A Brief Discussion on SM and Couples' Dating

Time flies, and in the blink of an eye, I'm already a man in my forties. Although I'm still tall, the gray in my hair and the weariness in my eyes speak of bygone years. Over twenty years of extramarital affairs and fourteen years of a sadomasochistic relationship have given me a clear understanding of everything in this industry. In my spare time, brewing a cup of tea and reminiscing about my past erotic life is a kind of comfort. Browsing forum posts is also a form of leisure.

Regarding the chaos in this industry, I still feel compelled to speak out. As everyone knows, this forum has couples, SM enthusiasts, single women (though few), and mostly single men. Enjoying these activities is everyone's freedom and pursuit, and I won't comment further. But for each interaction, can anyone honestly say they've invested their emotions and thoughts?

Take SM as an example—do you really understand the mindset of S and M? Don't you believe they are equal? Just like sex, aren't men and women equal during sex? Actually, it's just a difference in roles and psychological states; everything else is equal. In this SM community, do you really think a few slaps and insults like "bitch" and "slut" make you a Do? Even if the Sub (M) kneels before you, do you know if it's genuine worship and submission, or just physical gestures? Furthermore, she may be a Sub, but she's not your Sub. Do you have the right to decide she's more degrading than you? A Sub only kneels before her own Do; her lewdness and degrading are only in front of her master. In real life, her status is likely far higher than that of a so-called Do. Therefore, in this SM community, if you want to be a Do, improve your character and knowledge so that the Sub naturally worships you—that's the right path.

Also, regarding groups and couples, when single men interact with these like-minded individuals, can you please refrain from immediately asking for photos, contact information, or videos? If you don't get what you want, don't resort to vulgar language, or even threaten to force them into bed with photos? Do they owe you anything? Even your parents can't always give in to your every whim! Let alone these like-minded people who have no connection to you.

Are you sure you can find a suitable partner by constantly posting photos of your assets? Showing off your body is fine; it's a form of beauty. Displaying assets is fine, but is it really appropriate to have a screen full of phalluses? Do you really think couples come here just for lust? There's a lot of pressure in real life, and the higher your social status, the greater the pressure—a point many might disagree with. Actually, people come here seeking relaxation, both psychologically and physically. A few like-minded people, enjoying drinks and music, discussing history and current events, and relaxing together—I believe this is what most cultured couples seek. Sex is essential, but it's only one aspect.

If you're a single man who's only interested in lust after adding someone as a friend, do you really think you can attract like-minded people to contact you?

Let me say a few more words to couples. It's understandable to seek romance, but demanding huge red envelopes and extravagant gifts after adding someone as a friend—are you sure you're seeking spiritual pleasure? Or are you after material things? If it's material, you can put a price tag on it. Of course, a necessary gift for the first meeting is indispensable, and booking a five-star hotel is also necessary. Various types of intimate activities require financial support. Even a slightly upscale teahouse for some casual encounters wouldn't be sustainable with a monthly income of around 2000 RMB. Experienced users know that with a couple, a female submissive, or a single woman who doesn't want anything, the financial cost will far exceed paying for services, but the enjoyment will still be immense. Forums
are for posting and exchanging information, but basic safety is still necessary! I've seen many videos and photos showing faces. To be honest, I've actually seen people I know. For our safety, let's not post photos or videos showing faces! Society still objects to these kinds of things, and we all have to live in the real world. You might say, "I didn't film this, I just forwarded it." But if you see something like this and don't forward it, wouldn't the chances of the person in the photo or video being discovered by friends and family be lower? Do unto others as you would have them do unto you.
Okay, I'm just saying whatever comes to mind. Please forgive any mistakes. Some might say I'm showing off or trying to grab attention, and I don't deny that
. But I'm speaking the truth and sincerely making friends with people all over the world. To gain is my fortune, to lose is my fate.

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