Personal account of experiences

The word "sex" is taboo and secretive. Many people are curious and want to delve into the truth, while others are bound by morality and dare not do such a thing, feeling they would be letting down their parents, family, and children. But is that really the case? Let's hear from someone involved, sharing their true experience of sex.
For over thirty years, I was a very chaste woman, but from that moment on, once the breach was opened, it was unstoppable. I am 35 years old this year, and my husband is four years older than me. We have been married for eight years, and he is my first love. If it weren't for his momentary lapse of judgment, my life might still be quite ordinary; everything changed because of the exchange.
I am not a very conservative woman, but as a civil servant, I usually only wear professional attire, as I shouldn't be too conspicuous in that environment. You might not know this, but despite the seemingly formal nature of government offices, people are actually quite open-minded. Telling dirty jokes in the office is common, though I rarely participate.
My husband's personality is the opposite of mine; he is more open and receptive to new things. Perhaps because of his personality, it was him who started it all. As our child grew older, our sex life became increasingly bland, happening only once a month, and even then, the quality wasn't great. This is a common problem for many couples, but there's no magic cure. Many choose to accept it, letting this ordinariness accompany them for life, but some are unwilling to accept it.
For me, with my predictable life, this seemed perfectly normal. But my husband didn't see it that way. He always thought it was the seven-year itch, that we were getting tired of each other and needed some new stimulation to rekindle our youth.
Sometimes I'd joke with him, "If you rekindle your youth, aren't you afraid your wife will run away?"
His answer was always so confident: "Life only happens once, I don't want you to become a haggard housewife." He always made me very happy saying that, but I never imagined it would take such a form.
Our first time swapping partners
was in 2003. He started going online, initially just reading news, browsing forums, and occasionally watching some adult films. One time, a Western adult film really shocked us. The stimulating scenes in the film gave us a thrilling experience, and the long-lost feeling surged back.
From then on, he occasionally mentioned the idea of swapping partners. I just thought he was joking and didn't pay much attention. Who knew he secretly went to some swapping forums and actually came across some people and stories about it. One time, I caught him browsing the web. When he saw I'd noticed, he calmly made me look at the posts too.
The stories and photos in the posts shocked me greatly; I couldn't believe such things actually happened in real life. My husband then probed my tone, asking if I wanted to try it. I didn't say anything at the time, but I felt my face burning. Looking back now, I don't understand why I acted that way. If I had firmly refused, things might not have turned out this way.
Seeing my noncommittal attitude, my husband assumed I tacitly agreed to the suggestion and became even more proactive in finding swapping partners. I remember it was after the Spring Festival in 2005. One day, he suddenly pulled me to the computer and showed me an email. It was from a man in Tianjin, agreeing to contact us. I was furious. I couldn't believe he was actually doing something like this.
My husband immediately reassured me, saying it was just a casual meeting to understand the other person's psychology, and he promised to immediately cut off all contact if I disagreed.
Actually, I didn't realize there was a trap involved. What did "cut off all contact if I disagreed" mean? The whole thing was wrong from the start. Although I vaguely sensed something was off, a strange curiosity prevented me from pursuing it further, which was tantamount to tacit consent. Perhaps the monotony of years of married life had become tiresome.
The other person was the owner of a private company in Tianjin, named Long Sheng (pseudonym), a few years older than my husband. We quickly established contact through video. In the video, I saw he was a burly man, not handsome but with a certain air of authority, at least not unpleasant.
Initially, both men appeared in the video, actually for their wives to see. The other person quickly responded that his wife had approved of my husband. My husband gestured with his lip, waiting for my response. I was a little embarrassed, but still nodded.
That night, my husband muttered to me, "You're going to be with a stranger, are you excited?" while we were having sex, and we had a very good time.
Soon after, we arranged our first meeting. Since his child was studying at a university in another city, we agreed to meet in Tianjin. One weekend, we left the child at his maternal grandparents' house and took a long-distance bus.
