Sharing practical experience of three people

Publication Date: 2020-07-14 Author: Huang Dongxu Popularity: 1684
In today's society, besides sexual intercourse between spouses or boyfriends/girlfriends, there are many other exciting sexual activities, such as voyeurism, swapping, and group sex. Of course, everyone's preferences are different. Among group sex activities, 3P is a favorite of many men, and wives are also more likely to accept it, because 3P often brings greater pleasure to women.
In fact, for couples who have been married for many years, the longer they are together, the stronger their affection becomes, but the passion fades. Although they are still very loving, the passion between them is not what it used to be. If they want to rekindle their desire, they might as well try some new sexual activities, such as exhibitionism, SM, or 3P. And 3P is an excellent choice.
The accurate definition of 3P is "3 PEOPLE," three people making love together. But there is a deeper definition: it refers to a 3P involving two men and one woman, where a couple with a romantic relationship engages in sexual activity with another stranger. It is specifically pointed out that if the woman is merely a sex object in a 3P, it is not a true 3P.
1. The concept of 3P does not include prostitutes or gigolos involved in any monetary transaction.
2. The objects in the meaning of 3P specifically refer to a couple or lovers with an emotional relationship and a stranger.
3. In a 3P activity, the woman is not a sex object; both men serve the woman.
4. The concept of 3P must be based on the consent of all three parties; rape, drugging, etc., are not included in the calculation of 3P.
I. Why choose 2 men and 1 woman for 3P?
Firstly, regarding the classification of 3P, we naturally divide it into two types based on the gender of the participants: one man and two women, and two men and one woman. In the one-man-two-woman type, the man is more likely to ejaculate due to excessive stimulation. Generally, men need time to recover after ejaculation, but by this time, the women's desire has been aroused, and they may not have reached orgasm yet, which is unfair to the wife. Medical research shows that sexual intercourse is most pleasurable when both partners reach orgasm. Therefore, whether it is 3P or group sex, most people consider a combination with more men than women.
The arrangement of two men and one woman avoids many of the drawbacks mentioned above. The wife can experience multiple orgasms, and the man, after ejaculating, can watch another sexual encounter, especially seeing another man's semen flowing from his wife's vagina, which can quickly reignite his desire and make him ready to resume sexual activity. Furthermore, the man, having ejaculated after his own orgasm, can last longer due to decreased sensitivity. Numerous studies have shown that the average woman needs at least three to five orgasms in a single sexual encounter to achieve satisfaction, and even after achieving satisfaction, she can continue sexual activity.
Generally healthy women can tolerate dozens of rounds of passionate sex in a single day and experience continuous orgasms throughout. Another significant advantage for women is the ability to simultaneously engage in oral sex, intercourse, and other forms of sexual activity with several men. On the other hand, women have far more erogenous zones than men. When a man and woman engage in sexual intercourse alone, it's often difficult to satisfy both simultaneously. The presence of a third party can greatly enhance a woman's satisfaction. For example, while one man is penetrating his wife, another can caress her breasts or kiss her. If sensitivity decreases during the second round, the wife can participate simultaneously to maintain her arousal.
On the other hand, is having more men always better? Research suggests that, with very few exceptions, having sex with two or three men is actually the limit most women can accept. Any more than that might feel like gang rape to the average woman. Therefore, we're not considering a threesome at this time.
II. Women's Attitudes Towards Threesomes
Regarding women's attitudes towards threesome sexual activities, we can discuss two categories: unmarried and married. Unmarried women engage in threesomes out of curiosity, playfulness, or a desire for excitement. They often do so with their boyfriend's friends, while others are trendsetting, engage in threesomes for money, or simply want to have some fun with strangers. For
married women, although their motivations for threesomes also include many of the above, they need to consider more factors. More progressive women might ask their husbands to participate in threesomes, but due to societal constraints, it's mostly the man who makes the request.
