Repost! The heartfelt words of a couple!

I haven't been to 69 for about a year, and I won't go into the reasons. I simply noticed that there are very few quality clients on 69. Perhaps some of you will complain? Hold your tongue, let's address these points one by one.
First, why do couples sometimes seek out single men? Some say it's because of cuckoldry! Because of infidelity! Because the husband can't satisfy his wife and fears a family crisis! Because…
As adults, we all understand one principle: "To do something well, you must first have the right tools!" What does this mean? To do something well, you must be prepared and have a full understanding of what you're doing. If you don't understand this principle, I can only say it's no wonder that most people achieve nothing, always blaming bad luck and unfair fate. But in reality, it's their own ignorance that creates their miserable fate, meager income, and pitiful education.
Why do couples seek partners? There must be reasons, and that varies from person to person. Different circumstances and environments naturally lead to different motivations and needs. For example, some couples lose their initial passion because they've been together for too long and become too familiar with each other, and the hardships of time and life diminish their initial spark. Or, some couples develop a cuckolding mentality because the wife is beautiful—a strange psychological phenomenon, one I personally developed from this mindset.
What kind of psychology is this? Many people are curious, right? If your wife is beautiful, wouldn't you initially feel insecure? For example, during the courtship period? I don't need to guess, I know! Most people experience this period of insecurity, because of fear of loss, or possession, or... In short, everyone's situation is different, and naturally, their starting points are different as well.
Or, some husbands, over time, discover their potential as submissives, or some husbands reveal themselves to be severely submissive—it's hard to say, so communication is necessary.
Most couples, however, develop a series of strange thoughts due to "fatigue," some of which have already been put into practice, while others, after being bombarded by negative thoughts, decisively give up, eventually resorting to fantasies instead.
So, what is the ideal relationship between a couple? From the perspective of this game, it's actually disadvantageous for the married couple. Let's put it this way: how many men in the world would let you have your way with their wife for free? (Except for cuckolds). What about single men? High-quality singles are also at a disadvantage, because they are indeed high-quality, so they certainly don't lack female friends. At least, the high-quality singles I know don't lack female friends.
Since they don't lack female friends, they must have a need to engage in singles, so they are often more passive in relationships with married couples. When they encounter good couples, the activities are more enjoyable.
Couples looking for singles have idealized expectations, such as large size, good performance, long duration, cultured, and gentlemanly. But what's the reality? Most are small-sized, and there are even those who ejaculate prematurely in the couples' dating circle. Not only are they bad in performance, but they're also incredibly dull. To all you singles who use the slogan of "quality," please put your hands on your conscience and feel the pain in your hearts.
I'll slowly reveal the oddballs I've encountered. First of all, most of the people who add me on QQ are at least somewhat decent at first; they'll at least say hello. Then they get straight to the point: "How old are you and your spouse? Do you have experience? Can you send me a picture of your wife?" For such idiots, I promptly block them.
And then there are those who add me on QQ and immediately ask, "Are you looking for big-time 'dicks'?" I say yes! They immediately say, "That's me! I'm coming to your area next week, let's meet up!" I panic. Are we that close? Do you know what our needs are? Do you know how we're going to play? Do you know how the game goes? After bombarding them with these questions, they reply, "Just tell me and you'll know." I promptly block them.
I really wanted to curse, but I held back. Do most of you singles not even have a few hundred yuan for a "tea party"? Stingy, but not to the point of being so hard on yourself! So, I'm sorry, we're a couple looking for friends, not a couple running a garbage dump. Garbage sorting has begun!
Either you clearly state your requirements for finding a single man, but the person adding you will still ask again, "What are your requirements?" Don't you have this option in your work settings? I'd block them immediately. People who don't think things through generally only have a 5% chance of getting things done; it's all about luck.

If I were doing the job, I'd do it this way:

First, when I see couples posting dating ads, they usually include standards and requirements. I carefully read the requirements and standards several times, then assess whether I meet them. If I do, I add them on QQ, make a note, and then copy and paste their needs and requirements into a new folder, clearly labeling their QQ names. This way, they can roughly understand the other person's information and requirements just by looking at their QQ name. By doing the groundwork, the success rate is basically 30%.

Second, after adding the couple, I'm polite. If they're not friendly, I respond politely too. Meeting is fate. If you're destined to sleep with someone's wife, it's normal to feel uncomfortable or jealous; you need to understand how to put yourself in their shoes. In QQ communication, be prepared for a long-term battle. Good fortune often favors the last one who perseveres. This applies to starting a business, dating, and virtually anything.

Third, during chats, try to engage in conversations with the couple as much as possible. This helps you effectively understand their life situation and background, and gradually learn about their likes and dislikes. Interpersonal relationships are simple: talk about what others like, and everything will be fine. Those who don't understand this basic principle likely do manual labor and don't have frequent contact with people.

Fourth, avoid steer the conversation towards sex. Many illiterate people find this difficult to grasp. Why? For example, if someone immediately talks to you about money, wouldn't you be wary? It's self-evident. Talk about life. The purpose of friendship is to make life better and happier. If you approach friendships with strong utilitarian or purposeful motives, you generally won't have many close friends.