We got off at the Tianjin Economic-Technological Development Area, where Longsheng was already waiting to pick us up in his Passat. Longsheng was a tall, imposing man, standing at 1.85 meters. My husband, at 1.73 meters, seemed much less imposing next to him. Longsheng looked like a mafia boss, and my husband and I exchanged a glance and couldn't help but laugh.
Actually, Longsheng was a very easygoing person. After introducing himself, we quickly became quite friendly. However, as it was my first time participating in such an event, I was still a little nervous, and I felt my smile was somewhat stiff.
Long Sheng glanced at me in the rearview mirror and chuckled, "Mrs. Xu, is this your first time attending an event like this? It's normal to be nervous. But don't worry, you can always opt out. If it's really not possible, the four of us can just sit and chat." My face flushed red, and I lowered my head in embarrassment.
We soon arrived at their home, a two-story duplex penthouse with a large bay window overlooking the entire Tianjin Development Zone—a truly beautiful view. Long's wife had already prepared the meal and urged us to eat quickly.
Let's call Long's wife Sister-in-law for now. She was almost 40 years old, and to be honest, she wasn't particularly attractive, far less so than me. I, on the other hand, was quite confident in myself. I was 1.67 meters tall, weighed 115 kilograms, and had a slightly plump figure, but with my 75C bust, I was undeniably sexy.
Sister-in-law was only 1.6 meters tall, not fat at all, even somewhat thin, but she had a good air about her, like someone of social standing. Apparently, she was a university lecturer. I really don't understand what my husband is after. Maybe it's because he prefers thin women! Of course, men and women have different standards for judging women.
We quickly finished our absent-minded meal. We sat in the living room and watched TV for a while, the atmosphere a bit awkward. But Longsheng broke the silence, asking us in a questioning tone, "How about we go up to the master bedroom and watch some DVDs?" My husband looked at me, and I kept my head down and didn't speak. He nodded.
Longsheng and his wife led us upstairs. My sister-in-law sat casually on the bed, and my husband sat on the other side of the bed as well. I sat cautiously on the chaise lounge by the window. Longsheng turned on the TV and picked out an adult film (similar to many swapping movies), he seemed quite experienced.
After watching for a while, Longsheng sat down next to me. I was at a loss, not knowing how to react. My husband seemed indifferent, smiling at us both. After a while, seeing that I didn't react, he put his arm around my waist. His large hand gripped my waist, and I actually felt a slight tingling sensation.
Long Sheng whispered in my ear, "I liked you the moment I saw you." My face immediately burned. He tightened his grip, and I leaned against him. Seeing this, my husband also lay down on the bed and rolled over next to my sister-in-law. She didn't object and let him hold her.
After watching for a while, Long Sheng probably felt it was enough and suggested, "How about we all take a shower?" My husband agreed, pulled my sister-in-law into the bathroom, and left. As soon as he left, I felt abandoned and couldn't help but sigh inwardly.
Seeing my husband leave, Long Sheng immediately reached out and pulled me into his arms. I groaned in surprise, and he took it as encouragement, covering my mouth without warning. I have to admit, he was a very skilled kisser; his kiss felt wonderful, our tongues intertwined, and there was even a spark.
Seeing that I had given in, Long Sheng began to knead my breasts through my clothes, and my body gradually softened. He pulled open my clothes; since it was winter, I was wearing a sweater underneath, which made things a bit awkward. He commanded, "Take it off." I found myself unbuttoning my clothes involuntarily; his words seemed to have a magical power, making it impossible for me to refuse.
I stood up and undressed, while he sat there admiring me. At first, I felt a little embarrassed, and as my clothes came off one by one, I became even more ashamed. After all, it wasn't easy for a woman who had never had extramarital sex before to be naked in front of a strange man.
I was only wearing underwear and felt a little cold. He beckoned to me, "Come on, help me take them off." I couldn't refuse again and obediently went over to help him undress. At first, I was standing, which made it quite inconvenient to move around. He pulled me down, gesturing for me to kneel, and I obediently knelt down again to help him undress.