III. Why is it essential that a married couple (or partner) be involved in a threesome?
Actually, the vast majority of those who enjoy watching others have sex are men. Plus, everyone experiences jealousy to some extent. Therefore, it's easier for a wife to accept a husband suggesting a threesome with another man than with another woman. This is another reason why threesomes with two men and one woman are relatively popular. On the other hand, a threesome can involve three people without marital relationships, or it can be a couple with one other person participating. However, the significance of these two types of sexual activity is quite different. If all three people involved in a threesome have no marital relationship or emotional foundation, the excitement and stimulation will be greatly reduced for each of them. This is because such a threesome is merely about completing the sexual intercourse, fully exposing each person's body, demonstrating their sexual abilities, and satisfying a certain curiosity. The only difference is the addition of one person, and no one bears any responsibility. There is no special excitement or stimulation, and it is similar to regular sex.
If a married couple participates in a threesome, the situation is very different. In addition to the above, this sexual behavior also includes elements of voyeurism, extramarital sex, and infidelity. It is a transgression that challenges social and familial moral responsibilities and reflects the sexual attitudes and sexual openness of the couple. If the other participant is male, watching his wife have sex with another man allows the husband to better understand his wife's sexual experience and also tests his wife's feelings towards her husband, sex, and achieving extramarital orgasms. All of these factors make it a favorite among many married couples, so this is the true form of 3P sex.
For the husband, seeing his wife's breasts and thighs caressed and kissed by another man, hearing his wife moaning and screaming in ecstasy under another man's body, allows his wife to ecstatically enjoy the orgasms given by strangers. For the wife, gazing longingly at her husband nestled beside her as a stranger's penis thrusts and pumps wildly inside her vagina until it releases streams of wild semen deep inside her, or until it leaves her trembling vagina with a sac of semen, still wanting more, giving her husband another round of orgasms. It's a feeling that's both stimulating and exciting, with a touch of bittersweetness... After two or three rounds, the wife, experiencing multiple orgasms, won't care or even be able to distinguish whether she's having sex with her husband or a stranger; at the same time, for the other male partner, besides enjoying a series of truly emotional visual feasts, they can also actually experience and share the most sincere and passionate sex between you and your husband, and there's a woman, completely infatuated, hoping you'll continue to excite her and give her more orgasms after you've watched her live sex show.
IV. Points to Note During a 3P Activity
Husbands who want to engage in 3P should first pay attention to their wives' wishes and obtain their consent. This is an opportunity to show both your love and respect for her. How to persuade your wife to participate in 3P sexual activities is up to you to use your own ingenuity, but remember not to use overly obvious deception or scheming methods.
1. Generally, you can subtly ask her if she is still unsatisfied after one or two sexual encounters, intentionally or unintentionally. Then, express that you love her very much and hope that she can also be satisfied. Depending on the situation, you can tell her that you can help her find a man, but the premise is that you are also present. At the same time, express that you are very generous and will not be jealous.
2. You can also find more articles about threesomes. The descriptions of sexual sensations and exciting threesomes will definitely influence her emotions. Although convincing your wife to participate in a threesome may take some effort, since it's the man's idea, her main concerns will likely be safety and health. As long as these two points are met, most open-minded women will be interested.
3. The most important step is to work together to overcome psychological and emotional pressure, choosing a relaxed, natural, and gradual approach, letting things flow naturally. Moreover, once your wife has experienced one or two orgasms in a threesome, she will enjoy sex even more. Many women who were previously frigid have experienced orgasm after trying a threesome, gaining confidence in sex and starting to actively seek out their husbands for it. Some husbands have even observed other women's techniques, which have led to greater satisfaction for their wives.
The most important thing to note when engaging in a threesome: focus solely on sex and avoid affecting either of your families. Therefore, it's generally advisable for a married couple to participate with a stranger, so that the breakup won't affect either couple's life or family. If the man is married, the wives can take turns experiencing the pleasure of a threesome.
If you are a couple new to this, having an experienced man guide you is ideal. You should also pay attention to your schedules, location, and whether you can coordinate with your wives' safe periods. It's important to note that threesomes can be very passionate. During the act, using condoms for contraception or disease prevention is not a very safe method. In a complete threesome, each man may ejaculate two to three times. In a state of extreme excitement, the penis's transition from de-erection to re-erection, and the process of changing condoms, greatly increases the possibility of semen contaminating or leaking onto the new condom. There are also many cases where condoms break during play. Therefore, strictly selecting sexual partners and accurately calculating the wife's fertile period is more important than using condoms for disease prevention or contraception.
