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After starting my new job, I had two girlfriends. The first was my junior high school classmate, who was in university at the time, while I hadn't gotten into university, so her parents strongly opposed the relationship. We had some intimate moments, but she wouldn't let me touch her genitals.
During this period, I also had intimate moments with my boss's mistress. One morning, my boss asked me to pick her up from his mistress's house. She wasn't up yet, still lying in bed. I sat there and touched her; she didn't object. I was just servicing her, nothing more.
One day, we were in the company hallway, and I touched her again; she didn't object. Unexpectedly, this scene was recorded by a security camera, and the person recording the footage told my boss. My boss, in turn, told the parents of my girlfriend at work. After that, our relationship became very awkward. Feeling bored, I quickly left the company.
Now, about my girlfriend. We were originally very much in love. She was a virgin when we made love, and she had very conservative views. But then I met my future wife. She was from Beijing, her parents were vice-ministerial level officials, and her family was very wealthy, owning three apartments. I immediately realized that
marrying my wife because of her family's wealth was a golden opportunity for my career. I was determined to pursue business, but the opportunities in Shijiazhuang were limited. My future wife's family background would save me years of struggle and provide me with a comfortable life. So, I began pursuing her. For a considerable period, she rejected me, instead introducing me to one of her female classmates. I had marital relations with that girl a few times, but I didn't like her and continued pursuing my wife. Her classmate became jealous and spoke ill of her, causing trouble. I broke up with her. However, she never mentioned our past to my future wife, and I never admitted it to her either. My wife eventually accepted me, and I "married" into a family in Beijing, moving into an apartment befitting a high-ranking official, starting a new chapter in my life. Subsequent events proved my choice to be absolutely correct. That year, I was 25. My ex-girlfriend from Shijiazhuang had threatened suicide, and I felt some guilt, but I'm a very rational person and knew that career success was paramount, so I was resolute in our breakup. After I arrived in Beijing, she called a few times, but I coldly rebuffed her, and we lost contact after that. It's said she later became very promiscuous sexually, having sex with many men. My choice of marriage reveals my subsequent relationships with women. I've always been very rational and never let such things affect my career. My first affair after three years of marriage was with my wife's best friend. I had no other women in those three years. But seeing some married people around me with other women, I was very envious and fantasized about experiencing different women. My first extramarital affair was with my wife's friend. We had some opportunities to meet privately, got along very well, and slept together two or three times. I understand that sex is a way to strengthen friendships; it can enhance friendship. I felt a little guilty towards my wife, but not strongly, and it didn't affect my actions. Was I more worried about my wife finding out about sleeping with her friend? No, everyone would actually be more careful. The important turning point came after I returned to Shijiazhuang to start my company. At that time, I had started a company, with business activities mainly in Shijiazhuang. However, I made full use of my connections in Beijing, effectively facilitating interaction between the two cities and enabling my business to thrive. I frequently traveled between Beijing and Shijiazhuang, while my wife, who had already given birth, remained in Beijing. Therefore, I had considerable freedom when I was in Shijiazhuang, which provided ample opportunity for my extramarital affairs. The first woman I met after returning to Shijiazhuang was a client with whom I had a business relationship. I was renting a house in a residential area; the landlord was someone I knew through a friend, and he lived in the same neighborhood. Whenever my mistress visited, we would return very late, when fewer people could see us, and we would enter the house separately. My main concern at the time was that the landlord might see us and tell my friend, who was also close to my parents, and I was afraid he would tell. Looking back, I realize I was overthinking it; even if the landlord and my friend had seen us, it wouldn't have mattered, and they wouldn't have said anything, but I was still quite worried at the time. That woman's goal was to marry a foreigner, so she was only with me for fun and enjoyment. Later, she successfully married a wealthy foreigner. As a rational womanizer , I have my own principles when it comes to dating. I'm a very principled and rational person. I've never been in love with anyone, at most I've had some feelings, like for the girl I loved when I was sixteen, but that's extremely rare. I don't need the passion of romance. I experienced romance before marriage, so it doesn't appeal to me anymore, and I don't need it. I know clearly what I need now, what my goals are, and I won't stray from them. For me, the most important goals are family and career; everything else is just for fun. I love my wife very much, and I absolutely cannot allow anything to jeopardize my marriage and life. If I find any woman I've slept with showing signs of something amiss, I will very seriously warn her: "We're just friends, don't try to change my life because of this. This is the most important thing, this is my principle." I won't give them money or help them in other ways. We're just having fun together. I don't need a stable lover, for fear of affecting my family. My wife has also had doubts about my lifestyle, because when I was in Beijing I often came home very late. But I've repeatedly emphasized to her that it's only for the needs of entertaining clients; I don't like places like nightclubs, and I don't like hiring prostitutes. I'm usually very good to my wife, and especially good to my father-in-law and mother-in-law. I act very traditional, only caring about making money. They all like me and would never imagine that such a good husband and son-in-law would have so many extramarital affairs. I developed some feelings for my childhood sweetheart . The next woman was