Long Sheng was indeed very robust; it was clear he had been fit in his youth, but as a man in his forties, he had inevitably developed a bit of a belly.
I looked up at him in surprise. Long Sheng smiled, and I chuckled at his words, instantly creating a much more relaxed atmosphere.
At this moment, my husband and sister-in-law had finished showering and came out. My face flushed again. Long Sheng pulled me up and said to my husband, "Mrs. Xu is truly a beauty! Haha..." My husband actually gave a somewhat embarrassed dry laugh. Suddenly, I felt a little uneasy. Why did my husband seem a bit lewd? Perhaps it was because it was our first time swapping, and he was very nervous.
Long Sheng led me into the bathroom, where the hot water was still running. Then he untied my hair, and a cascade of jet-black curly hair fell down.
He hugged me from behind, kissing my earlobe, his hands moving up and down...
To make things easier, he even pulled my thighs up and placed them on the edge of the bathtub. My private parts offered no resistance, and before I knew it, I was turned around. We kissed passionately again, this time willingly. My body was unusually sensitive, craving a man at any moment.
A question kept nagging at me: what is my husband like with other men? Suddenly, a feeling of jealousy welled up inside me, perhaps because my husband had been ignoring my gaze earlier.
I completely broke down...
It was an endless night; something I had never imagined before had finally happened.
We played from 9 pm until dawn before this exciting feast finally ended. I was exhausted and fell asleep in my husband's arms. Thankfully, he didn't give up his last chance.
I slept until 2 pm on Sunday afternoon. When I woke up, I found them dressed and chatting in the living room. My sister-in-law seemed very open, constantly explaining to me that they had started swapping partners two years ago and had had over ten successful encounters. Longsheng didn't say much, sitting to the side, glancing at me every now and then. His gaze sent chills down my spine, reminding me of the lewd experience of the previous night. My husband seemed listless, the reason for which was easy to understand.
After about half an hour, my husband said he had to leave. Longsheng and his wife didn't stop him, only offering polite words like "stay a little longer." Longsheng drove us to the long-distance bus station, and we took a bus back to Beijing. My husband and I barely spoke on the way; I held him tightly, as if afraid of losing something.
After this experience, life returned to normal, except my husband was no longer enthusiastic about swapping partners, and his performance in bed suddenly became fierce, often very rough with me, as if he had been stimulated by that incident. He often asked me, "Is Longsheng's penis better than mine?" I knew his pride was wounded, so I could only offer him comfort.
Although my husband was much more proactive than before, due to objective limitations, I never felt that feeling again, that trembling sensation from that day.
Two months passed quickly, and my husband had to go on a business trip to the south for a month. Fate plays tricks on us. A phone call came suddenly…
Ten days after my husband left, I received a call—it was from Long Sheng! Sometimes I wonder: are people truly controlled by fate?
Long Sheng said on the phone, “Brother misses you. When will you come again?”
I said, “My husband is away on a business trip, I can’t come!”
Long Sheng said, “He’s gone, aren’t you lonely? Come to Tianjin, let Brother see you.”
I said, “I can’t do that, I promised him, an exchange requires both of us to be there.”
Long Sheng said, “Who said this is an exchange? I’m only looking for you alone. You’re a beauty, you shouldn’t let loneliness hold you back. Come on, I’ll be waiting for you this weekend.”
Long Sheng’s words struck my heart like a hammer blow. I was speechless, my heart pounding, and I didn’t know how to refuse.
Long Sheng continued, “I know you can’t forget me, why deceive yourself? I’ve prepared a wonderful night for you. Yan, I like you very much, I really want to see you.”
His words felt like a command to me; I realized this problem from that night on. Yes, I couldn’t refuse his request; I could only stall with “I’ll think about it.” After hanging up the phone, I was plunged into boundless anguish.
I knew that this was no longer a simple exchange without emotional involvement; I was sliding towards a dangerous edge. I felt a sense of fear. A 35-year-old woman, past the age of budding romance, with a respectable career and a happy family, was facing a fatal temptation, and was somewhat powerless to resist.

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