In fact, many couples, when they reach a high level of excitement, may have sex again. After an unintentional slip-up, they might tacitly allow their partners to expose their genitals and thrust freely inside their wives' vaginas, even to ejaculate. Therefore, I recommend using the currently popular liquid condoms. They provide contraception, lubrication, and quickly kill various sexually transmitted infections. Using them eliminates the need for a condom, creating a more realistic experience and increasing sexual stimulation.
The key to a threesome is that the husband must be open-minded and allow the other man to take good care of his wife. It's not just about your own arousal; your invited partner should also feel satisfied and happy, and your wife should be joyful. The wife should also let go of any inhibitions and boldly enjoy the orgasms her husband brings her with other men.
The frequency of a threesome
can vary from person to person; my personal opinion is about once a month.
Additionally, it's best to maintain this relationship with only one partner at a time to avoid complications and to prevent disease from a safety and hygiene perspective.
Sixth, suggestions for the first threesome:
After deciding on your partners, wouldn't it be awkward to go straight to a hotel for your first experience because everyone is relatively unfamiliar with each other?
Therefore, playing some games or engaging in interactive activities will make you both feel more at ease. For example, go shopping together and sit in a coffee shop to chat, finding topics to relax with while subtly anticipating the adventure to come. Or, the three of you can have a meal together, chat, play a fun sport, or go on an outdoor trip to get to know each other better. Husbands should try to share their wives with their partners, allowing them to feel comfortable and happy. If possible, you can even subtly suggest some playful teasing between your wives and partners. You'll find it exciting and thrilling to see your wife blush as she's teased by a man you don't know very well. More importantly, you'll be conveying your wife's desires and preferences to a stranger. If the interaction goes well, you'll both sense a subtle, ambiguous relationship brewing. Since you've decided to travel together, don't be stingy with your partner; let others share the experience!
Alcohol can enhance the experience. Even if you're a teetotaler, try a light and smooth champagne or red wine. A slight flush on your cheeks is enough; don't get drunk. While drinking, play some flirtatious games, such as drinking games or striptease. A good atmosphere is key to enhancing the fun of a threesome.
Seven, details to note:
After drinking and chatting for an hour or two, the effects of the alcohol begin to wear off. When your cheeks feel slightly flushed, it's when a woman is most sensual. At this time, you can embrace your wife and let your partner caress her body from behind through her clothes. This reduces potential awkwardness later. Your partner should get ready. He should get up and leave, preferably to take a shower alone. The preparation depends heavily on the husband's ability and performance. Creating this atmosphere isn't easy. It's best if the wife and husband shower together, naturally setting the stage for sex.
When showering, the wife must wash her hair, but not completely dry it; leaving it about 70% dry is more attractive. She should use a plant-scented shampoo instead of regular shampoo. She should also use a special body wash with a natural fragrance to wash her body, leaving her skin clean, smooth, and fragrant. Before showering, she must urinate and defecate, and ideally, use a special vaginal wash to thoroughly cleanse the vagina and eliminate any possible odors. Many women neglect to clean their anus; a simple method is to apply soap to your ring finger and repeatedly rotate and thrust it inside the anus to clean it (or you can use a smooth, clean cotton ball soaked in soap). (Wrap soap around your fingers and insert them as far as possible until they are odorless. Then apply a lubricating cream or lotion to the inside of the anus. This will not only clean and lubricate but also leave a pleasant fragrance. Do not spray too much perfume on the vulva, and never spray perfume inside the vagina, as some men are particularly sensitive to the smell of perfume, and some may even vomit from the strong scent. Furthermore, the strong perfume combined with the vaginal discharge will create an even more unpleasant odor. Therefore, apply a small amount of perfume to the labia and perineum with your fingers.) First, arouse your wife's desire. This is best done with just the two of you.
When your wife is fresh from her bath, like a lotus emerging from water, and wearing revealing lingerie, coupled with the caresses and teasing between you and your husband in the bathroom, the moment you return to a three-person relationship, she will be incredibly alluring. Both of you should continue this intimate behavior; it's a signal and a way of publicly arousing. By this time, your partner should be at their wit's end, and it's time to take over. When a woman's desire is aroused, her psychological defenses are at their most vulnerable. When embracing and kissing each other, besides deep kisses where tongues penetrate each other's mouths, most women enjoy men licking and kissing their necks, earlobes, and breasts. Several areas on a woman's upper body are also highly sensitive and best suited for caressing during a threesome: the ears, armpits, collarbone area, inner thighs, toes, and lower abdomen. Threesomes always begin with the wife's upper body. The wife lies on the bed with her upper body exposed and relaxed, eyes closed. The husband lies face down on her upper body, gently licking her lips. The wife's beautiful lower body is then fully exposed to a stranger. The partner then uses his lips to slowly move upwards from the wife's calves.
