I'd like to ask for advice from experienced people regarding my situation (this is my first post).

Let me tell you my true story; this is my first post.
My wife and I met online and after many years, we finally got married. I'm a 90s kid, and my wife is a few years older than me, born in the mid-80s, currently under 30, but her looks and figure are more like a 90s kid. She's 162cm tall and weighs 95kg, not very thin, and has a good figure. Although we've known each other for many years, we weren't always a couple. We officially became a couple a year ago.
My wife has a naturally outgoing personality and loves playing computer games. As everyone knows, women are the easiest to flirt with in games, so she has many online friends, and I was probably one of them back then. Although my wife has a lot of friends, she hasn't had many serious relationships over the years, and she's quite devoted; when she likes someone, she's very deeply in love. In the five years we've known each other, I only know that she's had three boyfriends.
The saying "women in their 30s are like tigers" is absolutely true; my wife's sex drive is incredibly strong. Every time we have sex, she's the one who initiates, and her favorite position is woman on top. Later, my wife confessed to me that in all her previous sexual encounters, she was the one who initiated things; she likes to be proactive. After we got married, my wife's libido became even stronger. Most importantly, my wife's oral sex skills are absolutely top-notch. To be honest, I've been with quite a few prostitutes, and my wife's oral sex skills are even more professional than theirs. I often praise my wife, saying she's a pro. The most amazing thing is that my wife can even do the "dragon drill" technique! Even among professional prostitutes, this is considered a unique skill, and my wife's technique is very proficient; she can lick for 5-10 minutes each time. Now, let me talk about myself. I used to have a lot of sexual experience because I'm fairly good-looking, so I've had quite a few relationships and have a relatively rich sexual history. However, the unspeakable problem is that my penis is particularly small. Although it gets very hard when erect, it's never reached 10cm at its longest… Plus, I masturbated frequently when I was younger, so I often experienced premature ejaculation. I feel like I've never satisfied my wife. Now, at most, we have sex once a night, and if I have morning erections, we have sex again, but it's completely insufficient to satisfy my wife. So I bought some vibrators and toys online, thinking I'd train my wife to use them herself. Turns out, my wife didn't need any training at all. She was thrilled when she saw the toys, saying she'd wanted to buy a vibrator for a long time but hadn't dared. That very night, she used it and even squirted twice before we had sex. I finished in a few minutes… but my wife was happy, saying, "Well, I've had my pleasure, so we've both had ours, which is good." Then she squirted again with the vibrator, soaking half the bed (this was the first time I knew my wife could squirt). Later, she confessed to me that she'd squirted with other men before, but she didn't tell me who.
Although my wife seems cheerful on the surface, there are many things she won't tell me unless I ask. In her own words, everyone has flaws in life, and she has a lot of them. Honestly, I still don't know what she means by "flaws." After we got married, I would subtly probe her about her past relationships and sexual experiences when we slept together. My wife didn't tell me anything at first; I had to ask her little by little to find out. I learned that in the five years since I met her, she's had at least five boyfriends, slept with each one, and had at least five one-night stands, plus several casual relationships. This is just the number I found out.
One thing I can't accept about my wife is that she never lets me look at her phone. She says everyone needs some privacy, and she won't look at mine either. However, I know she still contacts several male online friends, and sometimes I can see their chat history. She confessed to me that they're just online friends she's known for a long time, and they met occasionally before we got married, but they're just friends, nothing more. She won't show me their chat history, but I've secretly looked at her phone a few times, and the chats are indeed mostly trivial. Recently, my wife downloaded Momo (a dating app) and frequently accepts messages from strangers. Momo is constantly ringing at home. My wife even joked that Momo is a good thing. A couple of days ago, I secretly checked my wife's phone again and discovered she'd chatted with dozens of people on Momo (a Chinese social networking app). Most were simple flirtations, just a few casual words, but my wife responded very enthusiastically and proactively to each one. Only a few people chatted with her more, and those conversations were rather boring. However, one of them, who seemed to be a business trip here, chatted with my wife and asked her to go to the movies the next day. My wife actually agreed, saying she was free. I calculated that I was working the night shift that day and wouldn't be home. The next day, when the guy chatted with her again about going to the movies after work, she refused, saying she was just joking. This infuriated the guy, and they stopped chatting.
Dear experienced people, I love my wife very much and want her to be sexually happy. I really hope she can have sex with many strangers and reach orgasm. I enjoy watching my wife orgasm, but my own abilities are limited. My wife is probably the type that's relatively easy to train, right? I really hope some experienced people can give me some guidance. What I hope to achieve is that my wife can be successfully "trained," but she won't change her heart. Furthermore, I'm thinking that my wife isn't the type who's willing to tell me everything. I hope I can train her to be more outgoing and open with me. I'd appreciate any advice from experts! Thank you! This is my first post.

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