A cuckolded couple's confession of offering their wives (Part 1) (Reprinted)

To give a brief introduction, I was in my early thirties at the time, and my wife was three years younger than me. She was beautiful, slim, and a middle school art

teacher.

We both had respectable and respectable professions, and our child had just been born. Our careers and lives were going smoothly.

However, as time went on, especially after the birth of our child, the housework piled up, and our relationship became dull and uninteresting

. Our sex life became almost nonexistent.

In 2006, I was unintentionally

influenced by a pioneering woman who advocated for couples engaging in online dating, and the "Couples' Bar" she founded. After reading many of her works and interviews, I became deeply immersed in it, unable to extricate myself.

My mind was filled with thoughts of my wife having affairs with other men. Just thinking about it made me aroused, and my penis would become erect. This

even affected my normal work and life.

Therefore, I still suggest that anyone who really wants to enter this circle, especially husbands, should study this kind

of material extensively. Only by arming your mind, or to put it bluntly, only by completely immersing yourself

in the scenario of couples engaging in online dating, will there be any possibility of taking the next step.

Otherwise, if I couldn't even get past my own hurdle, let alone my wife's,

acting rashly would only lead to two outcomes: divorce or a lifetime of unrealized fantasies.

Of course, taking this real step was largely thanks to that single man from Beijing. I left

a message on a couples' forum hoping to meet quality men, and I made some requests, all of which I kept from my wife.

Because my wife is a teacher and knows many students and parents, I wasn't looking for local men at the time.

He added me on QQ. I won't go into details about him: middle-aged, married with children, a civil

servant in the news and publishing industry—considered a seasoned single man on the couples' forum.

He chatted with me for over a year, patiently guiding and developing me, teaching me step by step how to proceed (but it still requires the right

person; some single men, after only a few words, want to sleep with me and ask for photos of their wives, and if the wife isn't pretty, they won't continue chatting,

etc. Many of these people are deleted after a few conversations.

But this guy was different. He wasn't in a hurry to sleep with me, didn't ask for photos, and didn't ask if my wife was pretty. Instead, he started

by making friends, chatting about everyday things, work, etc., and said he would do his best to help if I needed anything in Beijing.

Later, he actually did help. My father-in-law worked in printing, and later, when he needed to go to Beijing for business,

he helped find people, partners, and arrange accommodations for him; otherwise, he wouldn't have been able to win my wife over.

From the time I met him to when he slept with my wife, two and a half years passed. I really admire his

spirit and perseverance.

It was precisely because of this ability, coupled with his frequent business trips across the country, that he slept with about 50

couples nationwide—meaning at least 50 respectable married women fell under his spell.

He told me all this later).

He was very sincere, giving me his ID card and workplace phone number, which I later secretly confirmed

were genuine.

This completely dispelled my concerns.

We talked more and more deeply.

He asked me to truthfully and promptly report everything about my wife, including our sexual relationship, and

any future developments, even the slightest changes, to him. I agreed.

Under his guidance, I started by taking sexy photos of my wife, then progressed to using vulgar language during sex and watching pornographic videos with her

(mainly Korean ones, which were aesthetically pleasing and provocative

, very arousing to women). Once my wife was no longer averse to these and even enjoyed watching them, we gradually

moved on to watching adult films (mainly Hong Kong, Taiwanese, Japanese, and American films with storylines, such as couples' self-shot 3P scenes, etc. I recommend

the Italian porn director Tinto

Brass's film "Adultery," which mainly depicts a couple who have lost sexual desire after a long time,

while the wife, at the peak of her sexual desire, has an affair and sleeps with another man, leading to a secret, promiscuous

relationship.

Later, the wife, who has tasted and enjoyed the forbidden fruit, wants a divorce, and the husband discovers her secret.

Instead of abandoning her, the husband's desire is aroused, and the two become as passionate as newlyweds.

Love, and constantly use the woman's infidelity as a trigger to ignite their passion.

The result is that the wife experiences her husband's love and sex, and instead of divorcing, they return to a happy life.

(And Korean depictions of "Butterfly Club" – it must be aesthetically pleasing and have a storyline; avoid
explicit group sex scenes that might offend the wife).

Then, during sex, induce her to say vulgar things about having sex with other men. Of course, this takes a very long time; a woman's

transformation from innocence to promiscuity takes time, but persistence will yield results (especially for my wife; her naiveté

is probably laughable.

She once told me that before marriage, she actually thought that men and women could get pregnant just by holding hands, and

before marriage, she even wondered how she would change clothes in front of her husband – in the bathroom or…? It was

devastating).

