My wife is promiscuous.

After confirming my wife's infidelity, I reflected on my actions, read some books, and pondered deeply.
I briefly described the process on a dating website called 69, and received numerous comments from netizens, which I read carefully. I would like to offer a few points of feedback, and also warn those who are currently cheating, about to cheat, or are single men and women:
① We all agree that men and women are polysexual, both before and after marriage. Both men and women can have multiple sexual partners.
② Harmonious sex life is pleasurable and desirable.
③ A free marriage involves a process of getting to know each other, falling in love, and mutually possessing each other. Both spouses should be sincere; this is a necessity for society and family, otherwise the family will be destroyed.
④ Sexual activity outside of marriage should also be open and honest between spouses.
⑤ Single men and women should only intervene in the sexual activities of other couples with the premise of not disrupting their family life and with the aim of improving their own sexual quality.
⑥ It is wrong to use sexual freedom as a pretext to seduce and destroy other people's families for one's own sexual pleasure.
So, in the end, I let go. Letting go of our relationship freed me, and whether we'll divorce is up to her. My wife thought she won this threesome, but she actually lost. We no longer have our time as a couple, no more wedding anniversaries, no more talk of growing old together.
★A netizen asked, since you're on 69.com, why are you still so resentful about your wife's infidelity? My main reasons are as follows:
① My wife hid her affair from me for years, deceiving me as if I were a fool. While I was working hard for the family, my wife and her lover were enjoying themselves.
② After her affair was discovered, she showed no remorse and tried to defend herself, offering no honest confession but instead protecting her lover.
③ My wife's heart should belong to her lover, but in front of me, she acted as if she had completely broken up with him, utterly disregarding our years-long relationship. She is truly heartless and ungrateful. Such a cold-hearted woman towards her lover disgusts me.
★One netizen commented: Sex and love can be separated.
I believe there's a difference between men and women. Men can
clearly distinguish between sex and love, while women cannot. Eileen Chang once said: "The path to a woman's heart is the vagina."
An ancient saying goes: "Better to marry a reformed prostitute than a cheating wife." Because a prostitute understands the relationship between sex and love. She sells her body for a living, hoping to find a lover, marry, and settle down. After reforming, she'll wholeheartedly dedicate herself to her husband and children. A cheating woman, on the other hand, betrays her marriage even though she already has one. A leopard can't change its spots. Such a woman completely doesn't understand the difference between love and sex. Her attitude towards life is even worse than a prostitute's. Calling a cheating woman like a prostitute is unworthy of the title.
On 69.com, there are many couples having threesomes with single men, all to improve the quality of their sex life. The protagonists are always the couple, not the single man, and the progress is controlled by the husband.
★One netizen said: It's not good to expose one's wife's shameful deeds.
Prostitutes have a bottom line; they still have a conscience. Prostitutes deserve respect. My wife is a cheating woman, a shameless woman with no bottom line and no conscience. She showed no sincerity in betraying her husband, broke up with her long-term lover without a second thought, and seduced her best friend's man without any regard for feelings. Such a disrespectful woman is worse than an animal; does she even deserve respect?!
I envy those couples on 69.com who engage in threesomes and casual sex. Their relationship is genuine and open; they live and enjoy sex together for love.
Sometimes I envy couples who argue about poverty; at least they are sincere with each other.
★ I once wrote that a couple includes lovers, sexual partners, and life partners. Although I lost the battle in our marriage, I also realized that we are now just life partners. It's more accurate to say we're just living together. Understanding this has made me feel better; she's also a loser.
★ Some netizens advised: Forget about it.
Yes, I've completely let go. Letting go wasn't just for her sake, but more importantly, for my son to have a complete family, and also for my own health.
But letting go simply means ceasing our misunderstandings; without sincerity, we can't go back to the way things were.
Thinking about going for a walk together reminds me of my wife and her lover holding hands and whispering intimately.
Thinking about going to the theater together reminds me of my wife and her lover in the theater, the man touching her breasts, the woman pulling her penis—it's all so intimate.
Thinking about going to the park together reminds me of my wife and her lover embracing and flirting, their skin touching.
Even going out for a meal reminds me of my wife and her lover laughing and eating together—it's all so intimate.
And so on and so forth, making it hard to forget.
★ Some netizens said: Exposing this here is inappropriate, and it's not 69.com's intention.
What I posted online wasn't actually exposing anything, but rather using this example to tell everyone that deception is wrong and toxic. I want to use this example to teach everyone a lesson, so that you can better manage your marital sex life and achieve a more fulfilling and high-quality sex life. Of course, it also gives you something to talk about and have some fun with.
★ Some netizens advised me to communicate better with my wife.
Yes, I'd like to, but it's difficult. The difficulty isn't with me; I've let go of the matter. Holding grudges about her past is useless; life goes on, so I'll let her be. I just hope my wife can be more honest, but she's very hypocritical, completely lying about the past.
People can make mistakes, but they can't lie. Without trust, conversations, chats, and exchanges are a waste of time and meaningless.
Only after turning fifty did I realize my wife was two-faced, a woman who always wore a mask when facing me. I can only say I'm unlucky! Maybe it's fate.

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