Essential Sex Education for Men: Things You Need to Know

With the popularization of sex education, many people are gaining a deeper understanding of sex. However, this understanding primarily comes from the internet, making it easy to inadvertently fall into common sexual misconceptions. Today, we'll share some common sexual knowledge (for men) to help you learn more.

1. Male orgasm ≠ ejaculation; ejaculation is just one manifestation of orgasm.

2. Because of point 1, some people, such as pre-pubescent teenagers (and adults), may experience orgasm without ejaculation.

3. Similarly, there are also cases of ejaculation without orgasm.

Explanation: During prostate orgasm, many men do not ejaculate; when a man's prostate receives an electric shock, he will ejaculate, but will not experience orgasm, or even pleasure.

4. Starting in puberty, male orgasmic responses become more diverse, including laughter, crying, talking excessively, and rapid breathing, and these often continue throughout life.

Explanation: Whether you admit it or not, most people's sexual activity patterns are initially established during puberty and are difficult to change later.

5. Pre-pubescent boys reach orgasm much faster than adults, but they have the ability to achieve repeated orgasms within a short period, especially males aged 10-15.

6. Regarding the previous point, from an age perspective, the duration of male erections follows an "n"-shaped trend, peaking around 25-30 years old, but the rate of repeated ejaculation steadily declines.

Explanation: Simply put, if measured by the duration of a single sexual encounter, men aged 26-30 are the most "capable"; if measured by the number of times per night, younger boys are the most "capable." Data

: Under 16 years old, the average number of erections per week is 13.6, each lasting 12.0 seconds, with a repeated ejaculation rate of 20% (highest).

26-30 years old, the average number of erections per week is 16.4, each lasting 53.1 seconds (highest), with a repeated ejaculation rate of 9.1%.

7. Human men primarily achieve orgasm through six pathways: masturbation, nocturnal emission, heterosexual caressing, heterosexual intercourse, homosexual behavior, and animalistic behavior.

8. A small minority have never experienced any of these, while a very small minority have experienced all of them.

Data: In a survey of 11,809 people, 2.2% had never used any of these methods, 18.4% used one, 32.4% used two, 29.5% used three, 14.3% used four, and 0.3% used six.

9. On average, all men ejaculate more than twice per week.

10. Of course, individual differences are vast; some men ejaculate once a year, while others ejaculate 30 times a week.

11. This is related to physiology, psychology, environment, and culture. Physical strength ≠ sexual arousal ≠ being sexually active.

Explanation: Therefore, don't worry about your boyfriend being overly sexually active and affecting his health; men's potential is greater than you imagine.

12. Masturbation generally refers to "any form of self-stimulation that can produce sexual arousal."

13. From this definition, masturbation ≠ masturbation, and an infant touching their own genitals is neither "masturbation" nor "masturbation."

Explanation: This distinction is significant for two reasons: 1. We should stop using "masturbation" or "masturbation" to describe infants touching their own genitals, as this can lead to public misunderstanding. 2. Masturbation usually refers to using the hand, while masturbation is not limited to using the hand.

14. Men often learn masturbation by observing others, while women more often discover masturbation methods independently.

15. Masturbation absolutely does not affect people's sexual interactions in society. Of course, like everything, including drinking water, excess can affect life.

16. For single men, masturbation is the most frequent form of sexual release, and many married men still masturbate.

Explanation: Masturbation is a cross-cultural and cross-age behavior, but many people still consider it "disgusting" or "dirty."

Data: Among single men under 16, the incidence of masturbation was 85.4%, declining thereafter, but still reaching 53.8% even at age 46-50.

17. There's a widespread belief that "men have a limited number of ejaculations": frequent masturbation or sexual activity in youth leads to inability to perform later in life. This is not true.

18. On the contrary, data shows that men who experience masturbation or related activities earlier are more likely to maintain a higher frequency of sexual activity throughout their lives.

19. Conversely, if someone starts sexual activity later, or even deliberately reduces their frequency in hopes of a better sex life in adulthood, they are less likely to achieve satisfactory results later in life.

Explanation: Therefore, experience it when you should.

Data: This part of the data is difficult to describe in words. The author found that among boys under 16, those who experienced sexual release earliest (under 11) had twice the frequency of sexual release as those who experienced it later (15.5 years or older). Comparing by education level, we found that those with less than nine years of schooling averaged 5.1 times, those with high school 4.2 times, and those with university 3.3 times. In the 16-30 age group, those who started early had a 43%-54% higher frequency of sexual activity than those who started late. Until around age 35, about 25 years after puberty, those who started early had a 60% higher frequency than those who started late.

20. The frequency of sexual release in the elderly decreases sharply after age 56, but half of those aged 71-75 still engage in sexual activity.

21. Besides physiological reasons, impotence in the elderly is mostly due to psychological reasons.

Explanation: We seem to assume that women over 50 and men over 60 no longer have sex, let alone pay attention to their sexual activity.

22. People generally believe that couples with lower levels of education have the most extramarital sex; in fact, highly educated people have more extramarital sex.

23. However, highly educated people have less premarital sex.

24. Furthermore, regardless of whether it's before or after marriage, highly educated individuals engage in more masturbation.

