How to be a high-quality single man

Generally speaking, 3P dating can be divided into the following five steps, which can be summarized in a concise way: 1. Preparation; 2. Finding partners; 3. Communication; 4. Meeting; 5. 3P.
Let's start with the first step. When you have the idea of engaging in 3P and want to work towards it, you naturally need to prepare. The most important thing is to understand why you want to engage in 3P, what kind of pleasure you are seeking, and what the stimulation of 3P sex is. If you don't understand this yourself, you will always be in a passive state, and it will be much more difficult to truly experience 3P sex.
One very important point is that 3P dating requires certain expenses. If the other party is a couple, you will have to cover the costs of hotel rooms and meals. This expense may be greater than simply hiring a prostitute, so if you are only doing this for sex, it's best not to do it. Only do it if you feel that you truly understand and that this special sexual practice is worth pursuing.
Once you've considered your own situation, before officially looking for partners, you should first understand why many couples want to experience threesome sex, what kind of pleasure they seek, and what their psychology is. Research the age range and social class of couples who engage in this activity. While this takes time, it will greatly help your future dating process and achieve twice the result with half the effort. I have no respect for those who have only read a few erotic novels and know nothing about it before seeking threesome sex. After preparing mentally, you also need to do some practical work. I suggest creating a dedicated QQ account for this. Threesome dating isn't something that can be successful with just one or two friends; you might need to add many. Having a dedicated QQ account is convenient and also helps maintain confidentiality, as most people probably don't want their friends to know about this. Besides a dedicated QQ account, if possible, prepare some photos to send to potential partners when they request to see them. There's no fixed formula for preparation; you can tailor it to your own personality.
The second step is finding partners. This is a crucial aspect of 3P dating, and many people fail to find suitable partners because they can't find one. I'll share a basic principle: "Cultivate widely, select selectively." In 3P dating, you need patience, but don't put all your eggs in one basket. There are many ways to find partners: you can add them directly on QQ, or through forums and QQ groups. I assume everyone knows the specifics, so I won't go into detail. Let me mention a few points to keep in mind. Forums are a good method; you can post and then sit back and wait for your "mermaid" to bite. Try to write your posts as engagingly as possible. These sites usually have many posts from single men, so without something unique, it's hard to attract attention. Also, post frequently. Forum posts are generally updated quickly, and your post will soon be pushed to the back. However, things aren't like they used to be; there are fewer such sites, and many are either paid or require points, which is annoying.
Currently, the best way to find partners is through QQ groups. Please note, this isn't an advertisement for our group. Although many groups contain fakes, and there are many of them, the sheer number of people in each group means you can still find some gems even among stones. Regarding the age of the couples, you can choose according to your own preferences. Personally, I think couples aged 35-40 generally have a higher success rate because couples in this age group have more stable careers and families, and their thinking is relatively more open. As for location, some say it's better to be in the same city, while others say it's better to be a little further away. My opinion is that if you're in a big city like Beijing or Tianjin, you can find someone in the same city; if you're in a smaller city like Qinhuangdao, it's best to find someone from a nearby city.
Currently, there are always some people, whether for pranks or other purposes, who frequently impersonate couples, so I hope everyone can be discerning. After adding a new couple, you'll inevitably have to chat. Although most couples involved in threesomes are contacted by the husband, if the conversation is always just the husband, there's bound to be a problem. While couples involved in this are generally open-minded, most are of high quality and speak with discretion. If you encounter someone whose conversation is erratic and who even asks for explicit photos, you should consider their sincerity.
Three: Communication. The communication mentioned here refers to a process of exchanging ideas after finding a couple who are generally satisfied with you in all aspects and who also approve of you. Finding a suitable, real couple doesn't necessarily mean you can have sex. A threesome requires mutual satisfaction and attraction, so communication is essential. This may take some time, so please be patient; it's the most important part of a threesome.
This communication involves two parts: communication with the husband and communication with the wife. Threesomes are unique in that the sexual activity is centered around the wife, so you can only participate if she is satisfied and has feelings for you. For the husband, it's about finding a partner for his wife, so he also needs to be satisfied and feel you are of good character.
In most cases, the person seeking a partner in a threesome is the husband, and he will only introduce you to his wife if he is satisfied. When chatting with the husband, be sincere and genuine, and demonstrate high character. There's no fixed formula; just normal communication to build trust. This kind of communication with your husband is very important. After all, future threesomes involve three people, including your partner's husband. Mutual trust and understanding are essential to achieving the desired effect. When you've had a good chat, you can video chat with your partner's husband or send him your photos.
It's important to avoid asking trivial questions at the beginning, such as how he used to have sex or whether his wife is sexually liberated. These questions can easily offend him. Also, don't boast too much. Be truthful and say what you are. Some single men like to say they are "180cm tall, super handsome, and have amazing sexual prowess," which is very immature.
Normally, if the partner's husband is satisfied with you, he will quickly introduce you to his wife so you can communicate. When chatting with a woman, don't start by bringing up threesomes. Just have a normal chat, talk about your hobbies, recent events, etc. Many couples have reported that many single men go astray during conversations, using vulgar language or even suggesting looking at the other person's body, which is offensive. If you really want to have sex, please don't do that. Communicating with a woman takes time; gradually build trust. Once she develops feelings for you, the topic of a threesome will naturally arise. A husband who genuinely wants to have sex will also communicate with you while you're chatting with the woman. If they feel you're a good match, they'll tell you how much their wives approve of you, and might even tell you about their wives' hobbies, to facilitate better communication. So don't forget to communicate with her husband just because you're chatting with her.
Fourth: Meeting. Once the communication goes well and both parties are satisfied, the real-world stage naturally begins. Just because the other person agrees to meet doesn't mean you'll actually do it. Online communication and real-life interaction are different. Meeting in person is a crucial process for building real-world trust and goodwill. When meeting, dress formally to project a refined and sophisticated image. Avoid outlandish clothing. Those who engage in this activity are usually stable, white-collar couples with established families and careers, and they naturally expect you to be like that. Since you're involved, don't be stingy. I've always felt that while this activity is passionate and avant-garde, it's also a gentlemanly act. It's best to give the lady a gift when you meet, as couples who engage in this activity are generally older than you. It's not about the value of the gift, but about the overall impression. It's best to meet in a public place to give the other person a sense of security, and preferably in the morning so you have ample time for real-world communication. You can start by inviting them to dinner; eating, chatting, and drinking are the simplest and most effective ways to communicate. After dinner, if there's time, you can invite them to do something different, preferably in a private setting, such as going to a karaoke bar or watching a movie. If the man is satisfied with you at this point, and encourages you to spend more time with his wife—for example, he might have her sit next to you while watching a movie—once the communication is established, you can move on to the practical stage. You can tentatively ask, "Where are you staying tonight?" Usually, at this point, the man will express his willingness, and you can then go to a hotel. The room should ideally be upscale, quiet, and safe, preferably with a large bed. Again, since you're engaging in this kind of activity and pursuing enjoyment, don't be stingy; be generous. The couple will generally be older than you, and they won't expect you to cover everything. It's human nature to caress. In a threesome, the woman can receive caresses from two men, but at the same time, the presence of a man other than her husband can make her nervous. Use caresses to alleviate her nervousness and arouse her emotions. Don't rush into penetration. Initially, you and the other woman's husband should caress the woman together. There are many ways to do this; you can kiss her simultaneously, for example, the husband kissing his wife while you caress her breasts. A good approach is to lick the woman's genitals while her husband is caressing her. This can quickly arouse her. Remember not to rush; get her aroused first.

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