At this point, the time is right.

Then, at the opportune moment, give my wife's QQ number to a single man and secretly add him as a friend (I know my wife's QQ password

).

My wife isn't very good at using QQ. When a stranger suddenly adds her to her friends list, she doesn't know what to do. Someone familiar with QQ

would probably just delete the stranger.

So, the single man slowly started chatting with her.

Because I know my wife's preferences, I would share everything with the single man, making him very clear on how to

chat with her, how to please her, and how to show her care. He easily gained her favor (women

tend to lower their guard when they have feelings for a man).

Later, when my father-in-law went to Beijing for business, the single man and I arranged it beforehand, and he pretended to be...

I don't know if I asked my wife if she needed any help from him in Beijing, but she casually mentioned her father's business .

The man readily agreed, and later, her father successfully completed the deal in Beijing,

greatly increasing my wife's positive impression of him.

He even sent my wife a photo of himself that she was particularly pleased with, which she forwarded to me, saying it was this online friend who had helped

her father.

Although he wasn't the tall, handsome type my wife preferred (she has high standards; she was a campus beauty in college and had

many male colleagues pursuing her), he looked honest, kind, and had glasses, so she didn't find

him off-putting.

My wife also mentioned the man in Beijing to me, only saying it was about this online friend who helped her, and that

she should thank him sometime.

My wife has this flaw, which could also be considered a strength: she always thinks about how to repay those she's helped with,

a trait that has been exploited by men quite a few times in our future friendships, haha.

Another six months passed, and my wife and the man were quite familiar with each other, but he remained very composed

and didn't rush into anything sexual.

During this period, the single man guided me to tease my wife more, but not to let her fully enjoy sex.

This meant teasing her without intercourse, or ejaculating shortly after penetration, or making an excuse to stop, or

not touching her for a long time. Simultaneously, during sex, I was instructed to repeatedly use vulgar language about women having affairs with other men, saying that a

man who can't sexually satisfy a woman would enjoy seeing her having sex with other men, allowing her to experience

maximum pleasure, describing what it would be like to have another man's penis inside her, or what it would be

like for two men to take turns having sex with one woman.

I also encouraged my wife to express her desire to have sex with other men, to imagine which man she wanted to have sex with.

If she refused, I would stop sex and pretend to be angry.

Women during sex, especially those experiencing intense orgasm, are easily

swayed by their husbands' requests.

The main purpose of this was to arouse strong desire in my wife, both physically and psychologically.

When she couldn't get satisfaction from her husband, she would easily think of other men who had a good impression of her (

excluding movie actors, which are too far-fetched).

Thus, single men naturally become the object of the wife's association.

Don't underestimate the power of brainwashing. When a woman's mind is constantly filled with

images of a particular man, especially during sex with her husband,

it's a sign that they're not far from engaging in illicit relations.

Like us, although my wife initially thought it was just a fantasy, something she did to satisfy and cooperate with me, and that it

would never happen in reality, she accepted this practice, which seems somewhat perverse to a normal couple.

However, the power of brainwashing is often immeasurable.

This is why pyramid schemes are so effective, even luring many psychologically strong people into their schemes.

After about six months of "training," and with the single man constantly offering warm and considerate messages

to my wife on QQ, she naturally and easily fantasized about having an affair with him during sex. She

would then wantonly respond by calling his name and uttering vulgarities,

such as: "Aaa (the single man's name), darling, come fuck me, I want you, I want your **** to fuck

me, I don't want to do it with my husband, I want to do it with you, I want to cuckold my husband, Aaa, come on, come fuck me,

fuck me to death, I'm yours, my little slut is yours to fuck,"

etc., and she was enjoying it immensely.

At this point, the single man told me, "It's almost done, but your wife is still only psychologically

accepting it. I can't guarantee she'll actually act on it in reality, since there's a gap between fantasy and reality, so

further training is needed."

I've experienced many similar situations with many couples. Some couples have everything going well in private,

even agreeing on what to do in bed, but once they meet in person, they change their minds or become unwilling.

Your task is almost complete; she trusts you as a man, meaning her

worry about being abandoned if she cheats is gone. Continue to stimulate her like this; I'll handle the rest

.

What I need to do is alleviate her other worry: whether other men will sexually harm her

.

Once these two worries are resolved, over 90% of women will readily comply.

However, I will show you every single word of my chat history with your wife, guaranteeing I won't hide anything

, won't do anything detrimental to you, and certainly won't have any private conversations with her.

