Young people with low libido

I recently saw a term online called "pure sex," which refers to two people booking a hotel room together but not having sex; they simply sleep together.
Behind this phenomenon, what's most thought-provoking is that more and more young people are beginning to live a life of "non-possession." They need less and less material possessions, their inner desires are diminishing, and they've lost strong interest in everything. They can give up things, break relationships, and even leave people behind; they don't even want sex anymore. All they need is care and warmth, and whether that care comes from a stranger or an acquaintance seems unimportant. They increasingly prefer simple, low-involvement emotional relationships, and thus, sexual frigidity is becoming the norm for some weary young people.
People often ask: "Is there ever a moment when you feel particularly lonely?"
I heard this answer: "Waking up from a nap at home around six or seven in the afternoon, when it's getting dark, and the room is pitch black and completely silent, you feel like the whole world has abandoned you. Loneliness is vividly displayed at that moment."
After reading this, it's impossible not to empathize. Loneliness has become the norm for single young people living alone. Perhaps everyone has moments of profound loneliness in their lives.
Perhaps it's when you're eating alone and feel the urge to use the restroom but are too afraid to
go; when you're rushing home alone on the last bus every day;
when you open your bedroom door and find the room silent and empty;
when you want to cry but dare not call your family for fear of worrying your parents;
when you pick up your phone to talk to someone on WeChat but can't find anyone...
Living alone for a long time, they find themselves increasingly disliking social interaction. If you don't contact others, they won't contact you either. Gradually, life loses its surprises and unexpected joys.
They're too lazy to post on social media, don't want to socialize, and are unwilling to express their inner thoughts. They rush between home and work on weekdays and stay home on weekends. The most frequent shopping destination is the supermarket downstairs, and they want to be glued to their bed all day...
There's a popular internet saying that many young people today are "sexually frigid," and the most direct manifestation of this frigidity in young people living alone is that they're even too lazy to date!
Data shows that there are currently over 200 million single adults in China, including 77 million adults living alone. I feel they must have the idea of growing old together with someone, and also be prepared to grow old alone, but they aren't enthusiastic about dating; they'll just let things take their course.
I once had a late-night chat with a client friend I'm close to, and we discussed loneliness. She said, "When I'm busy, I don't feel anything, but if I suddenly have free time, the feeling of loneliness seems to pierce the depths of my soul." "
You know, some people seem to have plenty of social interaction on the surface, but in reality, they don't even have anyone to remind them to drink more water. Once, I was sick with a fever of 39 degrees Celsius, and my head was constantly dizzy. I had to get up myself to boil water and take medicine. I wanted to make a phone call, but I didn't know who to call. At that time, I thought, 'If only I could be in a relationship, or even just have a dog or a cat, I would feel so much better with just a dog or a cat to keep me company!'"
But if someone actually arranged a blind date for her, she would immediately refuse: "It's really unnecessary. I'm perfectly fine living alone!"
It's clear that young people these days don't not want to date; they're just too lazy to invest in a relationship.
"I only want to enjoy living alone, I'm unwilling to invest in a relationship, and even less willing to bear the risks that come with marriage and children."
"Love is no longer a necessity in a person's life, and neither is having children."
Recently, renowned dancer Yang Liping was criticized by netizens for saying, "A life without children is incomplete." This netizen was subsequently refuted: "Who says a woman's value needs to be reflected through marriage and childbirth?"
Being a virtuous wife and mother is one choice; being charming and then choosing solitude is another. Stereotypes about women have always existed in every era.
Many people generally believe that women should marry and have children by a certain age, and those older women who remain unmarried are invariably labeled "leftover women." The label of "leftover" is unpleasant for anyone. However, nowadays, more and more women are becoming more aware. They don't care about external stereotypes and follow their hearts in everything they choose, and the same goes for men.
Some people don't have children, some don't get married, and some don't even want to date...
Both men and women can earn a lot of money, support themselves, and have the means to improve themselves, travel, and broaden their horizons. They can live very well on their own. For them, relationships are a luxury, not a necessity.
With so many people in the world, the probability of meeting the right person is incredibly low. The denominator is so vast that the numerator seems insignificant. What we need to do is wait. If we find someone, great; if not, we can still live freely and easily.
Some people date to avoid loneliness, but once you learn to be alone, you'll find that enjoying life is more important than finding a partner—doing what you love, doing what you can handle, choosing the path you want to take...
I hope everyone who takes life seriously will be treated gently by this world. May you not dwell on the past, not fear the future, cherish every moment of the present, and live the life you truly desire.

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