Fifth, proactively introduce your life, work, and emotional status. In other words, clearly tell the other person that you can do whatever you want, but you have your own life. I'm showing you my life, and it depends on whether we're on the same social class and can get along. Why do I say this? Remember, birds of a feather flock together. This isn't meant to belittle anyone, it just means that if you're in different circles, you can't force yourself to fit in. If you don't understand what they're saying, or they consider what you say to be low-class, then you'll have nothing to talk about, and how will you conduct yourself when you meet? The same applies to couples. Don't make things awkward for yourself. Everyone likes someone with money, but the prerequisite is that you must also be wealthy.

Sixth, sincerity. Many singles claim to be sincere, but after a few words, you'll find that they don't understand the meaning of sincerity at all. Or rather, they don't even understand the literal meaning of sincerity. Sincerity = frankness, honesty. What does that mean? Gradually, you'll understand it for yourself.

Seventh, quality, or rather, refinement. Good manners are the most basic thing a person should have, but true refinement can influence or move an individual or even a group. Refinement isn't just something you talk about; it's something that can't be hidden by appearances. Your every word and action reveals it. Trying to fake it? It's very difficult, because any feigned refinement will gradually be exposed upon first meeting or after prolonged communication. True refinement and kindness, ingrained in one's character, are given by one's parents from childhood.

Eighth, self-introduction. This is not the kind of self-introduction you might expect. Many job postings are like this, which I immediately block; I can't be bothered to even look at them. For example, 30/170/60. Sorry, I'll throw such a "resume" in the trash without hesitation. A proper self-introduction, even without mentioning your name, should at least be relevant to the situation. For example, where you're from, where you currently work, what company you work for, whether you have any experience in activities, your relationship status, any special hobbies, your personal qualities (duration, size), if you've participated in activities, how you participated, what your thoughts were, your story, etc. You can speak freely, allowing the couple to get a comprehensive understanding of you immediately, in other words, reducing a lot of unnecessary small talk. If the couple really wants to participate in activities, then your resume will undoubtedly stand out from the crowd. Even if it doesn't stand out, it will still leave a deep impression, and it's only a matter of time before they want to participate in activities with you.

Even a fisherman can endure hardship, so what can't you endure?

Ninth, honesty! In other words, every word you say should correspond to your own reality, not be drastically different.

For example, I once met a client who said his penis was thick, and coincidentally, my wife's is also thick. He said it didn't matter if it wasn't long. I asked him to send me a picture, which he did. Perhaps it was the angle of the picture, but after we met, ate, and chatted, we went to the hotel, took off our pants, and saw... without saying a word, my wife and I got dressed and left. Perhaps some self-righteous people will condemn us? Sorry! We came here to relax and find excitement, not to settle. I won't settle. I think there are quite a few people with the same temper as me, right? Why shatter a beautiful relationship because of a lie?

Tenth, proactively provide physical examination reports, such as HIV, urine tests, blood tests, etc.

Eleventh, proactively offer to pay for the activity. Generally, if a client offers, I say we'll split the cost. Because I don't like sharing a room with strangers at night, and the activity room is booked separately for each couple, with the activity taking place in a single room.

I once met a client who was quite funny. "You don't even have money for a room? What are you doing out here?" Last May, I was on a business trip out of town. I added a guy on QQ, and we chatted fairly well. I suggested that when I got back to Kunming, we could have some fun that night, and he agreed. That night, I arrived at Changshui Airport around 11 PM. My wife picked me up; I had been on a plane for a full six hours and was exhausted. I was about to cancel, but then I thought it wouldn't be right. A person should keep their word. So I contacted him and told him our hotel. He said he probably had to leave that night. I asked, "It's already 11 PM, where are you going? Get some rest after your activities. It's not safe to go out so late."

He said he had something to do the next morning. I was puzzled, but I didn't say much; it's not good to comment on other people's business. I said, "Okay, you go to the hotel first, book a room, and then we'll go. I'll change and take a shower." He asked me, quite surprised, "Wasn't it you who booked the room? Wasn't it you who booked the room? Wasn't it you who booked the room?" My hand holding the phone trembled slightly!

Later, I explained in more detail, saying, "Okay, you book the room for the event. If that's not possible, we'll split the cost! You book it, I'll pay 400, you pay 400, is that alright?" He made a series of excuses, saying he had things to do the next morning, worried about staying out too late, and so on. I figured I couldn't force him, so I let it be. I was tired anyway, so I decided to get some rest. Then

came the climax: the next morning, he bombarded me with QQ messages, around 7:30 AM, asking, "Have you arrived yet? Is he coming over now?" I was puzzled, "Why are you coming over?" He said, "For the event!" I said, "Okay, when you get here, tell me your room number, we'll grab some breakfast and come over." I even specifically asked if he needed me to buy him some; logically and personally, I felt I'd done enough.

However, he surprised me again, saying, "I'll just come straight to your room!" I said no, but he kept pleading. First, I thought it was pointless for a man to say such things over something so trivial. Second, I'm not fixated on a room; I can pay 800-900, but shouldn't you learn to respect people? Even if you're really strapped for cash, you should be honest. If you just told me the truth, I could understand; we're all just trying to have fun. In the end, there was no real resolution. I said, "Let's just forget it. Let's not make things difficult for each other." That's why I said earlier, different circles can't be forced together!

Before I knew it, I was typing until the early hours of the morning. Time to rest!

Finally, I'm also looking for a well-mannered client, preferably with a large penis! Looks aren't a requirement. If you find someone suitable, feel free to contact me and we can communicate slowly. Please don't bother me if you're in a rush or desperate.

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