How often do you go on dates?

Words can "trap" people.

All sorts of dates piled up in writing, and when there's too much, it becomes misleading.
Whenever someone talks to me, they almost always ask, "New date?" "A lot of dates lately?" "Haven't seen you, out on a date?"

It's as if I'm someone who has nothing better to do than wait to date men.

And all sorts of men will follow like waves, one after another, never ceasing… If that's the case, at that frequency, doesn't it feel almost mechanical?
Ha.

I don't know if someone wants me to keep dating so they can write something to add some fantasy to their life, or if they want to pry into how promiscuous this woman's life really is, or if they're just waiting to see the ultimate result of a married woman's overly free lifestyle…

I have no idea.
As for myself, how often should I date?

I think:

When feelings are strong, once a week is just right; an occasional impulsive meeting, like a gift of impulse, adds spice;

during a stable period, once a month is perfect—a time to crave each other without being overly intense, allowing time for normal life, treating dates like a festive treat.

During a lull in the relationship, a date every two or three months, a truly enjoyable one, might carry deeper meaning.
One must control greed. When you like someone, you might yearn to see them every day, unable to resist… any difficulty can be overcome in the face of a date… I've had this feeling, very rarely, but the ending is often hurtful. Therefore, if marriage has already given you love, expect less from external emotions; enjoyment is enough, no need for a life-or-death love. Or, if you have true love, further love might feel overwhelming.
For a long time, I've felt incapable of love; facing someone with whom I share mutual attraction, I find it difficult to love, and I never express love. There's always a distance between pleasure and love. Liking is the best form of flirting; it doesn't need to become love, nor can it be a luxury. Therefore, the number of dates, because there's no deep love, cannot be arbitrary, nor can they be too frequent.
I often fear that some dates will interfere with my life. Sometimes I plan to cook a meal for my family, but if a date conflicts, I will definitely cook first, settle them, and only leave when I feel no guilt… Sometimes I plan to go on a trip with my family, but if a date comes along, I will resolutely cancel; sometimes I will refuse a date simply because my beloved is busy or needs quiet intimacy with me.
Men who want to date are always numerous, more numerous than the ocean waves… People are always curious, and have a slight desire to conquer supported by imagination, so it's normal. Faced with these so-called "temptations," my indifference and rejection make me feel disgusted with myself… Originally an ordinary woman, through my own writing, I've gained some brilliance, but this brilliance reflects so many different aspects of human nature.
Dating is never about judging people according to certain conditions or using a set of rules; dating is full of the randomness of emotions.
My dates are never many, nor are they few.

Sometimes, I really need dates to bring new feelings, new thoughts, new perspectives, and new experiences.

So when I don't have a date, I miss it, but I never go on one lightly.
My most recent lavish date made me happy.

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