The men placed their wives' arms flat above their heads, each grasping one arm. This created a sense of control and aggression, while the wives felt controlled and violated. The two men then began licking and kissing her armpits, their tongues sliding from the armpits down to her arms and ribs. This rough posture was imbued with tenderness, and the intent of rape was filled with warmth. The two men continued to caress and kiss her breasts from either side. Directly sucking on the nipples was foolish; she needed to be teased slowly to arouse a stronger desire. A simple method was to use their fingers to gently slide along the edges of her breasts while their tongues licked from her cleavage. When she began to stroke the men's heads with one hand on each side, it was precisely at this moment that she desperately needed to kiss her nipples. At this instant, the woman felt a surge of desire to conquer the men. Watching the two men, like children, kneeling on the floor and licking her nipples, this visual impact was far more ecstatic than simply enjoying the breast stimulation with her eyes closed. The above-mentioned double tongue and lip technique can also be applied to the wife's inner thighs and legs; unlike licking and kissing her upper body, this time you can use a different method, that is, two men's mouths simultaneously licking and kissing one of her legs. Most women who have had this experience find it more stimulating than simply stroking and kissing their thighs.
Remove her underwear, spread her legs, and attack her clitoris; first, let her mysterious vulva naturally appear before the strange man to arouse her desire; this step should be done by her husband. After calmly completing this step, then let the strange man do the rest of the wife's work. To eliminate the wife's shyness and tension, the husband should ideally lie on top of her, holding her tightly in his arms, stroking her hair with one hand and her breasts with the other, while kissing her lips. This will give her a sense of security, and her body will naturally relax, opening the door for the strange man's attack.
Licking the vagina is the most stimulating and arousing part of a threesome. It involves not only licking with the tongue but also sucking with the mouth, sucking the wife's clitoris and vaginal opening. This provides women with immense pleasure and stimulation. The best position for men: One man is below the woman in a 69 position, with pillows or blankets placed under his head and buttocks to elevate them. This position is common and won't be elaborated on further. The other man should lie flat in front of the first man, with his legs spread and resting on top of the first man's legs, his penis close to the other man's penis. The closer the two penises are, the better. This creates a strong visual impact on the wife, and she will instinctively grasp both penises.
It's worth noting that the husband should ideally be positioned below the wife, with the other man lying on his back facing her. Since the wife's back is to the husband, he cannot see her face, reducing psychological pressure for both men. The wife's body also blocks the view, minimizing awkwardness of them facing each other. When a wife is performing oral sex on two men, she should avoid focusing on one for too long and neglecting the other. Men have strong self-esteem during sex, but can also be quite vulnerable. It's important to share fairly and treat both equally. Even when kissing one penis, don't forget to use your other hand to stimulate the other man's penis. The wife can use one hand to caress and compare the two penises, or press both erect penises together and lick them simultaneously with her tongue. She can also press both glans together and hold them in her mouth, rotating her tongue around them. She can also rub both penises while sliding her tongue between them. Men don't like it when a woman intentionally spits out saliva during oral sex. Even if she doesn't like the taste of the man's vaginal fluid, she can let the saliva in her mouth flow naturally onto the man's penis. Because the wife is above the two penises, her mouth only needs to be slightly open for the saliva to flow naturally to the appropriate area. This is both elegant and pleasing to both parties.
