Good fortune is refraining from sexual misconduct.

Once upon a time in the Tang Dynasty, in Taiyuan, Shanxi, there lived a handsome young man who was exceptionally intelligent and hardworking from a young age. He loved reading so much that he would forget to eat and sleep when he started. One day, a retainer of his household was mysteriously murdered. Officials went to investigate, and neighbors flocked to the scene, making it incredibly crowded. An ordinary young man would have run off to see what was happening, but he paid no attention, completely absorbed in his book. He ignored the officials' inquiries, demonstrating his remarkable focus on his studies.

The young man had once met an old monk who warned him: "Your face indicates nobility; you will surely achieve fame and success in the future. However, you must be careful to abstain from lust. If you cannot resist the allure of beautiful women, your success will be in jeopardy." The young man took the old monk's words to heart. One day, on his way to the capital for the imperial examinations, the journey was long, and he rested at an inn. The innkeeper was a young and beautiful woman whose husband had recently passed away. She fell in love with the young man at first sight and, under the cover of darkness, knocked on his door. The young man, reading in his room, opened the door and was immediately struck by the sight of a beautifully dressed woman standing before him. A fleeting ripple of emotion stirred within him, but he quickly regained his composure. After learning his purpose, the young man mentioned the old monk's advice and confessed that he too had felt lust upon seeing her, but he immediately remembered the old monk's words and the contemplation of impurity he had taught her, and his heart quickly returned to peace. He then advised the woman: "Your husband has just passed away; you should understand the importance of chastity and preserve your fidelity. You can now learn to practice the contemplation of impurity. When we can perceive the stench of the human body, lustful thoughts will naturally subside like a bucket of cold water poured over our heads."

The woman closed her eyes and contemplated for a moment, then prostrated herself on the ground, grateful for the young man's virtue in remaining unmoved by beauty and for teaching her the method of contemplating impurity. She said, "In this way, I can preserve my fidelity." Later, this woman indeed remained chaste throughout her life and received commendation from the court. The young man went to the capital to take the imperial examination, passed, and eventually, just as the old monk had predicted, became prime minister. This young man was the famous Di Renjie.

After becoming prime minister, Di Renjie achieved great success and his name is etched in history; he was truly a dragon among men. This was undoubtedly due to Di Renjie's own talent and ability, but it was also a blessing earned through his celibacy and resistance to the temptations of beautiful women. Becoming prime minister of the Tang Dynasty was already an immense blessing, but Di Renjie's blessings clearly went beyond that. Throughout Chinese history, there have been many dynasties, and at least dozens, if not hundreds, of people have served as prime ministers. Unless you are a history major, you probably don't know many of them. Why then is Di Renjie so memorable? This is because, more than a thousand years later, many TV series and movies based on the character of Detective Dee have emerged. I recently watched "Detective Dee: The Four Heavenly Kings," starring Mark Chao, Feng Shaofeng, and Carina Lau, among other big names. It's the latest installment in Tsui Hark's "Detective Dee" film series and is considered a high-quality production among domestic commercial films. In this movie, I noticed a detail: before Detective Dee passed the imperial examination and was summoned to the capital, he visited the Sanzang Temple to see the Tripitaka Master. Mark Chao's Detective Dee prostrated himself on the ground, asking the Master for guidance. The two then had a conversation, and later plot developments proved that this conversation had a profound impact on Detective Dee. This plot point subtly aligns with the earlier stories. As for TV series, there's "Detective Dee," which reportedly has four seasons. You may not have seen this series, but you've definitely heard the phrase "Yuanfang, what do you think?"—a phrase directly derived from "Detective Dee." It's safe to say that Di Renjie has become a major IP in the film and television industry, with numerous scripts based on him. After seeing the post-credits scene of "Detective Dee: The Four Heavenly Kings," it's highly likely that Tsui Hark will make another Di Renjie film.

It's safe to say that not only Tsui Hark, but other films and television series based on Di Renjie will continue to be made. He rose to the position of Prime Minister during his lifetime, and more than a thousand years after his death, people still use his name to make films and television series. The blessings of not indulging in illicit sexual activity sometimes truly exceed your imagination! Some people may not have a good grasp of the time span from the Tang Dynasty to the present. Di Renjie died in 700 AD, more than 1300 years ago. This is equivalent to someone living in the present still being known to most people more than 3300 years later. How many illustrious figures have emerged in that time? How much has the world changed? He has survived the test of time and remains known to the public—how remarkable is that! Of course, it must also be acknowledged that Di Renjie's ability to maintain his integrity in the presence of a young and beautiful woman in an inn is truly impressive.

Many people have had this experience: after abstaining from pornography for a period of time, they feel their willpower has strengthened, so they try to test their willpower by watching a pornographic film. The vast majority end in failure. Human nature cannot withstand the test, nor can willpower. If a pornographic film can be so difficult, imagine a young, beautiful woman standing in front of you in the dark, with no one around. Even if you don't fully refrain from looking, can you guarantee you'll leave unscathed? Some might say, "I can!" That's probably just because you're too timid, not because you don't have lustful desires.

