Here are some experiences and tips for couples who want to try dating.

We've met many couples online and successfully guided several couples who wanted to try it for the first time into a passionate and intimate paradise, fulfilling their dreams. During this process, we also communicated online with other couples interested in trying it and discovered some noteworthy issues that we feel are necessary to discuss here.
First, there's the issue of motivation. Some husbands explicitly told me they just wanted excitement, to satisfy their sensory stimulation and curiosity, but when I asked if they had considered their wives' feelings, they couldn't say for sure; some simply said they agreed, while others were still trying to persuade them. I believe the motivation for couples engaging in group activities shouldn't be primarily for the man, but for the woman. In modern society, men can easily find pleasure by spending money, but women cannot. Therefore, our motivation and starting point should be to let our wives experience and enjoy the pleasure and excitement of group sex. Because we deeply love them, we want them to experience pleasure that most women don't. We are arranging a fun game for our wives; the participants are playmates or toys that we husbands have found for them. Therefore, the starting point must be for the wife, not for ourselves. -
Once the issue of motivation is clear, let's discuss the issue of finding a partner. A significant number of netizens emphasize the importance of both good character and appearance in the partner, which I completely agree with. However, one point should be clear: the choice regarding appearance should rest with the wife. In other words, the wife should be the first to choose the husband, not the other way around, as some netizens do by immediately demanding to see photos of the wife. Only after the wife has chosen the husband can the husband consider whether he can accept the wife. Generally, if the wife is satisfied with the husband, the husband should, in principle, accommodate her preferences, even if he is not entirely satisfied with the wife. This is because women are relatively more discerning and finding a suitable partner is not easy, while men are relatively easier
to find. Furthermore, the communication process is crucial. Some couples only have communication between the husbands, which is far from sufficient. The wife should be encouraged to communicate with the husband. A woman cannot accept a man based solely on appearance, especially on the first date. It's important for her to be psychologically accepting of the man. Online communication is a process of heart-to-heart communication. Only when the wife is psychologically prepared can she truly experience physical release. Moreover, online communication truly reflects character. This is very important! -
Next, let's talk about persuading your wife. Many husbands hope I can help persuade their wives, and I've agreed. Indeed, almost all of them have been convinced. What's the secret? It's not mysterious at all. The prerequisite is that you must be a truly loving couple. Just make sure your wife is certain that you love her, that you want to try this game for her sake, and that it won't affect your relationship; on the contrary, it will deepen your feelings for each other. -
Finally, let's talk about how to try it for the first time. First, it's not advisable to participate in group activities because there are many situations you can't control. Plus, it's your first time, so you're already feeling uneasy, making it impossible to fully enjoy the experience. If your wife has a bad feeling, don't even think about playing it again. The first time is usually two couples playing, and it's best to invite a man your wife likes to play a threesome. Some netizens may not understand why a threesome is recommended for couples to socialize. There's a reason for this. The wife's psychology will be more complex for the first time. The key to success is to let her fully immerse herself in the atmosphere of love and desire, so it's important to let her focus on enjoying the pleasure. However, if two couples play together, it might objectively make her concerned about how her husband performs with other women, especially when she sees the other woman having multiple orgasms under her husband. This would naturally arouse jealousy, causing her own sexual desire to vanish completely. That would be disastrous; such a failure would be devastating. Not only would she be unable to play again, but it could also leave a psychological scar. Threesomes objectively prevent this from happening. Once she experiences pleasure from such a game, even if she plays foursomes next time, she will look forward to experiencing that physical pleasure again and won't pay too much attention to her husband's performance. Choosing a partner for a threesome is also very important. Never choose a boy who is too young, because young boys don't have much experience in foreplay and don't know how to be considerate of the woman and gently guide her to orgasm. Because of their good stamina, they might be eager to penetrate directly, which won't allow the woman to obtain physical and psychological pleasure. Therefore, when choosing partners for a three-person game, it's best to select male friends of similar or even slightly older age. This will likely make the wife feel more secure and comfortable. As for a four-person game, I must remind you that the first time you play, it's best to avoid the swapping and separating format, as this will make the wife feel insecure. It should be two couples playing together, and at the beginning, the husband should hold his wife's hand tightly, kiss her frequently, and encourage her with encouraging eye contact, showing her that he loves her. This will give her the courage to continue playing.
