Why can I accept being cuckolded?

Women don't cheat without a reason, do they?
Looking at the cases above and real-life examples, it's easy to see that whether a woman cheats actively or passively, it invariably stems from three main reasons: First, cheating for financial gain. Cheating for a transaction is the most common and prevalent form of marital deception and betrayal, hence its top ranking. Marriage is a major life event; if money and sex can be exchanged within marriage, what can't be traded?! Like someone who betrays a friend, they might betray him today and you tomorrow. With marriage as a transaction, women treat their bodies as commodities. Women discover that sex is a powerful thing, capable of yielding numerous tangible benefits. Women can trade their bodies for many things, such as job transfers, their husbands' positions, career advancement, their children's futures, jobs, business contracts, etc. They will trade anything that can be exchanged for their bodies
. Of course, more often than not, they are driven by small desires: a little more income at work, a better chance of promotion, more benefits, or simply keeping their jobs. Because they don't directly sell themselves for money, they can't be called prostitutes; at most, they are clandestine prostitutes. Women who are terrified of poverty,
women with low survival skills, women whose talents and education don't meet societal requirements, women with the mindset of a mistress but the actions of a servant, women driven by greed and vanity—they want to use sex to achieve liberation, to exchange their bodies for benefits, to change the rules of the game through infidelity, to add icing to the cake with sex trade. Lacking ability, they compensate with their bodies; the power of sex is boundless
. In short, for money, for profit, and for career success, they will willingly exchange their lower bodies for their future. Women forced into infidelity by the "unspoken rules" to sell themselves to disgusting old men or ugly men appear to be forced into it, unable to afford to offend anyone, but the key is that they don't want to go against their own interests. The mistresses of corrupt officials, on the other hand, form an alliance with the corrupt officials to "share the spoils," jointly distributing the fruits of corruption.
Among women who cheat for financial gain, some are driven by a strong sense of possessiveness and vanity
, not by desperation due to unbearable circumstances.

Others cheat out of physiological needs.
Confucius lamented, "I have never seen anyone who loves virtue as much as he loves beauty!" This demonstrates the power of human animal instincts. Since the dawn of humanity, humans have been animals. We know that living is about satisfying our biological needs and achieving maximum physical pleasure. Satisfying sexual needs is human nature; sex is as normal as eating (those who are not sexually active may not agree; please leave, we fear those with abnormal physiology). Moreover, those with normal physiology understand that sex is like opium—once
taken, it's irresistible.
With the advent of monogamy, marriage has provided a way to satisfy this instinct: legal spouses, mutual fulfillment. Women who cheat out of physiological needs generally fall into two categories: those who, for various reasons, cannot achieve sexual satisfaction within their marriage. For example, a woman might cheat on her husband because "her husband is often away from home, her mother-in-law treats her badly, and she feels lonely and wants to experience what it's like to be with another man." We are powerless to condemn women who cheat because their husbands are often away, their husbands are unable to have sex due to illness, or their husbands are impotent, and they cannot achieve sexual satisfaction within their marriages. For instance, it is immoral for a young woman to divorce her husband because he is unable to have sex; it is immoral and shameless to bring a sexual partner home without divorcing; it is still immoral to secretly have a sexual partner without divorcing;
it is inhumane to neither divorce nor have a sexual partner. Which is more important, humanity or morality? Modern society has not yet provided an answer, but people generally understand. Another common reason for cheating is physical need: marrying someone you don't love through a transactional marriage, then saying after marriage, "My marriage has no feelings," "He can't satisfy me," "The feelings in our marriage have disappeared," and then cheating. There's an old joke, "Eating at one's husband's house, sleeping at another's," and the modern version of this story is: spending the husband's money, eating the husband's cooking, enjoying the husband's house and car, and offering one's body and heart to another man. Marriage is merely for their survival; sexual satisfaction is a separate matter. These are such beautiful women, they deserve handsome men. How can old, ugly, fat, or disabled men satisfy the sexual desires of these beautiful wives? Seeing their husbands lose interest in sex, how can you bear to let them suffer sexual hunger? So, some seek out old lovers, some keep an eye on those around them, and some search for one-night stands online. Of course, the best is to kill two birds with one stone: sexual satisfaction and money.
In modern society, people believe they are the masters of their own bodies, and how they use their bodies is none of anyone else's business, nor is it related to marriage. Marriage is just getting married; it doesn't mean selling one's body to anyone. One has autonomy over their own body. Consensual sexual relations between adult men and women are purely private matters,
and infidelity is often driven by emotional needs. There's a famous Western saying: "At any given time, there are at least three hundred people in the world suitable for you." "There are plenty of fish in the sea," a person won't only meet one person who moves them in their lifetime, nor will there only be one person suitable for them. How to maintain the right balance depends on how you treat marriage. Some women, perhaps fickle, perhaps promiscuous, perhaps truly lucky, seem to have all the most suitable men presented to them by fate, and they truly love them—this one, that one, showering the world with love. You can't blame them for cheating; blame fate for deliberately making things difficult for them. Why not just introduce another after one dies? Other women treat
marriage as a transaction, finding what they believe to be true love after marriage, and then truly loving. They're adept at having both: one hand on marriage (material), the other on true love (spiritual). You wouldn't blame them for cheating, would you? Such a perfect situation is enviable. Of course, they wouldn't be foolish enough to end the marriage and financial relationship to pursue true love openly and legitimately. Women want bread and jewelry, jewelry and luxury cars, luxury cars and villas—they're never satisfied. With a villa, they turn around and want love… If one man can't provide it, they'll seek it from two or three!
A marriage without love lays the foundation for a woman's infidelity. Since they can't find love within marriage, they'll look outside of it. For women living in loveless marriages for extended periods, as long as the flower hasn't faded, having an affair is a persistent dream. In this day and age, nothing can stop someone from having an affair. Of course, their standards for true love have changed since their younger, unmarried days. As long as the man is presentable, loves her, and doesn't disrupt her marriage, that's enough. That love doesn't require him to have a car or a house, to be honest and reliable, to be exceptionally talented or handsome; sweet words are sufficient, and she might even lend him her husband's money. It's like older women seeking divorce—any man will do. Ultimately, it's better to be cheated on than to be passively cheated on!
That's my view. In fact, cheating isn't just a man's obsession; it's also an expression of love for his wife. In modern society, everyone faces immense pressure, and helping his wife relieve that pressure is a husband's responsibility. Besides, if you don't do it, someone else will.

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