Repost: Hat-hat's Husband's Confession of Offering His Wife

To give a brief introduction, I was in my early thirties at the time, and my wife was three years younger than me. She was beautiful, slim, and a middle school art

teacher.

We both had respectable and respectable professions, and our child had just been born. Our careers and lives were going smoothly.

However, as time went on, especially after the birth of our child, the housework piled up, and our relationship became dull and

our sex life became optional.

In 2006, I was unintentionally

influenced by a pioneering woman who advocated for couples engaging in online dating, and the Couples' Forum she founded. After reading many of her works and interviews, I became deeply immersed in it and couldn't extricate myself.

My mind was filled with thoughts of my wife having affairs with other men. Just thinking about it made my blood boil, and my penis became erect, even

affecting my normal work and life.

Therefore, I still suggest that friends who really want to enter this circle, especially husbands, should study more

materials on this topic. Only by arming your mind, or to put it bluntly, only by completely brainwashing yourself and truly immersing yourself

in the scenario of couples engaging in online dating, will there be any possibility of taking the next step.

Otherwise, if I couldn't even get past my own hurdle, let alone my wife's,

acting rashly would only lead to two outcomes: divorce or a lifetime of unrealized fantasies.

Of course, taking this real step was largely thanks to that single man from Beijing. I left

a message on a couples' forum hoping to meet quality men, and I made some requests—all of which I kept secret from my wife.

Because my wife is a teacher and knows many students and parents, I wasn't looking for local men at the time.

He added me on QQ. I won't go into details about him: middle-aged, married with children, a civil

servant in the news and publishing industry—considered a seasoned single man on the couples' forum.

He chatted with me for over a year, patiently guiding and developing me, teaching me step by step how to do things (it still requires the right

person; some single men want to sleep with you after just a few words, asking for photos of their wives, and if the wife isn't pretty, they won't continue chatting,

etc. Many of these people delete each other after a few exchanges.

But this guy was different. He wasn't in a hurry to sleep with me, didn't ask for photos, and didn't ask if my wife was pretty. Instead,

he started by making friends, chatting about everyday things, work, etc., and said he would do his best to help if I needed anything in Beijing.

Later, he actually did help. My father-in-law worked in printing, and later, when he needed to go to Beijing for business,

he helped find people, partners, and arrange accommodations, etc. Otherwise, he wouldn't have been able to win over my wife.

From the time I met him to when he slept with my wife, two and a half years passed. I really admire his

spirit and perseverance.

It was precisely because of this ability, coupled with his frequent business trips across the country, that he slept with about 50

couples nationwide—meaning at least 50 respectable married women fell under his spell.

He told me all this later).

He was very sincere, giving me his ID card and workplace phone number, which I later secretly confirmed

were genuine.

This completely dispelled my concerns.

We talked more and more deeply.

He asked me to truthfully and promptly report everything about my wife, including our sexual interactions, and

any future developments, even the slightest changes, to him. I agreed.

Under his guidance, I started by taking sexy photos of my wife, then progressed to using vulgar language during sex and watching pornographic videos with her

(mainly Korean ones, which were aesthetically pleasing and emotionally charged

, very arousing for women). Once my wife was no longer averse to these and even enjoyed watching them, we gradually

moved on to watching adult films (mainly Hong Kong, Taiwanese, Japanese, and American films with storylines, including couples' self-shot 3P scenes, etc. I recommend

the Italian porn director Tinto

Brass's film "Adultery," which depicts a couple who have lost sexual desire after a long time,

while the wife, at the peak of her sexual desire, has an affair with another man, leading to a secret, promiscuous relationship

.

Later, the wife, who has tasted and enjoyed the forbidden fruit, wants a divorce, and the husband discovers her secret.

Instead of abandoning her, his desire intensifies. The two made love passionately, like newlyweds

, constantly using the woman's infidelity as a trigger to ignite their desire.

As a result, the wife experienced her husband's love and sex, and instead of divorcing, they returned to a happy life.

(And Korean depictions of "Butterfly Club" should be aesthetically pleasing and have a storyline; avoid

explicit group sex scenes that might offend the wife.)

Then, during sex, induce her to say vulgar things about having sex with other men. Of course, this takes a very long time; a woman's

transformation from innocence to promiscuity requires a process, but persistence will yield results (especially for my wife; her naiveté

is laughable.

She once told me that before marriage, she actually thought that men and women could get pregnant just by holding hands, and

before marriage, she even wondered how she would change clothes in front of her husband—into the bathroom or…?