25. However, the overall number of sexual releases among highly educated individuals is lower than among those with lower education levels. This proves the earlier conclusion that those with lower education levels have more premarital sex.

Explanation: These four sentences are a bit convoluted, so simply put: Higher education = Higher infidelity = Lower premarital sex = Fewer sexual activities.

Data: Ignoring age and considering only education level, 67% of men with a university education engaged in premarital sex, 84% with a high school education, and 98% with less than a high school education. Additionally, those with less than 12 years of schooling had the highest proportion of sexual releases with their wives (95.5%), while those with a university education had the lowest proportion (61.9%).

26. Same-sex sexual behavior is more common than we imagine, and it has a high incidence in certain professions.

27. Many people believe the homosexual community has increased, but this may actually be due to a more open and diverse society, where previously unacknowledged homosexuals are now more willing to express themselves.

Explanation: "Picking up the soap" is a joke from prison.

28. Same-sex sexual behavior ≠ homosexuality. In fact, many men will have some form of same-sex sexual experience at some point in their lives.

29. In fact, same-sex sexual behavior is not only present in humans, but also commonly found in many animals, such as penguins and monkeys.

Explanation: The so-called "experience of same-sex sexual behavior" includes things like comparing who has bigger penises or imitating sexual positions.

30. Some people believe that sex is closely related to morality, therefore they consider "premarital sex" immoral.

31. Similarly, some believe that sex should conform to natural laws and the balance of Yin and Yang. Therefore, masturbation and homosexuality are unnatural, while premarital sex is understandable to them.

32. People from every social class firmly believe that their own sexual behavior is the best in the world, and each class also embellishes its sexual behavior in its own unique way. This is why you see both those who insist on virginity and those who oppose it having their own reasons.

Explanation: The internet further exacerbates the conflict between these ideas. When promoting a concept, it is always met with various questions. Even when we take it for granted, we often think, "What kind of sex education do people really need?"

1. Question: I always feel that my penis is short?

Answer: Penis size is not absolutely important. Surveys show that the average length of an erect penis in young and middle-aged Chinese men is 11.2 centimeters, far exceeding the needs of female sexual desire. Therefore, there's no need to worry about penis length during sexual activity. Build confidence, strengthen emotional communication, and pay attention to sexual techniques.

2. Q: Are there any ways to enhance sexual ability in daily life?

A: The most basic thing is to lose weight and exercise more, especially strengthening leg muscles. Secondly, quit smoking, which helps improve blood flow to the sexual organs. Limiting alcohol intake and maintaining a healthy diet are also crucial. If these don't help, don't use supplements indiscriminately, and definitely don't undergo penis enlargement surgery. Currently, there are no methods for penis enlargement without side effects. Please consult a doctor at a reputable hospital for a solution.

3. Q: I used to masturbate frequently, but now I feel a bit weak. What should I do?

A: Masturbation doesn't directly affect sexual function, so don't worry excessively. However, excessive masturbation is harmful to the body. Frequent masturbation or holding back ejaculation can easily lead to prostatitis. Therefore, control the frequency of masturbation, generally once a week is sufficient, and exercise appropriately to strengthen your physique.

4. Q: I can only last 3 minutes while masturbating. Is this premature ejaculation?

A: Premature ejaculation is a relatively common urological condition, but its definition is still controversial. It's generally assessed by the man's ejaculation latency (<1 minute) or whether the woman can achieve orgasm during intercourse. However, both are affected by factors such as age, physical condition, and emotional changes. During masturbation, fear of being discovered or the intensity of stimulation can objectively lead to premature ejaculation. Therefore, masturbation time cannot accurately determine the speed of ejaculation during actual intercourse, let alone whether one has premature ejaculation.

5. Q: Are there any methods to prolong intercourse time for premature ejaculation?

A: Treatment for premature ejaculation should not only focus on the length of intercourse, but more importantly, on increasing the sexual satisfaction of both partners. A complete sexual experience includes foreplay, vaginal intercourse, and afterplay. Studies show that the optimal duration of vaginal intercourse is 7-13 minutes. During sexual intercourse, both partners should be in a pleasant mood and prolong foreplay, such as through light kisses, caresses, and emotional exchange, providing rich and gentle stimulation to fully arouse the woman's "resonance" and increase the frequency of orgasms. This is far more effective than monotonous thrusting movements within the vagina. Additionally, changing positions appropriately can delay ejaculation, such as the woman-on-top or side-lying position, but care should be taken to reduce the range of motion and avoid excessive speed that could lead to a decrease in stamina.

6. Question: What behavioral therapies can help me?

A: Behavioral therapy is an effective and important method, among which the penile squeeze method is the most commonly used. First, lubricant can be used, and the wife can exercise the husband's penis until the feeling of impending ejaculation appears. Immediately stop pressing and pull the testicles downward and backward 2-3 times. After the feeling of ejaculation disappears, massage again 3-4 times. Second, during sexual intercourse, after the feeling of ejaculation appears, the wife should immediately grasp the coronal sulcus of the penis with her whole hand and squeeze it firmly, while using her other hand to pull the husband's testicles. After 20-30 seconds, the feeling of ejaculation will completely disappear, and then the above training can be repeated.

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