Then there are those who, let alone a beautiful woman approaching them, are so desperate for sex that they'll try anything to sleep with a woman, even those who are far from beautiful (ugly girls). They'll use apps like Momo and WeChat's "People Nearby" feature, and if they can't find anyone, they'll even pay to indulge in illicit sexual activity. If such a person were to encounter a beautiful woman approaching them, they would undoubtedly pounce like a hungry wolf. Comparing these people to Di Renjie only highlights his extraordinary qualities, especially in today's society where morals are declining. It's not easy to refrain from sexual misconduct, and it's even harder to remain abstain when beautiful women are readily available. Of course, precisely because the greater the temptation, the harder it is to avoid sexual misconduct, and the greater the blessings associated with it.

Some might ask, is there a necessary connection between Di Renjie's later success and his abstinence from sexual misconduct? Certainly. Imagine if Di Renjie had accepted that beautiful young woman that night—it's said that a moment of passion is worth a thousand pieces of gold—wouldn't he have been reluctant to leave the next day? Someone with his good looks, capable of attracting young women to him, wouldn't he have been unable to resist temptations in the future, perhaps even becoming addicted to sexual misconduct? And once he started engaging in sexual misconduct, if he couldn't control himself once, twice... would Di Renjie still have achieved his later success? Many things, once you take the first step, are a path of no return. Sexual misconduct is a prime example. I've never heard of someone stopping masturbating after just one instance, nor have I heard of someone stopping watching pornography after just one viewing. Even if such cases exist, they are extremely rare.

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Di Renjie was a great figure, but the same applies to ordinary people. A childhood friend of mine, a college classmate I've met a few times, wasn't particularly interested in pornography during his school years. After graduation, unlike other classmates, he didn't engage in promiscuous relationships or frequent prostitutes. Shortly after graduation, he went to work in Singapore with my friend. According to him, the salary was higher, but the work was monotonous, and he couldn't integrate into the local society, living like an outsider, and feeling incredibly bored after work. Therefore, my friend couldn't stand it after a year and returned, while his classmate endured the loneliness, working there for several years, saving some money, and only returning at the end of last year. After returning home, he used his savings to make a down payment on an apartment in Changsha. Considering his age, this college classmate, who had been single for a long time, went on blind dates. Unexpectedly, he met a beautiful and wealthy woman on his first blind date. She was pretty, came from a very well-off family, owned an apartment in Changsha, drove an Audi, worked for a government agency, and earned a high salary. The two of them dated and eventually got together. I even saw my friend's college classmate posting wedding photos on social media recently. They had known each other for less than a year, and he had been single before that, so his marriage was remarkably smooth. To be honest, my friend's college classmate wasn't particularly handsome, and he was only about 1.7 meters tall. I never expected him to find such an excellent partner and get married so easily. Thinking about us, we've gone on many blind dates but haven't found anyone we like. Sometimes, relationships just don't work out, and marriage seems incredibly difficult. But he found a good partner as soon as he returned from abroad and got married quickly. I think this must be the blessing of his abstaining from sexual misconduct and enduring loneliness.

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Many people know Dr. Peng Xin, a renowned traditional Chinese medicine doctor. His doctoral supervisor had a successful career and a happy family. He was incredibly energetic, often working long hours during the day and then staying up late to write articles. Once, this supervisor inadvertently revealed to Dr. Peng that he deeply despised people who engaged in promiscuous relationships. Although he frequently traveled abroad, he never watched adult channels (which exist overseas) or watched pornography in hotels, and he certainly never visited prostitutes. He was exceptionally pure of heart and maintained a high level of self-discipline.

Dr. Peng also had a senior classmate who knew nothing about relationships before the age of 28 and didn't get married until he was almost 40. Approaching 40, he looked like a young man in his twenties, with exceptional energy, physical strength, and mental acuity—far exceeding that of most people. This senior classmate achieved both wealth and status at a young age, accumulating considerable wealth. A fortune teller told him that his success stemmed from the rare virtue of abstaining from sexual misconduct.

People who abstain from sexual misconduct are energetic, clear-headed, and driven; they generally do well, and those with some ability and diligence can excel in society. As someone who was once addicted to sexual misconduct, seeing others succeed in both love and career, especially my childhood friend's college classmate—who wasn't necessarily better looking or smarter than me, but had found a good partner—frankly, I felt a little envious. It's not just me; many people addicted to lustful thoughts and actions can only envy those who abstain from them. They watch others prosper while simultaneously lamenting their own misfortunes. Many have experienced this psychological gap. But reality is reality, and regret is useless. We can either spend our lives envying others, or, "better to weave a net than stand by the pond and long for fish," we must work hard to quit lustful thoughts and actions and gradually make up for the lost blessings. I resolutely chose the latter. What about you

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