I saw an article that really resonated with me, about the difference between cuckoldry and being cuckolded, so I'm sharing it here.

It's common to see people confuse cuckoldry with masochism, thinking that since both involve enjoying having sex with one's wife, they're the same thing. However, from a psychological perspective, they are completely different. I believe cuckoldry and masochism should be treated separately. The former's pleasure comes from sharing and boasting, while the latter's pleasure comes from humiliation and oppression. This can be distinguished by language used in conversations: cuckoldry enthusiasts enjoy hearing positive comments about their wives, while masochists enjoy hearing humiliating remarks about their wives. The pleasure of cuckoldry is actively sharing the pleasure of one's wife being sexually assaulted, while the pleasure of masochism is passively enjoying the pleasure of one's wife being sexually assaulted!
Those with cuckoldry tend to face discrimination and marginalization in monogamous societies because it can have an unpredictable impact on and undermine the foundation of the family. From a personal perspective, cuckoldry is a form of sexual psychology, similar to BDSM, where sexual arousal and pleasure can be obtained through the act itself. From a marital perspective, with sufficient communication and understanding between the couple, it can be a sexual experience and experiment. However, if the wife cannot understand or even resists, it can severely damage the trust and dependence between them.
Men with cuckoldry tendencies are almost always deeply in love with their wives. Most of these wives possess exceptional qualities, such as appearance, figure, and temperament. Cuckoldry often involves a degree of sharing and boasting; in the eyes of the cuckold, having such a wife is the most worthwhile life experience to boast about and share.
The source of their distress lies in this: their desire faces immense societal pressure, and this pressure not only applies to themselves but also affects their wives, whom they consider precious.
I have also spoken with some cuckolds, and their experiences are largely similar to my summary above. They discuss their wives with a spirit of equal sharing, which can be described as: recounting their treasures.
Therefore, I believe that cuckoldry is not some dark psychological behavior; in a sense, it is simply a spirit of sharing. The reason it is considered taboo is simply because mainstream society does not accept it, especially since it involves sexual behavior.

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