[Repost] Partner Swapping Couples: Deeper Love, More Pleasurable Sex

First, transcending taboos deepens the bond

. One of the biggest taboos between couples is sexual infidelity. Sexual infidelity can deal a fatal blow to a traditional marital relationship. However, in the practice of shared-sex marriage, both partners challenge and transcend this biggest taboo together, breaking down the biggest obstacle affecting their relationship. The alliance built in the process of breaking the taboo together further elevates their feelings for each other.

Da Wei said that after practicing shared-sex marriage, "I feel that our marital relationship is better. Our relationship is more stable. Our affection and sense of responsibility are stronger. Because I don't have to worry about infidelity anymore, I've overcome this hurdle, and I've come to terms with it. Sex is just that."

After practicing partner swapping, Xiao Liu and his wife's relationship is much better than before. Xiao Liu said, "We used to argue frequently, but now we only argue once or twice a year." The trust between them has also increased incomparably. Xiao Liu said, "If my wife doesn't tell me something, she must have her reasons." Even sexual infidelity, which is usually considered the biggest secret between couples, has become public, so there's really nothing to worry about anymore.

Wang, an interviewee from Xi'an, shared a similar experience: "After having multiple sexual relationships, my marital relationship and sex life improved. Emotionally, she became more dependent on me, wanting to be with me for everything, even taking evening walks together. She misses me a lot when I'm not home. Sexually, things are better when we're together than when we were just the two of us; there's more sexual fantasy involved. However, it's not as good as when we're together as a trio."

Mr. Su and his wife were still discussing consanguineous relationships when interviewed, but this discussion itself had deepened their relationship: "I feel that discussing consanguineous relationships, imagining how to have one, and even putting it into practice, is irreplaceable in maintaining our passion and managing negative emotions." This is understandable, as the discussion itself is a process of jointly overcoming taboos, and usually a process of expressing love and emotional fidelity. When

Bengzi first started consanguineous relationships, he was idle. He said, "Back then, my girlfriend and I were idle every day, with nothing to do outside of work. I used to have many hobbies, a very wide range of interests. But she didn't like any of them, and spent all her time watching TV. So I could only stay home and surf the internet every day. For a while, our lives were just so boring."

It's clear that although they didn't argue at that time, there were problems in their relationship. After cohabitation, Bengzi said, "There were gains and losses." The gain was a closer emotional bond; the loss was that other hobbies faded, and cohabitation became the main theme of their lives, which he regretted. But in any case, Bengzi no longer felt that boredom.

Bengzi also said that when they were dating, his girlfriend was very "reserved," unwilling to express her thoughts directly, which was very different from his personality. After cohabitation, "Now, my wife has changed a lot, for example, she's not so reserved anymore, and she expresses her thoughts."

Bengzi said that for the spouse who is reluctant to cohabitate, it's important to actively guide them. Cohabitation has many advantages, such as: a stable family, a high safety factor, and physical safety; while visiting prostitutes can easily lead to diseases, cohabitation is much safer.

Witnessing others' infatuation with one's partner during group sex can also enhance one's own passion for that partner.

Xing Ge said, "Although I know she's beautiful and cute, seeing others like her so much, seeing others fascinated by her, further fuels my passion and appreciation for her." He explained, "Because being together for a while can become routine, but seeing others' enthusiasm for her, including comparing her to others, revitalizes my appreciation for her beauty and charm."

Xing Ge also mentioned that his partner's love for him during group sex deepened his understanding of her love for him. "Her thoughtfulness and loving expressions made me love her even more after the activity, and thinking of her filled me with even more affection. The day after the group sex, lying in bed reminiscing, I was mostly thinking about all the ways she showed me her love—it was so warm and blissful that I couldn't bear to sleep, indulging in this blissful experience. I didn't think about whether I had sex with others or its significance. I eventually fell asleep with a smile..."

Xing Ge believes that the depth of his relationship with his girlfriend is largely due to her ability to "practice many things I fantasize about with me," including group sex.

To prove the depth of their relationship, Xing Ge even provided an email from his girlfriend: "

You've suffered so much in the past, and God sent me to comfort you. All the suffering you endured was for waiting for me.

I will love you for life, forever. I feel so happy, how fortunate I am to have you love me. They didn't cherish me when they were with me, but you cherish me so much, I will never leave you."

Xing Ge said he was so happy; her appearance had completely changed his life: "She brought me so many new experiences that no one else has ever given me. I truly believe we will never be apart."

Xing Ge introduced his girlfriend to his circle of friends, happily talking about her, even proudly telling them, "Our love is exceptionally profound; we will be together for life."

Xing Ge said, "I don't treat her as a lover, but as a life partner. 'Lover' is a stigmatized word in this era, implying affection, but more importantly, sex, and also something fleeting. Some say that a lover relationship usually lasts a year, at best two years. In my experience, the best it lasts is a year; usually, three months is a major hurdle, and six months is another. But this time, I believe we can be together for life. Therefore, to describe our relationship as a lover feels like an insult to our feelings."

This profound affection is directly related to his girlfriend and Xing Ge's shared life together.

Female interviewee Lingling also clearly felt that her relationship with her boyfriend deepened after their threesome experience: "

This was my first time, and although it felt a little awkward and the dominant wasn't very good, overall it felt good. During the process, I felt relaxed and happy. Through prior communication and the tacit understanding between the dominant and dominant, our relationship deepened. The last barrier between us magically disappeared. Even afterwards, he would text me about my romantic encounters and show concern for me, which I found very thoughtful and warm. I could truly feel his care for me."

Professor Ma from Nanjing repeatedly emphasized that this was a "game," a "fun," and that "people without this level of understanding shouldn't engage in this kind of exchange." He said, "This is for relaxation; it shouldn't destroy a family."

After discussing cohabitation, Mr. Miao and his wife began searching for partners: "Although the success rate is low, both partners have a more tolerant understanding of sexual behavior, so they are naturally more cautious in their sexual actions. They will also promptly report their thoughts on sex to their spouses. If they were to have sexual relations with single men or women, there would certainly be no conflict, because the other person has a mature view on sexual choices, resulting in a higher starting point, higher quality, and greater safety. The couple is naturally irreplaceable; if their sexual views can be communicated, what else is incomprehensible? Harmony is naturally achieved."

The Happiness Village website once conducted an online survey of cohabiting couples, asking: Do you prefer sleeping alone or sleeping cuddled together? The results showed that 60% of participants felt comfortable sleeping cuddled together, 29% felt comfortable sleeping alone, and 11% felt comfortable sleeping either way.

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