Five key issues to consider when couples make friends, along with preventative measures and remedies.

1. What if my wife/husband falls in love with someone else after a long time?
2. What if I get an unplanned pregnancy
? 3. What if I contract a sexually transmitted disease?
4. What if the affair is exposed and everyone finds out (including legal consequences)?
5. How do I handle any unpleasant issues that might arise during the interaction?

If you are a stable couple and don't want to ruin your family by playing this game, I suggest you discuss these four issues before starting.
Everything carries risk, and seeking pleasure naturally involves risk. Consider whether you can bear the risks.
Recommended preventative measures and remedies:
Question 1: What if I contract a sexually transmitted disease?
Preventative measure 1: Always use condoms with people you don't know well.
Preventative measure 2: Both you and the person you frequently interact with should have regular checkups.
Get checked every six months, and also check if any abnormalities are found in the genital area. If any problems are found with the STD six tests, immediately stop interacting and seek treatment.
Preventative measure 3: Get the HPV vaccine.
Although the effect of this vaccine is limited for those with prior sexual experience, it's better than nothing. If you're going to play, it's best for both partners to get vaccinated. However, don't think that you can be careless about health and hygiene just because you've been vaccinated; the vaccine's effectiveness is very limited.
Preventive Measures 4: Pay attention to personal hygiene. During interactions, ask your partner to wash and inspect their genitals.
Blood tests at the hospital cannot detect all problems, especially those on the surface of the genitals. (Especially when interacting with an unfamiliar partner.) Have your wife carefully examine your partner's genitals. (It's embarrassing for a man to have another man examine his genitals, so it's best for the wife to do it.) Ensure sufficient lighting, fully retract the foreskin for a thorough examination, and also check the skin under the pubic hair. If you find redness, blisters, broken skin, odor, or abnormal color, do not continue the interaction. If no problems are found, use a disinfectant wash to thoroughly clean his genitals (including pubic hair). If
your wife has a dominant personality, she can bend over and examine the genitals like a queen examining her lover. If she has a submissive personality, she can kneel down, make a sucking motion with her mouth, and bring her face close for a closer look. This usually won't cause embarrassment.
New couples who are new to the industry often have wives who are shy and embarrassed to examine their partners. This is not good. It's best to find an experienced couple to teach them (with guidance, they won't be shy anymore), or start with a familiar single man. Newcomers should avoid dating unfamiliar single men.
Prevention Measure 5: Play with a fixed group of people.
This is somewhat contradictory to Prevention Measure 1 and 2 for Question 1. While a fixed group of people makes it easier for feelings to develop over time, changing people frequently and having relationships with too many people can lead to greater health risks. In this regard, I suggest prioritizing health, focusing on a fixed group of people, and using non-fixed groups as secondary. I will explain how to prevent and handle the issue of feelings developing over time later.
Prevention Measure 6: Choose people you know well.
This is somewhat contradictory to the prevention measures for Question 4.
Remedial Measures: Address the problem promptly if it arises .

