A Brief Discussion on Types of Couples' Dating

After several years of experience in this kind of activity, I've summarized some observations about couples who participate, excluding single men as they aren't part of the "core" group. Firstly, all couples willing to participate are generally open-minded and enjoy life; they possess a forward-thinking sense of entertainment and a pursuit of sexual pleasure. However, couples who have been in this circle for a few years have discovered a problem: finding truly compatible partners is extremely rare, mainly due to various "flaws" between them. Let's examine some of these flaws, which I've roughly categorized as follows:

1. The Self-Righteous Type :

These couples, when first introduced to this activity, are filled with the mindset of "you're taking advantage of me, we're losing out," and "your respect for me should be limitless, while we're doing you a favor by playing with you." They demand others conform to their wishes while refusing to show any respect to others. Most of these couples gradually fade out after a few years. Of course, who wants to participate with a "rich young master" and "rich young mistress" couple? Here's my advice to couples like you: if you look down on others, delete them immediately and stop communicating. The negative impact you're bringing to this activity is immense; it's like a rat dropping into a pot of soup. Yes, you read that right, you're even worse than a rat!

Second, the indecisive type:

These couples are the kind who have the desire but lack the courage. They want to join the game and enjoy the pleasures of intimacy, but they don't have the slightest courage to take the first step. They might even stand each other up, or hesitate because they're afraid of various low-probability events, such as their identities being exposed and secretly photographed, being raided by the police, being kidnapped, or the other person having a contagious disease. Even if they get along well, they still don't dare to put the activity into practice. This type of couple is common, whether they're new to the circle or seasoned observers. The reason they can't participate is that they're already terrified before even officially participating. I just want to say, how do you know what lies ahead if you don't take the first step? Are you the only one afraid? Don't the other couples have fear? You have ID cards and social circles, but the other couple doesn't? Why don't you think about it from a different perspective? Maybe all your concerns are unfounded. My advice is, if you're afraid, don't play this game. Stay away and don't bother other couples or disturb their relationship. If you really want to play this game, make a detailed plan to protect yourself. You're an adult; don't you know that no one can protect you except yourself?

Third, the "judging by appearance" type.

These couples should be categorized as self-righteous. They're grouped out because their numbers are enormous. They demand their partner be incredibly good-looking, the husband be as handsome as Cristiano Ronaldo, and the wife have a figure like Victoria Beckham. I find it strange; these people already have that kind of charisma, why would they bother letting you choose them? Of course, these couples usually don't get added by anyone, except for single men looking for a few photos! I have nothing to say about these couples.

Fourth, the arrogant and self-important type.

This is even more ridiculous. It usually appears among "older" couples who have participated in several activities and are older than you. Once you add them, it's like entering a high school classroom you haven't been to in years. They're practically giving you a chronicle of couples' dating history. They have very detailed and thoroughly familiar rules and regulations for the activities. Don't object; it's futile. They'll tell you they've been there, and only by following their wishes can the activities be better. Even if you have the slightest question, it will not be allowed, because all sorts of labels will be slapped on your "newcomers" and they'll tell you you're too naive. If you encounter such a couple, I want to tell you that you may be very "senior" in this circle, but the activity itself is about freedom, and you have no right to deprive others of their freedom!

Fifth, the purely wishful thinking type:

These couples aren't actually here for the activity. Their motivations are different, so I won't comment on them. After all, everyone has their own hobbies, and we should respect other people's lifestyles. But please clearly state your intentions. Don't lie and ask others to exchange photos, then use the excuse that you want to participate in the activity but your wife disagrees to deceive people. You'll ruin the image of couples genuinely looking for activities. So if you want to deceive, don't be afraid of being criticized!
I may have missed some types after saying so much; you can fill in the gaps yourself. Below, I'll share some of my views on how to conduct activities. Those who agree can take it as a reference; those who disagree can simply ignore it.

The biggest misconception most couples have in dating is that they somehow learned to get to know each other well, communicate extensively, and even see each other's sincerity! I strongly disagree with this. The reason is this: on the virtual, even fake, platform of the internet, trying to truly understand a person or even a family is pure fantasy. How can you understand someone when you can't even see their face? By typing? It's ridiculous. Even P2P lending platforms have government support; if they wanted to scam you, wouldn't they just make you lose everything? Who would be foolish enough to open up about themselves and their family without ever meeting you in person? Where's the sincerity in that? Couples who have participated in these activities, ask yourselves: how many of the couples you've been with for so long actually know each other's real names? Besides, these kinds of activities are meant to be understood, not explained. What can you really learn by trying to find out more? In my opinion, as long as you confirm each other's willingness to participate, verify each other's marital status, agree on a safe and reliable activity plan and location, arrive on time, relax, and follow the rules, that's all that matters. Only strict rules can guarantee everyone's safety. As for whether the other couple is suitable for you, or whether you can have a long-term relationship, let's decide that in bed. If it's possible, form a group and have a future together; if not, break up and start over. Don't always go against the core of the "activity" by trying to learn things you won't get the truth from others. And even if you did, what good would it do? It's exhausting and emotionally draining, and what's worse, most breakups don't happen during activities, but rather from a few unintentional "offenses" in conversation.

Furthermore, everyone has flaws, which may inadvertently make you feel uncomfortable. However, relationships require mutual understanding and forgiveness to continue. No one in the world is perfect. Therefore, don't be too picky when making friends. We're all married; although people have different levels of social standing, activities should be equal. Being overly critical or self-centered will only make things very difficult. Of course, I also advise couples to restrain their flaws and be more considerate of others. Worrying about others' insincerity is actually doubting yourself. If everyone restrains themselves and follows the rules, these worries disappear. Only when everyone in the room respects each other can activities be enjoyable. After all, we won't spend more than 24 hours together; it's not like we're married and looking for a partner for life. Why nitpick and spoil everyone's fun? Or bring your unhappiness to others? Of course, I also advise those who never restrain themselves and have strong social habits: indulge your body, but also watch your mouth! Don't bring your social habits to this event. You won't get anything here by bragging or showing off. This isn't a business meeting, a chance to impress your boss, or a chance to criticize your subordinates. If you want to socialize, behave yourself!

Finally, all couples should show full respect for the event. Respecting the event means respecting your partner and yourself. Most importantly, keep your word and prioritize integrity. If you can't keep a promise, don't make it. Once you've promised, don't change it, no matter how important. Even if you're reluctant, accompany your partner to the end. After all, you made the decision, and you should bear the consequences. You are adults and responsible for your actions. If you treat your words lightly, it's not just an apology; it's a matter of character!

However, making friends is risky, and couples should be cautious. Of course, no one can guarantee they'll see the sun tomorrow. Even drinking cold water can cause problems. Finally, I wish all couples in the community a pleasant experience in the bed of married women or under married men!

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