When couples make friends, they are making friends and building friendships.

Couples making friends: As the name suggests, this means couples are making friends! It's about friendship! Couples share common interests and needs, and their friendships are mutual!
After marriage, the days of tender intimacy are over, replaced by the mundane realities of family life.
True maturity often begins after marriage. For a happy life, the couple strives to create their own warm home. The arrival of children, their nurturing and growth, all consume a significant portion of their youth. As they age and their family becomes more stable, they look back on their youth, only to find that youth and passion have faded!
In the process of growing up, we mature together, truly maturing. This process significantly changes our thinking compared to our youth: we develop our own opinions, perspectives, and convictions.
Shared life and a tacit understanding forge a unified philosophy: seeking happiness and passion in our lives. Sex is a major part of married life, an instinct for any animal, let alone humans.
Our ancestors, turning the pages of history, let's look: Xia, Shang, Zhou, Spring and Autumn Period, Warring States Period, Qin, Western Han, Eastern Han, Three Kingdoms, Western Jin, Eastern Jin, Northern and Southern Dynasties, Sui, Tang, Five Dynasties, Song—how many romantic tales unfolded within them! I'm sure everyone knows one or two. From emperors to commoners, how many anecdotes remain for our imagination? Even more remarkably, the trousers of women in the Han Dynasty court and scholar-official families were all open-crotch pants! Why? Historical records say it was for convenience in matters of passion.
Before the Yuan and Song Dynasties, our ancestors' sexual affairs were not subject to as many restrictions as we do today. The era of true sexual repression began in the Ming Dynasty, and the Qing Dynasty's system largely followed the Ming system. However, it was mainly the lower classes who were restricted. The court and scholar-officials still had many anecdotes.
Now, when we look back at history, we can find the diversity of our ancestors' sexual lives.
The changing views on marital sex today demonstrate that we are all continuing the culture of our ancestors! That's the pure, natural beauty of sexual culture!
Many accept the fact that couples can have friends, but when faced with real challenges, some hesitate. I believe this is because their minds haven't reached that pure, natural state!
To achieve our ideal natural state, we must purify our minds, make them clean, and be decisive. Only then can the passion we truly pursue in life be genuinely manifested and realized!
If our minds haven't reached this level, I advise you, at least for now, that it's not suitable to take this step.
Forcing it will only lead to the situations many friends have described in posts: failure and frustration.
The concept of making friends is absolutely an elevation of love! A successful journey with friends can transform the relationship between husband and wife. What kind of transformation? A more loving couple, a respectful couple, plus a close, trustworthy friend! This friend is irreplaceable. In other words, successful friendship can truly solve many marital and family problems! If this sublime mode of love can be correctly maintained, I believe this couple is absolutely the most sincere, honest, and loving couple in the world!
The purpose of friendship is to help your loved one experience true joy in life; always putting your loved one first is the right thing to do. When both of you sincerely reveal yourselves in the "natural" environment, that's our return to our true selves! It's a moment of unbridled, exhilarating enjoyment where our humanity is completely unconstrained! Between each other, there is no deceit, no ulterior motives; we are openly enjoying the true meaning of life—that is the highest realm of friendship! At the same time, our own thoughts should be most fulfilled! Our path of friendship will then be truly perfect! Here, it is emphasized that both parties (regardless of the number of people) must be able to freely express their thoughts and actions without restraint, boldly letting go of all their thoughts and actions to achieve the ideal effect and realm.
If this is done for one's own pursuit and pleasure, then the nature of the relationship changes. That is unacceptable—it will lead to failure!
I ask you all: if a marital relationship reaches such a wonderful state, what marital or family relationship cannot be resolved? Reaching this level, the "sublimation of love" is no longer just talk; it's an expression of the heart! It truly represents a supreme sublimation.
Having written this far, I've run out of words. These words and thoughts are purely my personal reflections. If they contradict the thoughts and opinions of my friends, that's normal; everyone has their own mind and their own thoughts. (Unifying thought has always been an unsolvable world problem.)
In conclusion: In the "environment" of friendship, openly and unrestrainedly show yourself, express yourself, and freely write about your emotions and feelings. Looking back, you'll discover how great—boundless—your love for your partner truly is! In this process, your own thoughts will find considerable satisfaction. The marital relationship transforms from a simple "marital relationship" to a "marital plus close friend relationship," bringing joy and harmony!
I believe there are no insurmountable obstacles in a marriage. Let's enjoy life easily, living a lifestyle we approve of! If we can reach this level, then all couples will be free:
husbands will no longer stray, and
wives will no longer be unfaithful!

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