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The Causes of This Psychology (Reprinted) This is a very sensitive topic, as I myself have experienced this psychology and have discussed it with others on various online forums. I've discovered that many people share this mindset. Many are very confused but unable to break free from it. I hereby declare: I will only analyze social phenomena and psychological perceptions, without making any judgments or defining right or wrong, nor offering moral or legal guidance. Those interested can share their feelings; those who don't can simply move on. I will not accept any rebuttals or slander. Under normal circumstances, most people's attitude towards being cuckolded is one of resistance and disgust. However, in many couples today, especially middle-aged couples, some men not only do not resist but actually enjoy the feeling of being cuckolded, experiencing a strange impulse and excitement. What is being cuckolded? First, let's define it: being cuckolded is having another man, whether known or unknown, sleep with your partner, deriving a special kind of pleasure from it. Which couples exhibit this behavior? 1. Generally, middle-aged couples with a good relationship, minimal financial pressure, and few daily琐事 (trivial matters) seek a better sexual experience in their otherwise mundane married life, no longer worrying about infidelity or divorce. 2. This group typically consists of highly educated men with stable incomes. They have a more open-minded view of sex, no longer fixated on physical possession and fidelity, but instead aiming for more harmonious and stimulating sex, especially satisfying their wives' sexual needs. 3. Some men are busy with work, careers, or frequently travel for work, leaving their wives at home. This can express a lack of companionship, a desire to add color to their wives' lonely lives, or a wish to prevent their wives from having affairs. They may also establish relationships with other men to build connections with their wives. 4. Men with this mindset often experience difficulties in their sex life, gradually becoming unable to satisfy their wives' desires. Driven by a desire to avoid their wives' unfulfilled longing, or by a male desire for conquest, they seek out stronger men to conquer their wives, gaining a sense of conquest themselves. Fifth, another type of man might have had many past relationships with different women and experienced the sweetness of sex with various women. Out of a sense of compensation, or because his wife has only ever been intimate with him, he might encourage her to have relationships with other men to satisfy her growing libido and experience different kinds of sex. Sixth, yet another type of man might have a wife who is attractive, capable, and of good character and integrity. To avoid future regret over his wife's infidelity, he might as well have relationships with others while knowing, or perhaps out of a desire to show off and let others see his wife's charm. How does this develop? It usually begins with the man having this kind of mentality. If a woman has thoughts of having relationships with other men, she generally chooses to cheat and rarely tells her husband. After having such thoughts, the man usually experiences a period of psychological conflict, wondering why he has such disgusting and perverse thoughts, not knowing where they come from or how to explain them. But sexual psychology is strange and hidden. Whether it's driven by lust or curiosity, it's like a seed planted in one's heart, slowly fermenting. Each time it's thought of during marital life, a sense of excitement and stimulation gradually arises, and the desire to act on it grows stronger. So one day, an opportunity arises to bring up this idea to one's partner, especially during sex when the wife is overcome with passion. At this time, the wife's resistance to sex is extremely weak; when desire burns brightly, there is only longing, no resistance. Generally, when a woman hears her partner make such a request, she either thinks her man is perverted, finds it unbelievable, or feels he no longer loves her—in short, she will absolutely oppose it. But as long as there's an unfulfilled desire, there will always be a way to make it possible. So, through gradual persuasion and stimulation, the man slowly guides her into that emotional state until the woman gradually stops opposing or remains silent, silently accepting. When the time is ripe, he either actively seeks out someone or encourages his wife to find someone to have sex with. Once this happens the first time, subsequent encounters become natural. So, who does the first person usually seek out? For safety, health, and a pleasurable experience, people usually seek out acquaintances like friends, colleagues, or superiors, or strangers they know to some extent online. Acquaintances may already have ulterior motives and can easily do a favor. Strangers are also happy to oblige, so there's little risk involved. Men typically choose to participate alone or not at all the first time to avoid embarrassment, but once the first time is successful, subsequent encounters become much easier. For women, the first time usually brings a radical change in their understanding of sex, and they never imagined they would have such an experience. They become much more open sexually, yearning for and longing for that feeling, and it can become addictive, leading them to seek even greater stimulation. Generally, the first time a man sees his lover having sex with someone else, he feels both excited and bittersweet, yet he also enjoys it. How should we view this? The cuckoldry complex is essentially a path of no return. Whether unaware of this complex or after learning about it, driven by curiosity, many people enjoy the feeling and have a strong urge to act on it, openly or secretly searching for such people and planning such opportunities. This kind of thing usually doesn't mean the couple has lost love; rather, it means they love each other too much. It's a search for more enjoyment and excitement within a framework of complete trust. How should we interpret this? In today's society and with people's understanding of emotions, infidelity and extramarital affairs can no longer be controlled by marital fidelity or the constraints of marriage. There are far too many marital conflicts and divorces caused by distrust and infidelity; it's become a social problem, not just a personal one. It's no longer a moral or legal issue, but a matter of seeking emotional support and spiritual connection. Whether you agree or not, those high-energy individuals seem to be having a blast, and we seem to have gradually come to accept other people's behavior, as long as it doesn't happen to us. However, we all overestimate our partner's fidelity. And when it happens to us, we're always at a loss, often the last to know. Think about the people around you—how many haven't had someone else on the side? And would you choose to tell your partner? Therefore, in reality, the breaking of sexual constraints between the sexes is unstoppable, and open marriages are even accepted by some. Rather than one party secretly choosing unilateral infidelity, it's better to establish a more reasonable model for building a relationship. When the feelings between two people are still there, but sex is dull, and one party cannot satisfy their partner's physical needs, it's actually a torment for both. Choosing a way to mutually satisfy each other is also a sublimation of the relationship and sex life. Of course, this is not advocacy, because some people will never have this mindset, and some will never choose this approach. Because, with time, they may not be able to discover better ways for couples to get along. Some people cannot find such opportunities in reality because the chances of finding a match are too small; it's not something that can be openly chosen. Just like the stereotype that handsome and wealthy men are more likely to cheat, or beautiful and elegant women are more likely to cheat, this kind of labeling is far from the truth. If you do research, you'll find it's not like that at all. Such people are often more arrogant, have more demanding requirements, and have fewer choices in reality. Therefore, what we need to change is not the boundaries of what we do, but the balance in our perception and handling of relationships. However, please rest assured that this will never become a social trend. From the day it was born, it has been a niche activity. Some people enjoy it, while others scoff at it. It's like how many people believe in Buddhism, and many choose to become monks or nuns. But if everyone in the world became monks or nuns, would there be no one left? Far from being that many enlightened people; most people are still unable to escape worldly life. Social progress means allowing everyone to have their own choices, to choose their own lifestyle as long as it doesn't harm others and is voluntary. For example, adultery is no longer within the scope of the law; legal measures are only taken against forced or transactional sexual acts. Therefore, we will only discuss social phenomena and psychological perceptions, without judging right or wrong, without seeking acceptance, and simply allowing adults to choose what they can accept and what they believe is the best lifestyle.

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