A Cuckold's Confession (Reprinted)

First, let me explain my situation. My husband and I have been together since high school, for ten years now. We've been in a relationship for over seven years. He's my first love; all my virginity was with him. I originally thought I'd just live a normal life like any other woman—married, had children, and settled down. We went to different universities and communicated mainly through QQ. Life remained uneventful. However, during our sophomore year, he suddenly told me he wanted me to have sex with other men. I was devastated. I wondered if he no longer loved me; otherwise, why would he have such thoughts? I was confused and lost. I researched a lot and read many articles to understand his situation. I learned that he actually had a cuckoldry complex. After much persuasion, I finally gave in. I thought, since my husband desires it, let's do it. The first time, I met up with someone I met online. Before going, I repeatedly confirmed with him that it was true. He was very certain and excited, even radiating an air of barely suppressed excitement, and I couldn't understand it at the time. I went to the appointment with a heavy heart. I won't go into the details, but basically, I didn't think much during the act and completely let go. It was incredibly exciting to have sex with a stranger, experiencing multiple orgasms in one session. Looking back, it was quite enjoyable. However, on the way home, I was filled with conflicting emotions. I felt like I had fallen into depravity, my mind a jumble of complex thoughts. I knew there was no turning back, and I worried that my husband might really treat me as he claimed. Fortunately, my husband's behavior was not only positive but also encouraging and comforting. I could feel that he truly loved me. Since there was no turning back, and my husband enjoyed this so much, I decided to just go along with it (perhaps some would say this is just the naive thinking of a foolish woman, but regardless, the facts speak for themselves—I gained my happy marriage). Later, I consulted a psychologist and learned that cuckoldry is not a form of psychological abnormality. The psychologist told me that cuckoldry is psychologically known as cynicism, or colloquially, cuckoldry complex. A husband who frequently fantasizes about his wife being sexually assaulted by other men or having sex with other men is exhibiting typical cuckoldry. They desire their wives to be promiscuous and wanton in bed, finding it incredibly stimulating. Everyone's behavior is different, but most cuckolds fantasize about their wives seducing other men during sex; sometimes, they can't even get an erection without it. They'll talk about these fantasies to their wives, hoping for their cooperation. If the wife is cooperative, the husband feels stimulated and becomes very excited. If the wife is uncooperative, gets angry, or scolds him, he immediately loses interest, either finishing quickly or becoming weak and unable to continue. In severe cases, it can even lead to impotence or a permanent loss of sexual interest in his wife. (Hearing this, I thought thankfully I didn't overreact, otherwise my husband and I might not be together today.) Cuckoldry isn't a perversion; it's a relatively common psychological issue. In most people's minds, men generally want their wives to remain chaste. That's true, but that was in ancient China. In modern Chinese society, influenced by Western cultures such as those of Europe and America, most people have gradually become more open-minded. In ancient China, men were the dominant figures in sexual activity, while women played supporting roles. There was only one protagonist, but many supporting characters, leading to polygamy, which is prohibited by modern law. Therefore, modern men seek new stimulation in their sexual lives, and influenced by the sexual cultures of other countries, resulting in cuckoldry. Cuckoldry also involves a significant element of vanity. In many medieval European countries, a woman could have relationships with many men, and her husbands not only weren't angry but were proud. They believed that the more men who fell at their feet, the more outstanding and charming their woman was. Only inferior women failed to attract many men. Others would envy him for having such a superior woman. Men with cuckoldry don't lack love for their wives; on the contrary, they love them more than other men. They deeply admire and praise their wives, and they are proud to have found such excellent wives. They believe their wives are exceptionally beautiful and possess enough charm to captivate many men. Therefore, they hope their wives can display their charm to seduce other men, making them acknowledge their wife's excellence and thus envy him. In the US and Japan, the two countries with the most developed AV industries and the most open sexual cultures, men often encourage their women to have sex with other men and enjoy the sexual sensations brought by different men. Many women are also intoxicated by this, enjoying the sexual pleasure brought by different men, and at the same time, they gain psychological satisfaction and pride from being able to charm many men. The main motivation for men with cuckoldry is to make their wives more sexually happy. They hope to see their wives satisfied and attractive enough to attract the attention of all men. They regard having a wife with a very open mind and a high tolerance as an honor, and they will cherish and protect their wives even more. Their interest in other women will be much smaller. Their attention is all on their wives, and satisfying their wives is the primary goal. In fact, it is still a very positive and healthy thing. It does not harm others or themselves and will not cause harm to anyone. My husband often jokes that this is the realm of shared prosperity and shared wife. I was chatting with my best friend about this topic once, and I was surprised to learn that her husband also had this fetish. Before meeting him, she had dated many men. She's the type who dresses provocatively and has a hot body, making her very popular with men. Later, she met her true love, her current husband, and discovered his cuckoldry fetish by chance. One time, she was groped by someone sitting next to her on the subway for a long time. When she got home, she told her husband, feeling wronged. Surprisingly, he wasn't angry at all; instead, he seemed excited. He carefully questioned her about what happened, and when he heard that even her private parts had been touched, he became even more excited and stripped her naked in the living room and had sex with her. Afterwards, when questioned, her husband admitted to having a cuckold's complex. After communication, it was revealed that whenever she went shopping or clubbing with her husband, she would dress provocatively, intentionally exposing herself to other men, or exposing herself on the subway or bus. If she encountered a pervert, she would flirt with other men in front of her husband, allowing them to touch her private parts—wearing only a thong—through her miniskirt until she became uncontrollably aroused. Then they would immediately go home and have sex. Every time they had sex, her friend would tell her husband about her ex-boyfriends' sexual experiences, which always made her husband incredibly excited and exceptionally vigorous during sex. (There's even a joke: once her husband couldn't hold back and ejaculated in his pants on the subway, and he spent ages washing his pants in the bathroom when he got home.) My friend is much stronger than me. Initially, my emotional journey was often accompanied by confusion and uncertainty, while my friend's wasn't, and she completely dominated her marital sex life. My best friend told me that to win a man's heart, you have to cater to his desires. For men with cuckoldry complexes, as long as you naturally cooperate, he'll cherish and pamper you. If you can't do that, when he meets another woman who can satisfy him in that area, you'll only be able to grovel. Finally, let me share some experience as advice: sex is an indispensable part of a marriage, and couples with disharmonious sex lives will not last. The most basic thing about pursuing cuckoldry is to separate sex from emotions, treating it simply as a form of entertainment, like playing cards, chess, mahjong, or singing. If you can't do this, I suggest giving up, or wait until you can before considering it. Don't rush things, because a different mindset leads to a different perspective. You won't expect someone to only play chess or cards with you for the rest of their life—that's the difference. For those who can't do this yet, try fantasizing during sex and telling your husband. When he makes suggestions or asks questions, try to answer in a slightly lewd way. First, pique his interest, then try exposing yourself to others in certain situations. After all, it's just for show; there's no harm in it. After experiencing being stared at a few times, you can try accepting physical touch. If you can reach this point, the rest will be relatively straightforward. Even if things don't progress further, reaching this stage is enough to make your husband infatuated with you. If you can't even reach this point, then give up—give up everything, including your current husband, because over time his love for you will gradually fade until it disappears. I hope what I've said is helpful to those who are still confused.

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