Exchange of aesthetics

Although we've just entered the university of exchange programs, and our theoretical knowledge is shallow and our practical experience is limited (we haven't even participated in an exchange yet), I'd like to briefly share a few of my views:
First, the beauty of exchange stems from genuine
affection. For couples willing to participate in exchange programs, love is both a prerequisite and a driving force. If there's no genuine affection between a couple, then discussing exchange becomes meaningless, let alone aesthetically pleasing. Some couples participate because they feel it's merely a formality, lacking passion, and want to rekindle dormant desires; some couples have one partner who is indifferent and want to achieve harmony; some are already harmonious and want to give their partner more enjoyment, and so on. Regardless of their type, those who participate in exchange programs must be very loving. Therefore, I have great trust and respect for couples who have participated or are planning to participate. Only when truly loving couples exchange together can it be beautiful—selfless, innocent, and aesthetically pleasing.
Second, the beauty of exchange is based on fairness
. Couples participating in exchange programs will likely experience some unease and difficulty. The reason they can accept it is because the exchange is very fair. Both sides will experience loss and dissatisfaction. Men have viewed their wives as private property for thousands of years, and seeing their wives with other men inevitably brings a slight sense of unease. Women love their husbands passionately, and seeing them with other men also leaves a bitter taste in their mouths. However, both are willing to endure it because they are all bearing the same burden. Exchange is different from adultery. Adultery is selfish; even in the safest place, there is unease. Besides venting one's desires, it has no aesthetic appeal. Exchange is fair; husband and wife are together, both facing what they previously found most unacceptable, yet they are open and fearless because of true love and fairness.
Third, the beauty of exchange comes from anticipation.
After the exchange, there may be some disappointment and dissatisfaction, but the anticipation before the exchange is beautiful. Like a novel, each reader develops an image of the protagonist, an image that is perfect yet illusory. Once it's made into a movie or TV series, seeing real actors portraying the protagonist, some will find numerous flaws in them, because that's just the director's vision of the protagonist, quite different from their own ideal image. The same applies to exchanging. Before the exchange, everything is perfect. Even without meeting an exchange partner, just having the intention creates anticipation, and a perfect protagonist and perfect process emerge. Even if it's unreal, the mere thought of it can be incredibly powerful. This anticipated process is beautiful, and even if the exchange never succeeds, this beauty accompanies you throughout your life. It's like reading an entire novel, even if it hasn't been made into a movie yet.
IV. The Beauty of Exchange Arises from Rebellion
. Humans are born with a rebellious spirit; the more it's restrained, the greater the rebelliousness. Society needs constraints, morality, and laws, but from infancy to old age, humans possess a rebellious nature. The more we discourage them from doing something, the more they want to do it. Even if we're not consciously aware of our rebellious nature, everyone agrees that rebellion can bring us aesthetic enjoyment. For example, Sun Wukong's disobedience to the Heavenly Court and even his rampage in Heaven demonstrate his strong rebellious nature. However, we don't perceive him as committing evil; on the contrary, we feel a sense of exhilaration. This is because he caters to our own rebellious nature, releasing years of pent-up repression. Similarly, the law regulates fidelity between spouses, and morality further urges them to remain faithful to one another. This restrains any romantic fantasies between spouses. Adultery is unfaithful and illegal, but exchanging partners is done in front of everyone, doesn't affect family harmony, and therefore isn't illegal. Thus, the concept of exchanging partners arises.
Fifth, the beauty of exchanging partners lies in regret
. Life is full of regrets, but it is precisely because of these regrets that life is beautiful. In one's life, comedies are fleeting, mostly laughed off; tragedies are eternal, their poignant beauty never forgotten. Many classic films have tragic endings: Jack in Titanic sinks to the bottom of the sea to save Rose, the "Burial of Flowers" in *Dream of the Red Chamber*… their love is etched in our hearts. Before the exchange, our expectations were high, our imaginations were perfect, but the reality might not be so great. We might even sigh, "It's not all that great after all." But this sense of regret is precisely where the charm lies, the driving force behind our next exchange! We only care about whether we can experience it, we only focus on the process, not the result. Just as death is our final outcome, it's certainly not our ultimate goal or lofty ideal.

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