Cohabitation outside of marriage

Beauty consultant Yanzi, when recounting her relationship with Taiwanese engineer Li Xifeng, repeatedly said "it's natural," implying that it happened naturally or logically.
The reporter noticed that whenever she emphasized "natural," it often coincided with a significant turning point in their relationship—
three months prior, one evening, Yanzi finished dinner, feeling melancholic and bored. She had just broken up with her boyfriend, and in the early stages of heartbreak, she likely felt melancholic and bored. In this state of mind, she went online and entered a chat room.
"Hi, hello. I'm really annoyed today, could you share a little bit of your good mood with me?" Yanzi asked the first person she encountered.
"I yelled at an employee at work today, which ruined my mood. Anyway, I'm annoyed too."
"Looks like we're in the same boat. If you're in Shenzhen, let's chat."
“Okay, I’m at Tianan Digital City right now. Looks like you’ll have to buy me drinks.” “I didn’t say that. We can always split the bill.”…
Hearing this, the reporter couldn’t help but ask, “You and he only met online for the first time, and you’re already meeting up? Isn’t that a bit abrupt? At least it doesn’t seem to be in the best safety condition.”
Yanzi said that since they shared the same feelings and were in the same city, it was natural for them to sit down and chat.
But when they met at the agreed-upon coffee shop, Yanzi felt a little nervous. The person in front of her was quite unusual. First of all, he was a man, very tall, easily over 1.8 meters, and looked to be around 35 or 36 years old, but his long hair was almost entirely white, and it was naturally white, not bleached. His eyes and expression, hidden beneath the white hair, were unfathomable.
“Could I have run into a bad guy?” A strange thought even flashed through her mind. Fortunately, her unease was quickly replaced by goodwill and curiosity.
Because the other person was not only well-spoken and polite, but also frank and humorous, especially his Taiwanese-accented Mandarin, which, although not fluent, inspired trust.
They hit it off immediately and got along very well. Of course, when it came time to pay the bill, they didn't split the bill; they only drank a bottle of Great Wall dry red wine, a 1985 vintage, costing 300 yuan. Li Xifeng said that if they split the bill, the wonderful aftertaste of the dry red wine would be diminished.
They then met twice more, both in the evening, and Yanzi made two more discoveries about this Taiwanese man. The first discovery was when he laughed. Li Xifeng rarely laughed, but that day he couldn't help but laugh when he talked about something happy.
Yanzi was surprised: "Because my ex-boyfriend's laugh is exactly like his." She also found Li Xifeng to be a decent person; although they both had subtle feelings for each other, he didn't make any flirtatious words or actions.
That day, when they talked about life in Taiwan, Li Xifeng said, "I was married before, and then divorced..." Then they fell into a long silence.
After dinner, Yanzi said she was a little tired, and Li Xifeng suggested she get a foot massage to relax. It was already late at night when they left the foot massage parlor.
Li Xifeng asked where there was a hotel, and Yanzi helped him get a room, where they rested for a while. She didn't check out until noon the next day.
"How long have you known each other since your first date?" the reporter asked Yanzi. She said about a week. "Don't you think the distance from online to hotel is a bit too short?" she countered. "If both of you feel the connection is there, wouldn't it be natural to be together?"
That morning, Li Xifeng had to go to work on time, so he left without waking Yanzi. After lunch, Li Xifeng called, and Yanzi said, "Oh, right, I still owe you the 200 yuan hotel deposit." Li Xifeng quickly said he wasn't calling about the 200 yuan, and that she could use the money for food.
It seems Li Xifeng has long-term plans for their relationship. “It’s inconvenient for you and your colleague to share a room. Why don’t you find a nicer place somewhere between our commutes? That way, it won’t be so difficult for us to see each other. Of course, I’ll pay the rent.” Yanzi accepted Li Xifeng’s suggestion and quickly found a room. For the first month, Li Xifeng often stayed there.
Soon, Yanzi noticed something was off about Li Xifeng. After careful observation, she discovered a secret: Li Xifeng always turned off his phone when he stayed there.
Later, he changed his schedule, coming every two days and leaving around 11 or 12 at night. Yanzi was determined to uncover the secret.
That day, the temperature was very high; you’d be drenched in sweat after just a few steps on the street. That evening, Li Xifeng wanted to shower as soon as he entered, and Yanzi handed him a bottle of shower gel. This shower gel had a long-lasting fragrance that wouldn’t wash off for days. At midnight, Li Xifeng said he had arranged to have late-night snacks with some clients and almost forgot. He then got dressed and left.
For the next two days, Yanzi tried calling Li Xifeng, but his phone was off. On the third day, Yanzi still hadn't called, but Li Xifeng came by himself.
He said dejectedly, "That night when I got home, my wife smelled the perfume on me and immediately accused me of having an affair..." Yanzi said, "Wait, wait, didn't you say you were divorced? How come you have a wife now?"
Li Xifeng said, "I'm sorry, I was indeed divorced, but I remarried later." Yanzi immediately became angry: "Why did you only say you were divorced and not remarried? Isn't that lying?"
Yanzi said she would never be a homewrecker and wanted to break up with Li Xifeng immediately. Li Xifeng offered Yanzi some compensation, but Yanzi said the wounds in her heart could never be healed, and then resolutely told Li Xifeng to leave her home immediately.
However, only a week later, Yanzi called Li Xifeng. She had discovered she was over a month pregnant. In other words, their first one or two encounters had already caused her health problems.
The reporter was puzzled: "You're both educated adults. Cohabitation before marriage is already inappropriate. Since you're together, you should have taken basic precautions."
She said Li Xifeng, in pursuit of the feeling, didn't like using sex toys and instead made her take medication, which might not have worked. The reporter said, "You two are complete strangers, knowing nothing about each other. Just for the sake of preventing disease, you should have used sex toys; it's common sense for everyone." She said, "People in love sometimes skip complicated procedures for the sake of the feeling."
Li Xifeng's attitude was clear: "If I get pregnant, I'll just get rid of it." Yanzi said, "Do you think this is an inanimate object that you can just take off and put on? Have you considered what consequences it will have on my body if I take it off?"
Finally, they agreed that Li Xifeng would give Yanzi 100,000 yuan as compensation for her physical harm, and they signed a written agreement. However, more than ten days passed, and Li Xifeng still hadn't fulfilled his promise. His wife also came out and asked Yanzi to let Li Xifeng go.
Several face-to-face confrontations between the two sides yielded no results. Yanzi then consulted a lawyer. The lawyer said that the agreement they signed was not a contract and might not have legal effect in court.
To make Li Xifeng take responsibility, the only way was for her to give birth to the child and have a DNA test prove it was his, thus forcing him to take responsibility. Yanzi was at a loss.
Hearing this, the reporter was surprised: cohabitation before marriage and pregnancy already constitute infidelity; as the lawyer suggested, wouldn't having an unmarried child be compounding the error, a self-destructive act?
The reporter believed that during their relationship, Li Xifeng concealed his marital status, induced Yanzi to cohabitate, and caused the consequences; he should at least be punished by moral judgment.
Yanzi should also learn a lesson: in important matters, one cannot simply "let nature take its course"; rational thinking and pragmatic questioning are the only viable solutions.

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