(Forwarded from a couple in Chaoyang District, Beijing: We are open to single men, what are you open to?)

It seems many single men are complaining these days, and I understand the awkward situation. Many couples explicitly state "No single men please," and if we accept a single man but then impose various conditions, his chances seem very slim. In my opinion, if a single man is just complaining, his chances are even slimmer. For
couples seeking single men, the first thing single men need to understand is that these couples must have a very good relationship. And to take the first step, you must recognize a crucial premise: in this kind of friendship, the wife usually takes the lead. That is, whether a couple will meet you and become friends is not up to the husband, but the wife. I think most single men have experience chatting with female netizens online. Are these single women the type to go to a hotel after just a few words? Yes, but definitely not the majority, especially considering these are already happily married women. In this kind of friendship, the husband usually vets the woman first. If he thinks she's suitable or they get along well, then the wife will step in. Of course, some wives are very proactive, but that depends on the single man's luck.
For single men seeking friends with married couples, the second key point is crucial: Remember the conditions the couple specifies for making friends. These conditions, often set by the wife, directly impact the outcome. If you can't meet them, it's best not to add them.
Third, treat married couples, especially the wife, with the same mindset you'd have when pursuing a new girl, not for sex or excitement. As the saying goes, men are driven by their lower instincts (emotions), while women are driven by their upper instincts (reasons). Besides the mystery and excitement of a stranger, a crucial factor for the wife is the feeling of being pampered and cherished that her husband hasn't given her in a long time.
Fourth, not all couples participating in the friend-making event are as promiscuous or open as you might imagine. Respecting their habits is important.
Fifth, if the couple accepts your friend request, the single man has a significant advantage. Remember, the reality is that supply exceeds demand. If you don't actively seek out the couple and then hide away looking at their photos, you'll likely be removed from their friend list. Since the couple has accepted your application, it means they have initially approved of you. You can confidently greet them more often; even without chatting, the more you say hello, the better.
Sixth, regarding the most basic element of sincerity. Many single men claim to be sincere, and we don't know for sure, but at least one thing is certain: before getting to know each other better, the completeness of your information will be the most direct standard for judging your sincerity. If you don't even have your most basic information, how can you claim sincerity? Where are you from? How old are you? A basic self-introduction? Without these, where is your sincerity reflected? In your words? Furthermore, if you just glance at the couples' photos, blogs, and status updates each time you visit, leaving a comment, is that sincerity? Couples may be hypocritical, but aren't single men just as likely to be? Their purpose is simply to add the women as friends and admire their photos, nothing more.

Seventh, if things develop naturally and you meet in person, single men, please prepare a small gift for the women. The first impression online is important, but the real-life impression is even more important, as it determines the final outcome. Gifts aren't about their monetary value, but about the sentiment behind them. They convey sincerity and warmth, and serve as a bridge between the virtual and the real world.

So, I want to say that while we welcome single men and are currently looking for suitable ones, single men, can you meet our criteria?

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