It was devastating to hear).

At this point, the time was right.

Then, at the opportune moment, give the single man her wife's QQ number and secretly add him as a friend (I know her QQ password

).

My wife isn't very good at using QQ. When a stranger suddenly adds her as a friend, she doesn't know how to handle it. Someone familiar with QQ

would probably just delete the stranger.

So, the single man slowly started chatting with her.

Because I know my wife's preferences, I share everything with him, making him very clear on how to

chat with her, how to please her, and how to show her care. He easily won her favor (women

tend to lower their defenses when they have feelings for a man).

Later, there was the matter of my father-in-law going to Beijing for business. The single man and I had arranged this beforehand. He pretended

not to know anything and asked my wife if she needed his help in Beijing. She casually mentioned her father-in-law's business

, and he readily agreed. Later, her father-in-law successfully completed the business in Beijing, greatly increasing my wife's positive impression of him

.

He even sent my wife a photo he was particularly pleased with, which she forwarded to me, saying it was this online friend who helped her

father-in-law.

Although he wasn't the tall, handsome type my wife liked (she has very high standards; he was the most beautiful girl in college and was

pursued by many male colleagues at work), he looked honest, kind, and gentle, so my wife didn't find him

off-putting.

My wife also mentioned the single man in Beijing, specifically the one she met online who helped her, saying she

should thank him sometime.

My wife has this flaw, which could also be considered a strength: she always thinks about how to repay kindness received,

a trait that has been exploited by men in our future friendships, haha.

Another six months passed, and my wife and the single man were fairly familiar with each other, but he remained in control

and didn't rush into anything sexual.

However, during this time, he encouraged me to tease my wife more, but not to let her fully enjoy sex. He would

either tease her without intercourse, or ejaculate shortly after penetration, or make an excuse to stop, or go

a long time without touching her. At the same time, he would repeatedly say vulgar things like women having affairs with other men, saying that a

man who can't sexually satisfy a woman would enjoy seeing his wife having affairs with other men to give her

maximum pleasure, what it would be like to have another man's penis inside her, or what it would be like for two men to take turns having sex with one woman

.

He would then provoke his wife into saying she wanted to have sex with other men, making her imagine herself having an affair with a particular man.

If she refused, he would stop having sex and pretend to be angry.

Women during sex, especially those experiencing intense orgasm, are very likely to comply with their husbands'

requests.

The main purpose of this was to arouse strong desire in his wife, both physically and psychologically.

When she couldn't get satisfaction from her husband, she would easily think of other men who had a good impression of her (

except for movie actors, which are too far-fetched).

Thus, single men naturally became the object of her imagination.

Don't underestimate the power of brainwashing. When a woman's

mind is constantly filled with images of a particular man, especially during sex with her husband,

it's not far from actual infidelity.

Like us, although my wife initially thought it was just a fantasy, something she did to satisfy and cooperate with me, and that

it would never happen in reality, she accepted this seemingly perverse practice.

However, the power of brainwashing is often immeasurable.

This is why pyramid schemes are so powerful, even luring in people with strong mental fortitude.

After about six months of "training," coupled with the single man's consistently warm and caring

conversations with my wife on QQ, during sex, my wife naturally and smoothly began fantasizing about having an

affair with that single man. She would wantonly respond by calling out his name and uttering vulgarities,

such as: "AAA (single man's name), darling, come fuck me, I want you, I want your **** to fuck

me, I don't want to have sex with my husband, I want to have sex with you, I want to cuckold my husband, AAA, come on, come fuck

me, fuck me to death, I'm yours, my little slut is yours to fuck."

etc., and she was enjoying it immensely.

At this point, the single man told me, "That's about it, but your wife is still only psychologically

accepting it. In reality, I can't guarantee she'll actually act on it, since there's a gap between fantasy and reality, so

further training is needed."

I've experienced many similar situations with many couples. Some couples have talked privately with their wives and

even agreed on how to play in bed, but when they meet in person, they often change their minds or become unwilling.

Your task is almost complete. She trusts you as a man, which means her

worry about being abandoned by her husband if she cheats on you can be relieved. You can continue to stimulate her like this, and I'll take care of the rest

.

What I need to do is relieve her other worry, which is her concern about whether other men will sexually harm her

.

Once these two worries are relieved, more than 90% of women will readily comply.

