Sensitive issues affecting marital sex life

Couples should communicate about sex regularly, but due to differences in values, psychology, and other factors, many issues are difficult to address or discuss. Have you encountered any of the following questions? Let's hear the doctor's answers and advice.

1. Will he not like me after I give birth?

It's normal for husbands to lose interest in sex after their wives give birth, but fortunately, this period is short, lasting only a few weeks. This doesn't mean the wife has lost her appeal; it's mainly out of consideration for her. They know she has just gone through a painful experience and don't want to put further pressure on her.

Psychologists believe that it's natural for both partners to focus their energy on the child at this time. However, this special phase will soon pass. Communication between husband and wife is especially important. The wife shouldn't only focus on caring for the baby and neglect her husband's care and affection. Otherwise, he may feel abandoned.

2. Books say the average frequency of sexual activity for couples is once to twice a week, but we haven't had sex for several months. Is there a problem?

No. The frequency of sexual activity varies from person to person. Every couple will experience a period of sexual inactivity. Sexual activity is intermittent, sometimes intense, sometimes weak, fluctuating in intensity. This is mostly due to external factors such as financial constraints, fatigue, irritability, anxiety, children's disturbances, and even subtle psychological changes. The saying "when people are well-fed and warm, they think of sex" perfectly illustrates this point; you can't expect to have sex when the stock market is crashing.

Thirdly, despite my husband's best efforts, I still feel a sense of loss after sex. Is there something wrong with me?

No. At most, it's a lack of communication. Men instinctively know what to do, but women are often shy about discussing with their husbands which parts of their body need caressing, and they feel disappointed when their husbands don't. Actually, you can tell him directly what he should do, or subtly guide his hands to touch the sensitive areas you crave caressing, expressing your pleasure and encouraging him to continue. This kind of subtle interaction is very beneficial for a harmonious married life.

Fourthly, will our children be alarmed if they see us having sex?

It's best to avoid letting children see. This could awaken their sexual awareness and lead them to imitate adults' sexual games with their friends.

If you do see it, carefully explain to your child that there's no need to be alarmed; it's just a way for everyone to express love. Never tell them in a serious tone that only adults can do such things, as that will pique their curiosity.

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