The most exciting way for couples to engage in casual sex, driven by their most primal desires.

The only thing unfamiliar is the name; what's eternal is the joy of being alone
in the vast sea of people. With whom can you sleep that offers both passionate excitement and a safe ending? Answer: Not your fiancé, not your long-time lover, not your familiar friend, and certainly not your so-called spouse within a marriage, but a complete stranger you meet on the street.
Because of this unfamiliarity, everything is unknown, thus creating novelty, curiosity, and mystery. Any hint of ambiguity from a mysterious person of the opposite sex can make your heart flutter, even sparking fantasies and a desire to try. Therefore, strangers are most likely to create stories.
The bar streets and Western restaurants scattered throughout Chinese cities are now breeding grounds for strangers sleeping together. A cup of coffee or a beer, in the dim light where you can't see each other's faces clearly, it's easy to find a stranger of the opposite sex to sleep with. For example, Houhai in Beijing, Xintiandi in Shanghai, Tang Bar in Guangzhou, and so on.
The greatest value of sleeping with a stranger lies in the pleasure. Because it may only be a once-in-a-lifetime opportunity, a couple will cherish it a hundredfold, strive a thousandfold, and go ten thousandfold, desperately trying to maximize this precious pleasure.
There's a song that goes, "Smile when you break up, don't ask who I am," which probably describes the scene when strangers get out of bed—not asking who the other person is is perhaps the greatest charm of strangers going to bed together—you don't know who they are, yet you've already done everything.
In fact, this is precisely a return to the essence of sex. What is the essential meaning of sex? It's pleasure, and there is only one, no other. Because of pleasure, people make love; because of love, humanity reproduces. Hegel called this evolution "the cunning of human reason."
So, from the perspective of "for pleasure," making love is like playing a game of ping-pong in the community park after work. You don't need to ask who the other person is; as long as their skills are good, they make you happy, and they make you sweat, then they've achieved their value—what is this called? This is what the old saying means by "Why bother with past acquaintances?" When strangers go to bed, it's all about strangers. The famous Chinese real estate philosopher Feng Lun has a famous philosophy of "stranger culture": "People shouldn't be too familiar; if people are too familiar, they can't follow the rules." The same applies to men and women going to bed. If Feng Lun's "philosophy of strangers" belongs to corporate culture, then extending this philosophy to sexual culture, it means that it's best to sleep with strangers. Because if you're too familiar with each other, you can't follow the rules.
So, what rules should be followed in matters of the heart where pleasure is the primary objective? A group of Zhuhai girls who frequently "hook up with handsome guys" in the Gongbei bar street told me that they only date outsiders, never local men. Why? Apparently, it's for safety, to avoid potential problems.
In fact, "one-night stands" do have rules, and ironclad ones: only strangers, not familiar faces, and after a night of pleasure, still strangers! That is: strangers come, strangers go, no need for familiarity, no entanglement. Only in this way can a pair of strangers sleeping together avoid causing personal turmoil and social upheaval. After the "feast," everything returns to zero. Only names remain unfamiliar, but the pleasure is eternal! Therefore, sleeping with strangers is best.
In fact, the so-called "sleeping with strangers" is what we now commonly call a "one-night stand." To explain this using Professor Pan Suiming's sociological concept, it means "two people who were originally strangers sleep together after a brief encounter, and often only once, without any monetary transaction." Intriguingly, this kind of one-night stand involving strangers is not very old in China.
In 1990, when Professor Liu Dalin led a survey of 20,000 cases of "sexual civilization" in China, the concept of one-night stands was not yet widely understood. However, just ten years later, in 2000, when Professor Pan Suiming led the first survey on "Chinese people's sexual life and sexual relationships," one-night stands had already appeared in the sexual relationships of Chinese men and women, accounting for 1%. Ten years later, in 2010, when Professor Pan Suiming led the third survey on "Chinese people's sexual life and sexual relationships," the incidence of one-night stands had reached 6.4%. From nothing to something in twenty years, and growing as rapidly as China's GDP, what does this show? It shows that one-night stands involving strangers have a strong vitality in the bedroom.

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