Single men and couples

Generally speaking, making friends online can be divided into the following five steps, which can be summarized in a concise way: 1. Preparation; 2. Finding friends; 3. Communication; 4. Meeting; 5. Making friends.

Let's start with the first step. When you have the idea of making friends online and want to work towards it, you also need to prepare. The most important thing is to understand why you want to make friends online, what kind of fun you are looking for, and where the joy of making friends lies. If you don't understand this yourself, you will always be in a passive state, and it will be much more difficult to truly experience making friends online.
One very important point is that making friends online requires a certain amount of money. If you are playing with a couple, you will have to cover the costs of hotel rooms and meals. This expense may be greater than simply hiring a prostitute, so if you are only doing this for sex, it is best not to do it. Only when you feel that you truly understand and that this special way of making friends is worth pursuing should you continue to do it.
Once you've considered your own perspective, before officially seeking partners, you should first understand why many couples want to experience this form of dating, what kind of thrill they're seeking, and what their psychology is. Understand the age range and social class of couples who participate in this activity. While this takes time, it will greatly help your future dating process and achieve twice the result with half the effort.
I have no respect for those who have only read a few erotic novels and know nothing about dating before trying to find partners. After preparing mentally, you also need to do some concrete work. I suggest creating a dedicated QQ account for this. In dating, adding one or two friends isn't enough; you might need to add many. A dedicated QQ account is convenient and also helps maintain confidentiality, as most people don't want their friends to know about this. Besides a dedicated QQ account, if possible, prepare some photos to send to potential partners when they request them. There's no fixed formula for preparation; you can tailor it to your own personality.
The second step is finding partners. This is a crucial aspect of making friends, and many people fail to make friends because they can't find suitable partners. I'll share a basic principle: "Cultivate widely, select selectively." In making friends, you need patience, but you can't put all your eggs in one basket. There are many ways to find friends: you can add people directly through QQ, forums, or QQ groups. I assume everyone knows these, so I won't go into detail. Let me mention a few points to keep in mind.
Forums are a good method; you can post and then sit back and wait for your "mermaid" to bite. Try to write your posts as engagingly as possible. These sites often have many posts from single men, so without something unique, it's hard to attract attention. Also, post frequently; forum posts are usually updated quickly, and your post will soon be pushed to the back. However, things aren't like they used to be; there are fewer such sites, and many are either paid or require points, which is annoying.
Currently, the best way to make friends is through QQ groups. Although many groups have fake members, the sheer number of people in a group means you can still find some good matches.
Regarding the age of the couple, everyone can choose according to their own preferences. In my opinion, couples aged 35-45 generally have a higher success rate because couples in this age group have more stable careers and families, and their thinking is relatively more open.
As for location, some people say it's better to be in the same city, while others say it's better to be a little further away. My opinion is that if you are in a big city like Beijing or Tianjin, you can look for someone in the same city; if you are in a smaller city like Qinhuangdao, it's best to find someone from a nearby city.
Currently, there are always some people, whether for pranks or other purposes, who frequently pretend to be couples. I hope everyone has the ability to filter them out.
After adding a new couple, you will inevitably chat. Although most couples on this dating platform are contacted by the husband, if it's always just the husband chatting, there might be a problem. While couples on this platform are generally open-minded, most are of high quality and speak with discretion. If you encounter someone whose chat is erratic and who even asks for happy photos, you should consider their sincerity.
Thirdly, communication. Here, communication refers to the interaction between you after finding a couple who are generally satisfied in all aspects and who also approve of you. Finding a suitable, genuine couple doesn't guarantee a romantic relationship. Friendships require mutual satisfaction and connection, so communication is essential. This may take time, so patience is key; it's the most crucial aspect of dating.
This communication involves two parts: communication with the other person's husband and communication with their wife. This type of dating is unique because the process revolves around the wife. Only if the wife is satisfied with you and has feelings for you can you participate. For the husband, since he's finding a partner for his wife, he also needs to be satisfied and feel you have good character.
In most cases, the person seeking a partner is the husband, and he'll only introduce you to his wife if he's satisfied. When chatting with the husband, be sincere and genuine, demonstrating high character. There's no fixed formula; just normal communication to build trust. This communication with the husband is extremely important, as the relationship involves three people, including the husband. Mutual trust and understanding are crucial for achieving the desired results. When the conversation is nearly finished, you can video chat with the other woman's husband or send her a photo.
It's important to avoid asking trivial questions at the beginning, such as what her past sexual experiences were like, or whether her wife is "open-minded." These questions can easily offend her. Also, don't boast excessively; be truthful. Some single men like to claim they are "180cm tall, incredibly handsome, and have amazing sexual prowess," which is very immature.
Normally, if the other woman's husband is satisfied with you, he will quickly introduce you to his wife so you can get to know each other. When chatting with a woman, don't start by trying to steer the conversation towards dating; just have a normal conversation, talk about your hobbies, and what's been going on lately. Many couples have reported that many single men go astray during conversations, using vulgar language or even suggesting looking at the other woman's body, which is offensive. If you're really looking for a casual relationship, please don't do that. Building trust with a woman takes time; once she's interested and shows interest, you can naturally move on to more casual conversation.
A husband who genuinely wants to engage in this activity will communicate with you while you chat with the other woman. If they feel you're a good match, they'll tell you how much their wife approves of you, and might even tell you about her hobbies, to facilitate better communication. So don't forget to communicate with her husband just because you're chatting with her.
Fourth: Meeting. If the communication goes well and both parties are satisfied, you'll naturally move to the real-world stage. Just because the other person agrees to meet doesn't mean you'll actually engage in this activity. Online communication and real-life interaction are different. Meeting in person is a crucial process for building real-world trust and goodwill. When meeting, dress formally to project a refined and sophisticated image. Avoid wearing outlandish clothing. Those who engage in this activity are usually stable, white-collar couples, and they naturally expect you to be like that.
Since you're engaging in this activity, don't be stingy. While this method is fun and trendy, it's also a matter of gentlemanly conduct. It's best to give the woman a gift when you meet, as couples who engage in this activity are generally older than you. It's not about the value of the gift, but about the overall impression.
It's best to meet in a public place to give the other person a sense of security, and preferably in the morning so you have ample time for real-life communication. You can start by inviting them to dinner; eating, chatting, and drinking are the simplest and most effective ways to communicate. After dinner, if there's time, you can invite them to do some activities, preferably in a relatively private setting, such as going to a karaoke bar or watching a movie. If the man is satisfied with you at this point, he might encourage you to spend more time with his wife, for example, by having her sit next to you during
the movie. Once the communication is mostly complete, you can move on to the practical stage. You can tentatively ask, "Where are you staying tonight?" Usually, at this point, the man will express his willingness, and you can then go to a hotel. The room should ideally be upscale, quiet, and safe, preferably one with a large bed.
Again, since you're going to have fun, don't be stingy; be generous. Most couples are older than you, and they won't expect you to pay for everything—that's only natural.
During caresses and intimate moments, a woman can receive caresses from two men. However, the presence of a man other than her husband can make her nervous. Caresses should help alleviate this nervousness and arouse her emotions. Don't rush into penetration. Initially, caress the woman together with her husband. There are many ways to do this; you can kiss her simultaneously, for example, the husband kissing his wife while you caress her breasts. A better approach is to lick the woman's genitals while her husband is caressing her; this can quickly arouse her. Remember, don't rush; arouse her emotions first.

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