A refined and robust 40-year-old man from Beijing makes casual remarks about friendship.

A Refined and Robust 40-Year-Old Beijing Man's Musings on Friendships:
I am 175cm tall, 75kg, a university graduate, and have lived in Beijing for 20 years. I work in management at a private IT company. My wife and children are studying abroad, so I live alone in Beijing. My hobbies are wide-ranging: badminton, table tennis, billiards, fishing, Go, slingshot, and fortune-telling (based on the I Ching), and I'm quite good at all of them. But that's not the main point. Here's what I really want to say:
My Purpose in Friendships:
As a recently married man living alone, if I'm making friends with married couples, the purpose is clear: to add fun to life and release my energy. The excitement will only be felt by couples who are open to this approach; I'm just a supporting character. If I'm making friends with single women, it's to satisfy my own desires while also giving my girlfriend a different kind of masculine experience. However, regardless of the method, I hope to become lifelong friends. Even 10 or 20 years from now, a glance between us will evoke endless beautiful memories and a sense of ambiguity.
My Approach to Friendships:
A friendly approach is perhaps the best way. In friendships, where money isn't involved, exchanging small gifts or bringing back presents from abroad is normal etiquette; it's not about money. What is a friend? Someone you can chat, drink, and play with. Not contacting each other often doesn't affect the friendship. People these days are a bit impatient, unwilling to invest time and energy, including in friendships. They prefer direct, fast-food solutions to their desires, which isn't my goal in friendships. Frankly, fast-food solutions are far less efficient than solving problems independently (men who can solve their own problems generally don't like to bother others, so efficient men finish in 3-5 minutes).
A man of character:
As a middle-aged man, I have my own judgment on this issue. A man of character, first and foremost, must have a strong sense of responsibility, especially towards his family. Regardless of the friends he makes, his primary responsibility is to his family. No matter how exciting the outside world may be, his main responsibility lies with his family—being good to his wife, caring for his children, and providing them with good material conditions. Therefore, an unmarried single man might only offer a very short-lived thrill in friendships; it's unsustainable. Secondly, a man of character must have basic financial and time freedom. To achieve financial freedom, unless one is born into wealth or power, one must possess fundamental principles of conduct. In making friends, one will avoid actions that are either self-serving or detrimental to others. Time freedom is also crucial, allowing one to nurture friendships while caring for family. Conversely, if one is constantly preoccupied with making a living, leisurely friendships are impossible. A quality man, in matters of the bedroom, prioritizes the woman's pleasure, not his own. Since women take longer to reach orgasm, a selfish or uncontrolled man who ejaculates prematurely will likely fail in his friendships.
Honesty and sincerity are essential for friendship.

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