Making friends is not just a simple exchange.

Online, when I add new friends, many people immediately ask: "Are you a couple? Are you swapping partners? How many times have you swapped?"
Even though they are supposedly a couple, and most of the female users in the profiles have female avatars, the man is usually the one sitting behind her. They ask for a video call after only a few words, and some even call without any prior greeting.
At first, I patiently explained, but later I just told them we were a couple, but we should be friends first. If they didn't understand, I would sometimes show them articles, and sometimes I would ask them to figure it out themselves. As for video calls, most people are very averse to them and refuse; those who persist are blocked on the spot.
"Friendship" versus "swapping" has become a hurdle, allowing me to quickly judge the other person's character and maturity in making friends.
A friend who had left the group once told me: "This is really boring, everyone's just all talk and no action." I just smiled and didn't reply. "When
people don't see eye to eye, even half a sentence is too much," as the saying goes!
Another friend angrily said: "How can it be like this? Swapping partners, even animal pairings, isn't this simple and vulgar!" You should write an article to educate people about this!
Making friends and exchanging ideas seem to have become a marker of people grouping themselves around birds of a feather.
But I can say definitively: making friends is not exchanging, but it may include some form of exchange! (Note: only possibly.)
I strongly dislike those who make exchanging their sole purpose. Such people automatically reduce themselves from human beings to the level of animals. Aside from reproductive needs, they seem to have no other needs.
Couples making friends is essentially couples making friends together; men and women alike have their own choices. Since they are adults and couples are friends, there are virtually no restrictions on the content of their conversations. Sex is often an important topic, but not the only one. People group themselves around birds of a feather; people always need to find friends who share their interests. All aspects of life, national affairs, family matters, private matters—as long as you can talk to each other and trust each other, you can discuss anything. If
things feel right, video chat, meet in person, and if it's suitable, exchanging ideas is perfectly normal.
In life, due to various concerns, we certainly can't find spouses who can communicate without any reservations, right? This is a need of ours—a normal need, both spiritual and physical. I call this kind of interaction: a close, intimate friendship!
This state is beautiful, but not easy to achieve; you could say it's something you can only hope to encounter, not something you can seek out.
Moreover, not all spouses are suitable for this kind of exchange. Some couples can chat very well, feel a deep connection, and feel like they've known each other for a long time. But once the exchange happens, it's not pleasant, and it might even ruin the beautiful relationship.
In fact, those with experience in couples making friends know that the most beautiful feeling comes from the process of interaction. Couples who can enjoy this process without rushing into making friends are truly psychologically mature.
And couples who can still understand and connect with each other after reaching the point of exchanging partners are truly happy.

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