How to find like-minded friends? If you are fortunate enough to find such friends, you should prepare to meet them. However, because it's the first meeting, many friends are often nervous and at a loss. So, here are my simple thoughts.
First, what kind of mindset should you have?
I think those friends who are used to fast food might place too much hope on a first meeting, thinking that no matter what, they have to go through the whole process today, they have to experience it, otherwise their excitement and anticipation will be hard to dispel... In fact, the more they think like this, the less they get to the point, and in the end, they may bring themselves a lot of psychological burden, leading to mood swings, restlessness and unease. For example, one person might feel that they are not really looking forward to it, while the other person is too enthusiastic about it, and feel a little unbalanced; or both people might start to worry about many things for no reason and back out together; or the two people might be in sync, but one wants to go and the other doesn't... There are also those who cancel halfway through... Even worse, they only realize that it is really not suitable after meeting, but they have no excuse or reason to leave... Should they blindly go through the process and make themselves feel wronged? Or should they make up a false reason to leave and leave the hurt to the other person? ... These things, sometimes, don't mean that you are not sincere, but that you have too many concerns, you scare yourself away, or you make yourself look bad.
The first meeting is actually quite simple. I think it's just about getting acquainted, having a meal, a cup of tea, and chatting casually—that's good enough. Don't assume that a meal or tea with the intention of making friends is bland. In fact, it's a preliminary, subtle exploration, a build-up of emotions before formally becoming friends. Because everyone's implicit purpose is the same, the topics can be open and free. If the conversation goes well, it will ferment like a fermenting process, making later interactions more flavorful and passionate.
If, unfortunately, the two sides don't get along, or the other person isn't your type, the meal or tea becomes a gentle buffer, allowing everyone to politely say goodbye without seeming abrupt, leaving room for each other.
Secondly, what kind of preparation should be made?
Psychologically speaking, once you've decided to meet, be firm. Don't waver, don't worry excessively. Just imagine you're meeting an old friend you haven't seen in years—naturally and generously have a meal and a cup of tea. Once the belief is firm, the couple can share some anticipation and excitement for the meeting, making it a little secret and a source of joy to share. It's essential to have a thorough understanding and trust in each other's psychology before the meeting, so that you are an inseparable whole from the start.
Next, some external preparation is necessary. Simply put, make sure you look your best, clean and refreshed. Women can be as charming and radiant as possible; in short, equip yourself according to your own aesthetic sense and your partner's, so that you make a captivating first impression. For example, women should wear light makeup, perfume, and beautiful clothes… and, just in case, prepare some sexy lingerie, etc. Men should, of course, have clean fingernails, shave, and get enough sleep to be refreshed.
Finally, it's important to have a clear direction for the conversation during the meeting, such as each other's interests, the weather, current events, and even casual topics. Know how to transition naturally, make appropriate jokes, and respect and defer to each other in conversation, ensuring a pleasant and lively discussion. If permissible, even a little vanity is beneficial.
Some thoughtful friends will prepare small gifts for their first meeting. I personally approve of this; it shows respect and affection, and if the gift is appropriate, it will leave a very good impression. For example, for women, flowers, small accessories (hair clips, brooches, lipstick, perfume, etc.), scarves, chocolates, underwear, books, CDs, etc., and for men, tie clips, books, CDs, or a movie from their computer. In short, such a meeting is warm and touching, truly giving one the feeling of a friendship gained from heaven. Of
course, we also need to consider the possibility of four people falling in love at first sight, so those staying overnight should bring their own toiletries, pajamas, razors, and condoms. If staying at someone's home, the host should ideally prepare clean pajamas, a toothbrush, and disposable underwear. These small details can deepen the friendship and make the interaction more warm. You have to admit, people are often moved by small things.
If you're not careful enough, or if there are areas where your preparation is insufficient, be sure to communicate with your partner and express your apologies appropriately. This will leave a good impression.
The above is based on my experience and is offered for couples who are interested in trying this approach. Wishing everyone happiness and fulfillment!
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