a girl I liked when I was seventeen or eighteen. She was divorced then, and we met again by chance, often chatting, and eventually slept together. For me, it was a psychological satisfaction, fulfilling a past dream; for her, it was probably a physical need. We didn't have a romantic relationship. She visited my rented apartment a few times. She also has her own place in the same neighborhood as her parents. I called her many times during the day to ask if I wanted to come over, but she always refused, probably worried about the neighbors seeing. A few times, especially late at night, she agreed to let me come over, but firmly refused to have sex or stay overnight. I think she was worried about her family seeing. The next woman was also a friend of my wife's. After we slept together, things were awkward when the three of us were together again. We were working on some business collaborations at the time, but the conflict between the two women became apparent. Their words were sharp and sarcastic, and they both told me they didn't like each other anymore. Maybe my wife had feelings for me. I felt this couldn't continue, so I ended the business collaborations and my relationship with her. I originally didn't dare hire prostitutes, afraid of getting caught by the police. But since my clients wanted them, I felt it wouldn't be right not to accompany them, especially since they were all in other cities. Beforehand, friends in the area had told us that the hotel we stayed at, run by a government department, was absolutely safe, and the police wouldn't investigate there. Besides, I had three days of sex with an online friend in another city. I also had an affair with a lead dancer at a bar I frequented. I only had one real sexual relationship with a subordinate at work. I was very clear that I shouldn't have sex with a colleague at work, but it happened without me realizing it; she was a divorced woman. She had an affair with me in the office and developed feelings for me. We tried our best to hide it from others, even putting on a show, such as attacking each other. I would say things like, "Why are you so ugly? You're so tall and strong, you don't look like a woman." Sometimes we would even show that we were nicer to other girls.

But things are still getting complicated. She's grown increasingly fond of me, and I've warned her not to get involved and not to fantasize about anything. Sometimes when I'm at home in Beijing, she'll suddenly call and say things like "I miss you." I'll respond with a harsh, cold tone, "Fine! That's enough! If you don't have anything else, just hang up!" At work, she sometimes shows a lack of respect for me. Other subordinates would come to me to talk to me, but she's called out to me from a distance a few times, which makes me very unhappy. I explicitly warned her, "If you continue like this, you're fired." After that, she toned it down, but I'll still fire her sooner or later.
Sleeping with an employee is dangerous; it will affect your career. She'll think she's a part-time boss's wife, and her behavior will definitely be inconsistent with her true role. I'm just an investor in this company. If the other investors find out, although they won't say anything, it will definitely affect my image. They'll think I'm giving her special treatment, even though I haven't given her any special treatment at all.
We investors are all very open-minded. We often go out together, go to bars, pick up girls, and if we succeed, we take them to hotels. We also have an unwritten rule: we can't touch our friends' wives, but we can all date each other's girlfriends. However, if they knew I kept a mistress at work, it would be a very bad thing. They might even think it would affect my ability to make rational judgments about work.
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've discussed other people's extramarital affairs with my wife, and I said I wouldn't easily do that; a stable family is essential for career development.
What attracts me most about picking up girls is the process itself. Picking up girls requires strategy, and succeeding gives you a sense of accomplishment. It requires understanding people; it's a comprehensive training of intelligence, physical strength, and social skills. It requires a good grasp of women's emotions and the ability to win them over in the shortest possible time. This proves that your temperament and image have been recognized by women; you are successful. Success should be reflected in every aspect. How can you do business if you can't pick up girls? The process of picking up girls is very similar to doing business; it also requires planning, showcasing your abilities, and getting the other person to accept you. This process is interesting, but once you succeed, the fun isn't guaranteed. For me, the enjoyment of picking up a girl is 50% the thrill of the chase itself, 40% to 45% the sexual stimulation, and only 5% to 10% the emotional need.
Picking up girls requires good personal qualities, a certain level of education, knowledge of literature and art, and an understanding of clothing, fashion, and even women's makeup. You need to be attentive, observing others' expressions and behaviors, and cultivating your own personal style—all of which help improve yourself. Picking up girls also requires a financial foundation and social standing, because eating, drinking, and having fun always cost money.
The first woman I picked up after arriving in Shijiazhuang was that business partner who came into the room earlier and later; she was somewhat helpful to my career. Picking up girls has never caused me any business losses.
I have a younger brother, and we exchange experiences about picking up girls, but I don't talk to him about the specifics—it's unnecessary. Besides, what if he doesn't like the woman I'm picking up? Wouldn't it be awkward to tell him? In my relationships with women, I'm 90% dominant and 10% accommodating. It's usually a mutual compromise.
My sexual fantasies include group sex, with several women serving me; I've never considered sharing women with other men indefinitely. I'd also like to try both sadomasochism and masochism. I'd also particularly like to try cross-dressing, but with a woman's cooperation; I want to experience the feeling of different genders.
My enthusiasm for picking up women remains unchanged from when I first started. The difference lies only in the individuals I'm interested in, not in the act of picking up women itself.

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