True love between spouses is the foundation of friendship. [Repost]

In today's society, temptations abound, and no one can guarantee that either spouse will refrain from actions that could harm the other. A husband's extramarital affair and a wife's infidelity—just because it doesn't happen today doesn't mean it won't happen
in the future; just because it didn't happen during the honeymoon period doesn't mean it won't happen years later. We see and hear far too many examples of this. Whether it's the husband's or wife's behavior, it's a form of illicit activity, harming the other and even jeopardizing family stability, thus endangering social stability. This is unacceptable.
From a fairness perspective, Chinese society is still patriarchal. Men can have relationships with many women without consequence, but if a woman has a relationship with another man, the problem becomes serious—this is extremely unfair.
From a physiological perspective, women's sexual needs far exceed those of men, yet traditional values prevent women from pursuing sexual fulfillment. This is a tragedy for society and for women themselves.
To address these issues, we believe that couples engaging in sexual activity is an excellent way to resolve these problems and will likely become the mainstream approach to managing male-female relationships in the future.
The history of human sexual culture is essentially a history of millennia of exploration into how to rationally control sex, a history of repeatedly oscillating between sexual freedom and sexual repression, seeking a suitable balance. Due to differences in wealth, social status, and age, people's understanding of sex varies. If everyone were to have absolute freedom and indulge in unrestrained sexual behavior, it would inevitably lead to chaos and would not be in anyone's fundamental interest. In this sense, marital mutual assistance, built on the family unit and respecting each individual's wishes, is a process that maximizes sexual satisfaction without excessive release. It embodies the equality and freedom of the new era and perfectly aligns with modern human needs, encompassing both social and familial control over sex. Therefore, it is not indulgence, but rather development and progress.
As long as couples are loving, have a good relationship, and are open with each other, with no secrets between them, they can adopt a "let's all play together" approach, adhering to the principles of "adulthood," "voluntariness," and "privacy." With a positive attitude and progressive perspective, focusing on their spouse, they can make high-quality friends, communicate fully, and build deep friendships. Then, when the time is right, what is meant to happen will happen naturally, and it will be happy.
Families capable of sexual exchange certainly represent a very high level of achievement! Firstly, the couple must have reached a consensus; otherwise, it wouldn't be called exchanging partners, it would be called stealing. Secondly, they genuinely care about each other's sexual well-being, finding their own happiness in the other's pleasure; otherwise, they wouldn't do it openly but secretly. Thirdly, they must want to maintain the family's existence to negotiate and resolve their sexual concerns; otherwise, they would be indifferent and unmoved by sexual issues. Considering these points, exchanging partners is a good thing, not a poison in family life.

The main difference between humans and animals is that humans are shy and hide what they consider undesirable. Thus, the body is often covered by clothing, with the reproductive system being the most crucial part of this. Consequently, the function of the reproductive system gradually transformed from a simple reproductive function into a private act, and later became associated with love and affection. Sexual activity became known as sexual intercourse, existing only between lovers. Because the consequence of sex can be "death," to control population growth, sex, marriage, and family were linked together, leading to the common belief that sex is the exclusive domain of married couples.
The family is a cell of social life, essential for a stable existence. Maintaining harmony within a family involves multiple aspects: love, obligations, and responsibilities. Thus, the state has laws and regulations to protect marriage and uphold the family. But does sex truly exist only within the family?
Sex is a need! Like hunger and thirst, it's a physiological requirement. Eating and drinking tea don't seem to be the sole domain of the family, and it's impossible for sex to exist only within the family and marriage! Therefore, extramarital and premarital sex are rampant in today's society, often disguised as love, attempting to elicit sympathy and understanding.
In reality, physiologically speaking, sex is unrelated to love or family; it's something to do when you want, simple and clear. Emotionally speaking, sex and love are indeed inseparable. Humans are emotional beings, and having sex with someone you have no feelings for should be a terrible thing! However, love doesn't necessarily equate to sex, because sex is indeed a higher level than ordinary emotions. Couples who engage in sex swapping must have love in their relationships, which is why they consider each other's perspectives rather than simply seeking personal pleasure. Moreover, this love is of a very high level; they would only agree to accept sex swapping if their partner's happiness is their own.
Imagine if the wife enjoys getting her hair done, and a male hairdresser skillfully strokes her hair—would the husband object? If the wife enjoys beauty treatments, and a male beautician massages her face and forehead with smooth fingers—would the husband object? If the husband enjoys drinking and playing drinking games with several women, would the wife object? If the husband is tired and wants a massage or foot reflexology, and a female masseuse does it for him—would the wife object? Most families would accept any of these options. So why not give your partner an opportunity when they enjoy sex but you are unable to provide it? Why must sex be confined to family and marriage?
In exchange families, men are tolerant and women are generous. The families of those who exchange partners are likely stable. I don't think they want to destroy anything, but simply want to give each other a fresher and more exciting experience. Love is the driving force behind their lives! I see nothing dirty or shameful in these families.
Statement of Matters:
1. We oppose any form of unilateral invitation; we only accept joint participation.
2. The other party must be healthy, and the man must know how to respect women. Only hygiene ensures safety.
3. There are no geographical restrictions. Couples who live far away are welcome to form friendly travel assistance families. You'll have a friend to act as a tour guide when you travel to each other's homes.
4. When interacting with us, sincerity is paramount. Don't hesitate or be afraid to do it. Video calls are recommended to leave a good impression on each other. Since this involves four people, we should strive to ensure mutual satisfaction.
5. Of course, we are not celebrities; we are just ordinary people. We shouldn't expect celebrities to meet our standards. As long as the other party meets the following criteria: "presentable appearance, legitimate occupation, loving marriage, some education, civilized behavior, good health and hygiene, the man is caring towards women, and not overly selfish," age is not an issue.
6. Interactions with us are safe, and we hope you will adhere to the principle of "privacy" and conduct your friendship as a couple in a morally sound manner.
7. We oppose couples with differing views who want to participate but are afraid to, thus violating decisions made unilaterally by one spouse.
Regarding gatherings
: 1. We prefer the other spouse's home as the venue. If there are children, please make proper arrangements for them.
2. The couple must share the same views. Forcing one spouse to do something against the other will cause unhappiness and may even affect family stability.
3. We do not oppose maintaining a long-term friendly relationship between the couples. Regular gatherings will bring more joy and reduce the energy spent searching for suitable new partners.
4. Neither spouse may contact, spend time alone with, or have secret meetings with the other without permission to prevent extramarital affairs.
5. We do not object to taking photos during the event, but any photos taken by either spouse must have faces blurred under everyone's supervision.
6. We do not object to the other spouse's suggestion to invite other couples to participate in the event, but this must be done within their means and in a safe manner. Too many people will cause health problems and defeat the purpose of making friends.
7. We do not object to the other party's suggestion to increase combat effectiveness during the activity and invite outstanding single men to participate, as this would benefit the women participating in the activity by providing them with more enjoyment;
8. We do not object to the use of sex toys during the activity, but we firmly oppose the use of drugs as stimulants;
the above is just a brief overview, said as thoughts came to mind, without considering the reactions on the surface of the pool, or perhaps I've read too much pornography and become too open-minded; or perhaps I'm just a vulgar person pursuing low-level pleasures, but I feel that as understanding of sex deepens, more and more families will be able to accept swapping.

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