Making friends is not the same as exchanging things (classic reply)

Making friends online isn't just about exchanging partners.
When you add new friends online, many people immediately ask: "Are you a couple? Are you exchanging partners? How many times have you done it?"
Even if it's a couple's account, and the woman's profile picture is often a woman's, the man is usually in the background. They'll ask for a video call after only a few words, and some even call without warning.
At first, I patiently explained, but later I just told them we were a couple, but to make friends first. If they didn't understand, I'd sometimes show them articles, or just ask them to figure it out themselves. As for video calls, most people are very averse to them and refuse; those who persist are blocked on the spot. Making
friends versus exchanging partners has become a hurdle, allowing me to quickly judge a person's character and maturity in making friends.
A friend who had left the group once told me: "It's really boring here, everyone's just all talk and no action." I just smiled and didn't reply. "When
people don't see eye to eye, even half a sentence is too much," as the saying goes!
A friend angrily said: "How could this be? Even animal pairing isn't this simple and vulgar! You should write an article to educate people about this!"
Making friends and exchanging partners seem to have become a marker of people grouping themselves around birds of a feather.
But I can clearly say: making friends is not exchanging, but it may include the content of an exchange! (Note: only possibly.)
I strongly dislike those who make exchanging their sole purpose. Such people automatically reduce themselves from human beings to the level of animals. Aside from the needs of their reproductive organs, they seem to have no other needs.
Couples making friends is actually couples making friends together; men and couples alike have their own choices. Since they are adults and couples are friends, there are virtually no restrictions on the content of their conversations. Sex is often an important topic of discussion, but it's not the only one. People group themselves around birds of a feather; people always need to find friends who share their interests. All aspects of life, national affairs, family matters, private matters—as long as you can talk to each other and trust each other, you can talk about anything.
If things feel right, video chat, meet in person, and if it's suitable, exchanging partners is perfectly normal.
In life, due to various concerns, we certainly can't find spouses who can communicate without any reservations, right? This is a need of ours—a normal need, both spiritual and physical. I call this kind of interaction: a close, intimate friendship!
This state is beautiful, but not easy to achieve; you could say it's something you can only hope to encounter, not something you can seek out.
Moreover, not all spouses are suitable for this kind of exchange. Some couples can chat very well, feel a deep connection, and feel like they've known each other for a long time. But once the exchange happens, it's not pleasant, and it might even ruin the beautiful relationship.
In fact, those with experience in couples making friends know that the most beautiful feeling comes from the process of interaction. Couples who can enjoy this process without rushing into making friends are truly psychologically mature.
And couples who can still understand and connect with each other after reaching the point of exchanging partners are truly happy.

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