However, I will show you every word of my chat with your wife, and I guarantee that I will not hide anything

, will not do anything detrimental to you, and will not have any private conversations with your wife.

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Later, he really sent me screenshots of his chat with his wife.

From the chat logs, it's clear that before she met him, my wife rarely chatted and wasn't very good at it; she could barely

exchange a few words with me. But since they became acquainted, she's been very open with him, asking him for advice on everything,

including business, life, and the children.

After class, she logs onto QQ in the office to chat with him (it's inconvenient at home with the children, and my wife is afraid I'll get angry if she sees it).

After telling me about the single man helping her father with his business, she basically hasn't mentioned him again. Gradually, the single man steered the conversation towards our marital life. He coaxed her into mentioning my strengths, such as my good temper, being family-oriented, hardworking, and considerate, while also getting her to express her dissatisfaction, such as sometimes being too focused on the children and neglecting her, or not being romantic enough. When the topic of romance came up, the single man deliberately shared secrets to keeping the relationship fresh, including sex (which he had obviously gathered online), naturally leading the conversation to our sex life. At first, my wife was quite wary and shy about talking about it, but the man didn't say anything else, only about the importance of sex in a marriage and its role for women. Seeing that he didn't engage in the vulgar behavior of other online men who immediately discussed genitals and casual sex, my wife gradually relaxed and began to share more private matters with him. Slowly, from the basics to the more advanced topics, my wife gradually opened up, including telling him about my short duration and poor technique in sex , my lack of foreplay, and how she couldn't experience the pleasure of female orgasm described in books . The man then guided her, teaching her how to have romantic sex with her husband. Naturally, my wife became interested in his sex life and would ask him how he did it. In this way, with the man's gradual and progressive guidance, my wife became increasingly which was directly reflected in her performance in bed. It must be admitted that, under the man's guidance, the quality of my wife and I's sex life has indeed improved significantly.

Especially my wife. Since giving birth and with a heavy work schedule, she rarely initiates sex at night.

But since she started chatting with a single man, she wants to be intimate with me almost every night whenever she has free time. There were a few days when she wanted it every

night, and I couldn't keep up.

Moreover, her methods and techniques during sex have changed significantly.

I remember a few times: one night, when I was about to ejaculate, my wife cried out, "Don't

ejaculate on my breasts!" Before I could react, I had already ejaculated most of it inside her vagina, with only a small amount landing on her breasts

