takes thirty minutes to find the feeling… Sex is a very subtle thing; it can't be scored by things like size, feel, or intensity. It's mysterious and elusive. With one person, a little arousal might bring an orgasm, while with another, you might sweat profusely but still not find the feeling. So think about it, meeting someone like this in this vast world is truly a rare thing. The above is a repost. I've had many fellow enthusiasts from the same online community add me these past few days, but few of them seem sincere. After a few words, they immediately want to contact my wife. My wife has had her share of casual sex, but she's not promiscuous. She's looking for someone genuinely good to her. I hope everyone understands. If you're someone who can seduce my wife privately, and who considers themselves patient and loving, please add me. I hope everyone can respect each other. Thank you, fellow netizens.

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