Later, he indeed sent me screenshots of his chat history with his wife.

From the chat logs, it's clear that before she met him, my wife rarely chatted and wasn't very good at it; she could barely

exchange a few words with me. But since they became acquainted, she's been very open with him, asking him for advice

on everything, including business, life, and the children.

After class, she logs onto QQ in the office to chat with him (it's inconvenient at home with the children, and my wife is afraid I'll get angry if she sees it).

After telling me about the single man helping her father with his business, she basically hasn't mentioned him again. Gradually, the single man steered the conversation towards our marital life. He coaxed her into mentioning my strengths, such as my good temper, being family-oriented, hardworking, and considerate, while also getting her to express her dissatisfaction, such as sometimes being too focused on the children and neglecting her, or not being romantic enough. When the topic of romance came up, the single man deliberately shared secrets to keeping the relationship fresh, including sex (which he had obviously gathered online), naturally leading the conversation to our sex life.

At first, my wife was quite wary and shy about talking about it, but the man didn't say anything else, only about

the importance of sex in a marriage and its role for women.

Seeing that he didn't engage in the vulgar behavior of other online men who immediately discussed genitals and casual sex, my wife gradually relaxed

and began to share our more private matters with him.

Slowly, from the basics to the more advanced topics, my wife gradually opened up, including telling him about my

short duration and poor technique in sex, my lack of foreplay, and how she couldn't experience the pleasure of female orgasm described in books

.

The man then guided her, teaching her how to have romantic sex with her husband.

Naturally, my wife became interested in his sex life and would ask him how he did it.

In this way, with the man's gradual and progressive guidance, my wife

became increasingly open about topics related to sex,

which was directly reflected in her performance in bed.

It must be admitted that, under the man's guidance, the quality of my wife and I's sex life has indeed improved significantly.

Especially my wife, since giving birth and with a heavy work schedule, she rarely initiates sex at night.

But since she started chatting with a single man, she wants to be intimate with me almost every night whenever she has free time. There were a few days when she wanted to every single

night, and I couldn't keep up.

Moreover, her methods and techniques during sex have changed significantly.

I remember a few times: one night, when I was about to ejaculate, my wife cried out, "Don't

ejaculate on my breasts!" Before I could react, I had already ejaculated most of it inside her vagina, with only a small amount landing on her breasts

after I pulled out . My wife carefully smeared the semen that had flowed from her vagina onto her breasts, massaging it in circles. I asked her what was wrong, and she said she had read online that male semen promotes breast development in women (my wife is very beautiful, but she's a little self-conscious about her small breasts). Later, the single man told me that he taught my wife to do this, saying that male semen can make women's breasts fuller and also has nutrients that can be consumed as a supplement. Another time, after my wife finished showering, she didn't lie naked in bed waiting for me as usual . Instead, she was covered by a sheet. When I opened the sheet after my shower, I discovered that she was wearing an extremely sexy black lace see-through bodysuit, black garter belts, and semi-transparent black stockings (although I bought these for her, she never wears them because she finds it troublesome; she always takes them off completely during sex). My eyes almost popped out. Later, a single man told me that he had instilled in my wife the idea that normal men like women wearing sexy lingerie to seduce their husbands in bed. He said, "Your husband is so good to you; you should be considerate of him and do things that make him happy." Good heavens, what kind of creatures are women? Why is it that after all these years of asking my wife, she refuses to do it, while other men do it after just a few words? The most unforgettable time was when my wife was giving me oral sex and asked me, "Your penis is smaller than other men's." I was shocked and asked her, "Smaller? You haven't seen other men's, how do you know?" Her face flushed instantly, and she stammered, unsure how to hide her embarrassment. She pretended to lower her head to perform oral sex, saying, "I guessed." My wife is the kind of woman who can spot even the most idiotic lie. I suspected something was wrong. The next day, the single man told me that he had sent my wife a picture of his penis. From the picture, his penis was indeed large, especially the glans, which was a shiny, inverted triangle, like a large egg, much bigger than mine. He also sent me a picture, saying it was sent to him by my wife. I was wondering if it was a nude photo I had taken of my wife (I had taken sexy photos of her, but not completely nude ones ). She wouldn't have given this kind of photo to this single man, would she? The picture opened, and I breathed a sigh of relief. It wasn't a nude photo, but it was a blurry picture of my wife wearing a spaghetti-strap nightgown. I had taken pictures of her with her curly hair down, her shoulders partially exposed, her face flushed with desire—she looked even more alluring than a nude photo. Good heavens, sending a man a photo like this, which man wouldn't reveal his true nature? They've gone this far; think about it, what does this prove? I felt a pang of sadness and a sense of inferiority. Although I fantasize about being cuckolded, the fact that it's gotten this fast is truly unexpected. It turns out that during those ten-odd days I was away on a business trip, my wife not only chatted with him in the office (sending those kinds of pictures in the office is obviously unsafe and unrealistic), but also chatted with him late into the night in the bedroom after putting the kids to sleep. The topics naturally became quite intimate, and since it was more relaxed at home, she could say and send whatever she wanted. And since I wasn't online, the single man couldn't show me the chat logs immediately. I asked him if they had video-chatted during those nights. He said, "Not yet. The time isn't right. If we video-chatted now, a virtuous woman would often regret it and feel guilty towards her husband. Then, when we actually met, she would deliberately avoid meeting me, and it would all be for nothing, and we might never see each other again." I'm not doing it on video now to leave her some room to maneuver. It'll be easier for them to meet and talk in person later, and to maintain a friendly relationship. I'm playing hard to get. Your wife is outstanding—beautiful, elegant, and among the best women I've ever met. Of course, I want to have her in bed, but I only do things I'm absolutely certain of. When the time and place are right, I'll get her into bed in a reasonable and justifiable way. This way, I'll satisfy your desire to be cuckolded, give your wife a profound experience, and let me have my way—a win- win-win situation. Why not?

