Let me tell you about the time my wife almost got raped.

Last year, during a threesome with my wife, I mentioned that men from Northeast China generally have larger penises. My wife said not all of them are, and that she'd seen some with smaller penises. At the time, I didn't think much of it, but later...
My wife is from Northeast China, and so is her lover, whose size is decent. We've also had several couples where both the men are from Northeast China, and their sizes are definitely not small.
Although my wife has had casual sex with a few men, I've never heard of any from Northeast China. Could there be something she's hiding? Back home, thinking about all this, I asked my wife, and she told me about something that happened many years ago.
It happened about two years after she gave birth. My wife had always had a pretty good figure. When I met her, she weighed around 90 pounds, then around 100 pounds. She gained 30 pounds during pregnancy, but after giving birth, she exercised regularly and returned to a weight of just over 100 pounds, transforming from a "barrel waist" into a woman with a full bust, waist, and hips.
Around that time, my relationship with my wife had changed somewhat compared to before we had children. I was busy with work every day, earning a considerable amount of money, paying off the mortgage, buying a new car, and preparing to buy a second house. I worked overtime every day and came home very late. My wife was busy at work during the day and took care of the children at night, so we had very little communication and very little sex life, only having
sex on weekends. It was during that period that my wife almost had an affair. She became quite close to someone at work, which is what she told me then. That person was from Northeast China, the same city as my wife.
They ate lunch together at work, sometimes in the company cafeteria, sometimes at restaurants, and they talked quite a bit. My wife had some feelings for him, but nothing serious happened.
My wife's company organized a business training program every year. Before the 18th National Congress of the Communist Party of China, it was at least a week long, held in places like Chengde, Qingdao, Hangzhou, Xiamen, Jiuzhaigou, Sanya, and Jinggangshan—basically, training in tourist destinations. The training
lasted three days, with the rest of the time spent on group activities. In 2005, my wife said that she went to Qingdao with him, and they studied and ate together every day until the day they left. My wife said the guy from the branch office she was sharing a room with—she couldn't remember exactly—was taking a flight that night, packing his things to go home. He called her to his room, and she went. He was alone in the room; his roommate had left earlier. The room was very clean.
They sat on the bed watching TV. He put his arm around her, then touched her, kissed her face, and then tried to kiss her lips, but she dodged.
He wanted to be her lover, but she didn't agree. However, she wasn't as strong as him, and he took off her skirt and bra. He stripped her naked too. They did it for a long time, but my wife said she refused to do it and wouldn't let him take off his underwear. Her underwear wasn't taken off.
She said she later used her hands and mouth to make him ejaculate, saying his penis wasn't big, only half of it was visible in her hand, and it wasn't thick.
My wife felt incredibly guilty towards me back then. After he helped me, he kissed her breasts for a while. She said she wanted to have sex later, but she couldn't get an erection with her mouth or hands, and even kissing didn't work. She lost interest and went back to her room to masturbate.
On the plane back, we didn't sit together. Although we still kept in touch, it was just a normal colleague relationship. Later, he changed jobs, and we still contacted each other occasionally.
My wife also wanted to find a lover then, to enjoy the feeling a lover would give her, but she didn't want to find one at work or among acquaintances.
Hearing my wife say this, I became a little agitated, but then I thought about it. Our relationship in those years was indeed not as good as it used to be, nor as good as it is now. It wasn't that we didn't love each other anymore, but that we neglected each other's needs.
A marriage is like a river. Newlyweds are like the upper reaches of a valley, full of passion and excitement. But after many years of marriage, it reaches the calmer lower reaches, the water flows slowly, there are no waves, it's very calm, and the novelty wears off, easily leading to marital dullness or complications.
In reality, although the relationship between husband and wife after many years may be like the middle and lower reaches of a river, it is broad and calm, like a vast ocean embracing all things. Both partners have a deep understanding of each other's temperament, values, conduct, and attitude towards life; they are practically soulmates.
Life is short, friends are easy to find, but true confidants are rare. A long-term spouse is a true confidant. Life doesn't need to be dramatic; it's more about the ordinary, the mundane, the daily grind, laundry, bed-making, and children's education.
But even a peaceful life needs a touch of novelty. Whether it's threesomes or couples engaging in casual sex, these are novel experiences that can stir up waves in a calm life, rather than stagnant water. They can effectively enhance the relationship between husband and wife.
At the end of that year, I learned about my wife's work experience, which almost led to an extramarital affair. I didn't know about oral sex with men, and we had a lot of arguments. Our marriage almost hit the rocks, but we still had to keep going.
Later, my wife and I came across couples engaging in threesomes. Over the years, we've experienced quite a lot, and my wife has also experienced a lot of men.
I once asked my wife if a certain man contacted her, would they become lovers and go to a hotel together? She firmly said no. I asked her why, and she said they worked at the same company, and it wouldn't be good if others found out.
Women and men have different views on sex. Many men can separate sex and love; they give love to their wives, but can give sex to any woman, even those they've never been with, ignoring body shape and appearance. But women are different. There needs to be some feeling, there needs to be affection before anything can happen. They need to find the man attractive, communicate effectively about preferences, and even agree on viewpoints before anything can progress.
In the years we've had casual relationships, a few years ago my wife started dating other men alone and even asked me to go out with other women. She went to KFC with several men, but only two of them actually met up again. The others were just meetings, hotel rooms, sex, and then she'd delete all contact information and never contact me again. She only wants to reconnect with men she likes.
In recent years, my wife and I have had fewer activities together. We have elderly parents to care for and young children to raise, and my work position is important, so naturally, we have less time for socializing. My wife and I have discussed having sex with couples we've never met before, or even finding another man, but she's always disagreed. So, for the past two years, the only people we've had are a single man and a married couple – we're partners in bed and friends in real life.
Many people in the 69 forum want to "develop" relationships with their wives – neighbors, colleagues, childhood friends, even their wives' ex-boyfriends, etc. Everyone has their own desires and preferences. I don't recommend finding these people around you. Your social circle is small, and if conflicts arise later, everyone in your circle might know.
I met a couple from Sichuan in a now-closed XX Paradise forum. They had a threesome with the wife's ex-boyfriend, and their family almost broke apart. People around them found out, making their lives unbearable. This is the kind of outcome nobody wants.
Whether it's a threesome or couples having casual sex, it's best to keep it private. You can gradually turn them into friends, maintain long-term relationships, and life will be more enjoyable.

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