after I pulled out . My wife carefully smeared the semen from her vagina onto her breasts, massaging it in circles. I asked her what was wrong, and she said she had read online that male semen promotes breast development in women (my wife is very beautiful, but she's a little self-conscious about her small breasts). Later, the single man told me that he taught my wife to do this, saying that male semen can make women's breasts fuller and is also nutritious, something she could eat as a supplement. Another time, my wife didn't lie naked in bed waiting for me after showering, as usual . Instead, she was covered by a sheet. When I opened the sheet after my shower, I discovered she was wearing an extremely sexy black lace see-through bodysuit, black garter belts, and semi-transparent black stockings (though I bought these for her, she never wears them because she finds them too troublesome; she always takes them off completely during sex). My eyes nearly popped out of my head. Later, a single man told me that he had instilled in my wife the idea that normal men like women wearing sexy lingerie to seduce their husbands in bed. He said, "Your husband is so good to you; you should be considerate of him and do things that make him happy." Good heavens, what kind of creatures are women? Why is it that after all these years of asking my wife, she refuses to do it, while other men do it readily after just a few words? The most unforgettable time was when my wife was giving me oral sex and asked me, "Your penis is smaller than other men's." I was shocked and asked her, "Smaller? You haven't seen other men's, how do you know?" Her face flushed instantly, and she stammered, unsure how to hide her embarrassment. She pretended to lower her head and perform oral sex, saying, "I guessed." My wife is the kind of woman who can spot even the most idiotic lie. I suspected something was wrong. The next day, the single man told me he had sent my wife a picture of his penis. From the picture, his penis was indeed large, especially the glans, which was shiny and triangular, like a large egg, much bigger than mine. He also sent me a picture, saying my wife had sent it to him. I was wondering if it was a nude photo of my wife (I had taken sexy photos of her, but not completely nude ones). She wouldn't have given this kind of photo to this single man, would she? The picture opened, and I breathed a sigh of relief. It wasn't a nude photo, but it was a blurry picture of my wife in a spaghetti-strap nightgown. I had taken pictures of her with her curly hair down, her shoulders partially exposed, her face flushed with desire—she looked even more alluring than a nude photo. Good heavens, sending a man a photo like this, what man wouldn't reveal his true nature? They've gone this far in their conversations, so what does that tell us? I felt a pang of sadness and a sense of inferiority. Although I fantasize about being cuckolded, the fact that it's gotten this fast is truly unexpected. It turns out that during those ten-odd days I was away on a business trip, my wife not only chatted with him in the office (sending those kinds of pictures in the office is obviously unsafe and impractical), but she also chatted with him late into the night in the bedroom after putting the kids to sleep. The topics naturally became quite intimate, and since it was more relaxed at home, she could say and send whatever she wanted. And since I wasn't online, the man couldn't show me the chat logs immediately. I asked him if they had video-chatted during those nights. He said it wasn't the right time yet; the timing wasn't right. If they video-chatted now, a virtuous woman would often regret it and feel guilty towards her husband, so when they actually met, she would deliberately avoid meeting me, and then it would all be for nothing, and they might never see each other again. Not doing it on video now is to leave her some room to maneuver. It'll be easier for them to meet and talk in person later, and to maintain a friendly relationship. I'm playing hard to get. Your wife is outstanding, beautiful, and has a great temperament; she's one of the best women I've ever met. Of course, I want to have her in bed, but I only do things I'm absolutely certain of. When the time and place are right, I'll get her into bed in a reasonable way. This way, I'll satisfy your desire to be cuckolded, give your wife a profound experience, and let me have my fill—a win-win-win situation. I'm utterly impressed; he's incredibly skilled. No wonder he's conquered so many women. My wife is probably doomed in front of someone like him. At this point, I increasingly feel that it's hard to guarantee that nothing won't happen between my wife and this single man in the future; it's probably only a matter of time. Even at this point, my thoughts were still stuck in fantasy. On one hand, I fantasized about my wife having an affair with a single man; on the other hand, I still thought it wouldn't happen to us. After all, my wife had received so much traditional education and was so traditional. She might be a little more open online, but she definitely wouldn't do it in real life. Me too—if I were to actually be cuckolded and get a reputation as a cuckold, I really wouldn't be able to get over it. This contradictory feeling of wanting my wife to cheat while simultaneously fearing it kept me going. So, on one hand strongly desired the single man and my wife to continue, but on the other hand, I really hoped they wouldn't develop things too quickly, or even just play around online and not actually do it in real life. At this moment, the single man asked me how I felt. I said, "You're really good, a real expert." Seeing that I hadn't mentioned the important thing, he asked again, "Anything else? Is that all? You must have other ideas, right?" I was a little silent, wanting to express my conflicted feelings but afraid he would laugh at me for being a sore loser. He seemed to read my mind and said, "If you regret it now, it's not too late. After all, we 're only communicating online, and your wife and I haven't slept together. " I felt a little guilty and said, "No, no, I'm just a little awkward. I'm afraid my wife won't accept it in the end."

The single man typed a smiling emoji: "You're using your wife as an excuse, aren't you? You can't get over

this hurdle. All you cuckold-loving husbands are like this; back and forth is normal. Eventually, you'll all

accept it, it's just a matter of time, and you'll even be grateful for everything I've done."

Facing his sharp, incisive words on the other end of the computer screen,

I fell silent: What am I doing? Why do his words feel like hammer blows striking my

vulnerable heart? He's average in looks and physique, far inferior to me and even less comparable to male celebrities. Why does

he act like a high and mighty emperor, while I'm like a slave groveling at his feet? And not only do I have to

give my beautiful wife to him, but I also have to be grateful for the pleasure he brings to my wife and me? Just because he's slept with

so many women and has such a big penis? Can a big penis make all women submit?

I suddenly felt a strong urge: I'm not a slave, I don't want to be a slave. He's not my king.

He's average, my wife won't accept him, and she certainly won't sleep with him.

I can't go on like this.

I mustered all my strength, took a deep breath, and typed: "Sorry, I need to

think about this more carefully. Let's not talk about it for now."

The single man paused, seemingly surprised that I would do this, but quickly replied: "Okay, it's okay, we can

all understand."

I said: "You shouldn't talk to my wife for now.

We need to adjust."

He agreed.

After logging off, I felt as if a heavy burden had been lifted, as if I had escaped from his grasp. I took

a deep breath, thankful that I could still control everything and hadn't lost myself.

(To be continued)

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