I was utterly impressed, almost to the point of prostration. He was incredibly skilled; no wonder he conquered so many women.

My wife would probably be doomed in front of such a master.

At this point, I increasingly felt that it was hard to guarantee that nothing would happen between my wife and the single man; it was probably only a

matter of time.

Actually, even at this point, my thoughts were still stuck in fantasy. On one hand, I fantasized about my wife and the single

man having an affair; on the other hand, I still thought that such a thing wouldn't happen to us. After all, my wife had received so many years of traditional

education and was so traditional. She might be a little more open online, but she definitely wouldn't

do it in real life.

As for me, if I were to actually wear that green hat and get a reputation as a cuckold, I really wouldn't be able to get over it.

This contradictory feeling of wanting my wife to cheat while simultaneously fearing her cheating kept me in turmoil. So, on one

hand, I strongly desired that the single man and my wife continue, but on the other hand, I really hoped that they wouldn't develop so quickly, or

even just play around online and not happen in real life.

At this moment, the single man asked me how I felt. I said, "You're really amazing, a true master."

Seeing that I hadn't mentioned anything important, the single man asked again: "Anything else? Is that all? You must have other ideas,

right?" I hesitated, wanting to express my conflicted feelings but afraid he'd laugh at me for being a sore loser.

He seemed to read my mind, saying: "If you regret it now, it's not too late. After all, we

're only communicating online, and your wife and I haven't slept together.

" I felt a little guilty and said: "No, no, I'm just a little awkward. I

'm afraid my wife won't accept it in the end."

The single man typed a smiling emoji: "You're using your wife as an excuse, aren't you? You can't get over

this hurdle. All you cuckolded husbands are like this, it's normal to have back and forth. But eventually you'll all

accept it, it's just a matter of time, and you'll even be grateful for everything I've done."

Facing his sharp words on the other end of the computer, each one aimed directly at my weakness,

I fell silent: What am I doing? Why do his words feel like hammer blows striking my

vulnerable heart? He's average in looks and physique, far inferior to me and even less comparable to those male celebrities. Why is

he like a high and mighty emperor, while I'm like a slave groveling at his feet? And not only do I have to

give my beautiful wife to him, but I also have to be grateful for the pleasure he brings to my wife and me? Is it just because he's slept with

so many women and has such a big penis? Can a big penis alone make all women submit?

I suddenly felt a strong urge: I'm not a slave, I don't want to be a slave. He's not my king.

He's average, and my wife wouldn't accept him, much less sleep with him.

I can't go on like this.

I mustered all my strength, took a deep breath, and typed: "Sorry, I need to

think about this more carefully. Let's not talk about it for now."

The single man paused, seemingly surprised that I would do this, but quickly replied: "Okay, it's okay, we can

all understand."

I said: "You shouldn't talk to my wife about this for now.

We need to adjust."

He agreed.

After logging off, I felt as if a heavy burden had been lifted from my shoulders, as if I had escaped from his grasp.

I took a deep breath, thankful that I could still control everything and hadn't lost myself.

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