Question 2: What if my wife/husband falls in love with someone else?
Prevention Measure 1: Control the frequency of interaction with a single person (except for those you live with).
(For example, if the husband is away for a month, and the wife is partying with the same single man every night during that month, the risk of problems is high. But if she only sees him once a week, the risk is much lower.)
Prevention Measure 2: At the same time, the wife should have two or more different people to interact with besides her husband.
(Her wife playing with different people can significantly reduce her dependence on one person, such as playing with the same single man twice a week; or playing with two different single men twice a week...)
Prevention measure 3: Do not allow older unmarried/divorced women without a stable boyfriend to participate in the game.
(This is mainly to prevent the husband from having problems. Older single women are more likely to fall in love with someone because of sex and try to destroy his current family...)
Prevention measure 4: Choose couples/partners with stable relationships for the activity.
(If their relationship is stable and they are not likely to separate, it is less likely that one of them will be left alone after the exchange partner divorces/breaks up and pursue one of us. Whether you are exchanging/finding single men/women, try to find someone with a stable relationship, preferably with the other's consent, because if the other's consent is not given, the relationship may be in trouble if it is discovered... and then the risk increases...)
Prevention measure 5: When choosing "quick-fix single men" without a wife or stable girlfriend, try to choose those who are unlikely to take the step of marriage with a wife, such as those who are 8 years younger than a wife, but there can be a few exceptions.
It's best to avoid "fast-food single men" (men seeking casual relationships). If you must choose, undergraduate students are the top choice. They're young, energetic, and have a short refractory period... various advantages. Plus, they generally won't intentionally try to break you up to pursue your wife. ...The risks for single men are actually quite high. A few years ago, when I was single, I "stole" someone else's girlfriend... *facepalm*... It wasn't intentional. They broke up because of strong opposition from the woman's family, not because I deliberately seduced or broke them up. And they still interact frequently, so I didn't completely "steal" her.
(Why can there be exceptions? Because there are a few that your wife likes. Since you're playing this game, you should let your wife play with what she likes, otherwise what's the point?)
Precaution 6: When interacting with strangers for a short time, you should conceal your information, including frequently used contact methods and addresses.
(For newly formed couples, if interacting with strangers, the first few interactions should ideally be in a hotel, and don't add them on WeChat/QQ or leave your frequently used phone number. You can tell them your real name [in case the police check the room, as long as it's not a three-person interaction, knowing each other's real names will generally not cause trouble. Also, be cautious about multi-person interactions in hotels; specific issues are discussed in section 4]. Experienced couples can rent a "sex room" for daily activities. This can control the problem of the game partner becoming overly clingy after the interaction. Only when you are very familiar and trust the interaction partner can they know your main personal information.)
Of course, the most crucial thing is that your relationship must be stable. If your relationship has problems, dating is not a panacea; it can only enhance your relationship.
Now let's talk about remedial measures:
Remedial measure 1: Accept that your wife's new lover
has fallen in love with someone else. Will it definitely destroy the family?
Couples' online activities are not simply about sexual release, especially for women, who cannot completely separate sex and love. It's understandable that developing feelings of attraction or even love after engaging in sex for a long time. (Of course, this is my opinion. Some couples I know believe that if the wife develops feelings of love for her online partner, the relationship should be broken up immediately. I think that's wrong; it's like giving the wife a human massage. The wife can only have better pleasure with a single man if she has feelings for him. And feelings of attraction and love are hard to distinguish, so don't reject feelings of love/attraction.) As a husband, since you've chosen this game, don't be hostile towards your wife's new lover. You should encourage her to continue interacting with him. If both of you have the means, you can consider having him/her move into your home. (Some people ask: Didn't you say you wanted to hide personal information? That's for strangers you've just met and don't know each other well. Your wife has "fallen in love" with him, so it's obvious that you're already very familiar with him [it may be through interaction, or he/she may have known him/her before]. There's no need to be wary of personal information.)
Remedial solution 2: If your wife falls in love with someone else, the husband should win her back.
Does falling in love with him today mean loving him for a lifetime?
If your wife falls for a gaming partner, you, as the husband, should pay more attention to her, have more sex with her, and also encourage her to interact with other men she likes. This will distract her from him, and over time, she won't feel as "in love" with this man, greatly reducing the risk.
Question 3: What to do about an unplanned pregnancy?
Prevention measures: 1. Normal contraception.
Condoms are recommended, as they also prevent STIs. For a few close, familiar partners, if your wife prefers unprotected sex, you can choose oral contraceptives like Marvelon, depending on her health condition. 2. Remedial
measures: Prepare for unplanned pregnancies.
There is no 100% reliable contraception method. If an unplanned pregnancy occurs, it's best to have a contingency plan in place. My suggestion is: as a husband, if you're going to have sex, you should support your wife if she becomes pregnant unplanned, regardless of who the father is.
The contingency plan should include: 1. Whether to give birth or abort; 2. Whether to deliberately prevent the potential father from knowing; 3. Whether to investigate whether the child is yours. These three issues should be discussed beforehand.
As a man, you need to be responsible. Since you've chosen to have sex, if something goes wrong, please don't make your wife have an abortion (unless your wife is a staunch DINK and insists on having an abortion). It's best to clearly tell your wife, "Don't abort the child just because it might/is definitely not mine."
As for whether to do a DNA test and whether to avoid letting the other women know, that's a matter of opinion.
My wife now lets me have sex with two other men without contraception, but I haven't gotten pregnant yet. There was another woman (one of the men's wives) with whom the three of us had sex before, and now she has a child (we've agreed never to find out who the father is), and we'll start using contraception from now on.
Question 4: What if the affair is exposed and everyone finds out?
Prevention measures: 1. When interacting with multiple friends, you can conceal your marital/romantic relationship.
When interacting with friends and acquaintances, minimize interactions with friends who know both of you. Instead, interact more with acquaintances who only know one of you (but these should be long-term, reliable friends with whom you can share your relationship—safer and more exciting).
For example, I have a classmate who doesn't know my wife. I could tell him a girl wants to meet up… then my wife goes to meet him… later we have a threesome, and he doesn't even know the girl is my wife. When interacting with multiple friends of your wife, it's not necessary for them to know I'm her husband.
Precaution 2: Minimize interactions with multiple friends who know both of you.
If they know both of you before the interaction, they can't hide your relationship, and the risk of exposure is high. Be cautious with multiple interactions! However, this doesn't mean you can't interact with such friends at all; your wife can go on one-on-one dates with them.
Precaution 3: Avoid interacting with people who might cause serious conflicts of interest (regardless of whether it's a multiple-person or two-person interaction).
(This isn't about just anyone with a conflict of interest, but rather a serious one. For example, if your wife works in a private company, her direct supervisor is usually not someone with a serious conflict of interest, because it's just a job, and you can easily change jobs. It's also unlikely you'll offend your boss and become their enemy. However, your wife's direct subordinates, peers, and suppliers at the company are more dangerous. These are people who often need your wife's favors, and you can't always satisfy their needs. In rare cases, this can lead to a complete falling out and them threatening to spread rumors…)
Prevention Measure 4: Focus on two-person interactions rather than group interactions, but the husband shouldn't be too far away.
The wife can have one-on-one dates with her date, and she can call her husband during these dates or recount the experience later. This is already quite exciting; group interactions don't need to be deliberately pursued.
Important note for one-on-one dates: If the wife has a one-on-one date with a new date, the husband must be nearby!!!
As the saying goes, you can know a person's face but not their heart. A very small number of people may seem very polite in person, but when sexually aroused, they can be extremely savage and violent, disrespecting women's wishes (such as forcing anal sex against their will). Therefore, when meeting a new person for the first time, it's best to do so in a hotel or your own private room rather than their home. If it's a hotel, the husband should ideally follow them there and book a separate room for them as well. The wife should send the room number to her husband and keep them on the phone throughout the encounter (with the husband remaining silent).
If it's in your own private room, the husband should wait outside and keep them on the phone the entire time.
Precaution 5: Be very careful when choosing a location for group activities!
Group activities are best done in private rooms, entire rental properties, or entire guesthouses in tourist areas. If conditions don't allow for this, a hotel suite can be considered cautiously, but avoid regular hotel rooms.
Group activities are illegal in China!

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