In a common 3P position, one man penetrates the vagina while the other penetrates the mouth. For true 3P enthusiasts, the husband can find immense satisfaction in embracing his wife, stroking her hair, watching her excited expression as another man penetrates her, and listening to her moans and groans. If she's a woman who dislikes the taste of semen and never accepts her husband ejaculating in her mouth, this is the perfect opportunity. He can ride on her chest, masturbating with his penis in her mouth. As she approaches orgasm, he can command her to open her mouth and stick out her tongue, ejaculating freely into her mouth. Rest assured, at this moment, she will be exceptionally cooperative. Even the gentlest, most virtuous, and conservative woman loses her willpower and becomes mentally confused once her vagina is penetrated and stimulated. Her mind goes blank. Normally, when a wife performs oral sex on her husband, her mind is clearer and more rational because her vagina doesn't receive strong stimulation, allowing her to exercise self-control. Unless she also strongly enjoys and doesn't mind the taste of semen, it's very difficult for a wife to accept ejaculation in her mouth. If you enjoy watching a strange man ejaculate in her mouth, simply switch roles so that two men ejaculate in her mouth separately.
Remember that the two men should coordinate well; regardless of who ejaculates first, the wife's vagina should ideally be under intense pressure. Two penises in one vagina is one of the most popular positions for women in a threesome. The position involves one man lying on his back, the wife on top of him, inserting his penis into her vagina, while another man inserts from behind. Alternatively, the wife can lie on her side, with the men attacking from different directions, but both penises are thrusting into the same spot. This position often allows the wife to achieve multiple orgasms. There are several methods, one of which is alternating insertion; the wife takes the initiative, and with a slight lift of her buttocks, the penis pressing down on her will naturally withdraw, allowing the man behind her to insert from behind. Moving the penis down a little further, the other penis is withdrawn and handed over to the next penis. The thrusting time for each penis should ideally be kept under half a minute. If it lasts too long and one man ejaculates, it's not fun. Of course, this shouldn't be done mechanically. If you feel a sudden, intense thrusting from one penis, this is a sign of impending orgasm. Stop the thrusting and immediately withdraw the penis, handing it to another penis. This allows the wife to be thrust into continuously for a longer period, extending the duration of intercourse and giving the man time to rest and prevent premature ejaculation, creating multiple opportunities for the wife to orgasm.
If the wife is also clitorally orgasmic, try having one penis inserted into the vagina while the other hand stimulates the clitoris. When a woman uses the glans of a man to stimulate her clitoris, the pleasure is stronger than when the man touches the clitoris with his hand, and it might even lead to another clitoral orgasm. While the other penis is thrusting into the vagina, the other penis can rub against her buttocks, while simultaneously touching her anus or playfully slapping her buttocks – these are also intense sources of pleasure. The wife should cooperate closely at this time, adjusting her position to make it easier for them to thrust. Don't flinch or pull away if you feel any pain; remember, this experience is a once-in-a-lifetime event! When your wife's moans turn into frantic shouts, you're cheering them on. When both penises are vying to ejaculate onto her cervix, wife, this is the moment to ascend to heaven!
After the battle, the wife should lie between the two men, placing her hands on their penises—that's the greatest encouragement for them. If you want to continue for a few more days, then the second day will be your most exciting. Having laid the groundwork on the first day, the second day will be a time for everyone to talk freely, and playing games will be even more thrilling. For example, during dinner, have your wife take off her underwear under the table. Sitting with a woman who isn't wearing underwear—you've probably never experienced that before! You can also pretend to pick something up from the floor and then peek at your wife's little secret under her skirt. You can also choose to have a threesome in a movie theater or a secluded place where no one is around. In that case, it can only be done one at a time. If you're worried about being seen, the two men can take turns keeping watch. Alternatively, you can do it in a karaoke bar. The wife will feel like she's a prostitute, and at this time, she should let go of all inhibitions and be a real prostitute – it's a unique kind of excitement.
For a woman, youth only lasts a short twenty or thirty years; after forty, she can no longer muster the energy. As a man who truly cherishes women, whether as a husband or partner, you must be able to understand their pain. Remember, the protagonist of a threesome is the woman; it's about letting your leading lady enjoy life, not just satisfying the men! More importantly, both husband and wife, as well as the partner, should view the entire threesome as a sexual relationship between three people. Although this threesome relationship may not, and is not recommended to, last too long, during the threesome, all three parties should experience the feeling of lovemaking, not just the release of sexual desire.
At the same time, a reminder to couples experiencing threesomes for the first time: many things can happen during a threesome, so don't expect great pleasure on your first try. Therefore, if your first time was perfect, congratulations! If it wasn't as good as you imagined, think back to your first sexual experience—it probably wasn't that smooth either, right? Now that you've had your first time, you should be prepared for an even better next time and look forward to improvement!

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