What kind of wife should one marry to show sincerity?

Beautiful, virtuous, gentle, open-minded, passionate, capable… almost every man hopes to marry a wife who embodies all these virtues.
What a wonderful and enjoyable thing that would be!
Imagine a perfect woman falling from the sky into your arms. Is it really that blissful? That's hard to say. This isn't just sour grapes; there's a reason behind it.
If you marry an extremely beautiful wife—fair skin, delicate features, full hips and breasts, graceful figure—you'd be quite worried. As the saying goes, everyone loves beauty. Everyone likes anything beautiful and lovely. By extension, men like any attractive woman. A beautiful flower inevitably attracts bees and butterflies. A beautiful woman naturally attracts men who want to pursue her. These days, a man's womanizing isn't shameful; some even glorify it as, "A man's lust is a heroic nature." Thus, lustful men become emboldened. Driven by desire, these ambitious "heroes" use their positions, money, emotional manipulation, or even violence to launch a relentless pursuit of beautiful women. And indeed, how many women can resist such entanglement? It's often said that a wife who is too beautiful is not truly one's wife. This is not an exaggeration.
If you marry a very virtuous wife, the daily grind of cooking, raising children, caring for the elderly and young, and doing laundry and cooking can be incredibly tedious. Most men prefer women who do housework, but if a man marries a woman who is too capable at housework and becomes an "idle" in the home, he completely loses his sense of support. A man who takes on too much housework is certainly a bad man, but a man who never does housework is definitely not a good man. That's why people say men are so easily swayed. Initially, a man might feel immense gratitude for being waited on hand and foot. Over time, it becomes a habit, and the wife ceases to be a wife, becoming a nanny, a maid, a servant. What are the consequences of a marital relationship transforming into a master-servant one?
Imagine marrying a very gentle wife—a clingy, submissive, and obedient woman. It can become utterly tiresome. A man's love for a woman is like clothing and food. Stylish clothes worn every day lose their novelty. Delicious dishes eaten daily lose their appeal. Few men are not drawn to women who are gentle and tender. Since ancient times, there has been the saying, "Even heroes cannot resist the charms of a beautiful woman." In fact, the "beauty" here doesn't simply refer to a woman's stunning looks, but rather to her captivating charm—her gentleness and allure. However, a woman's gentleness has its limits. A woman who skillfully manages the degree of gentleness is undoubtedly a shrewd woman, truly pleasing a man and making him linger. It is a tragedy for a woman to see herself as an appendage to a man, a woman who has no opinions, no thoughts, and even no meaning in life without him. It is
also unfortunate to marry a wife who is overly tolerant, uninvolved, and submissive, allowing him to act recklessly. As the saying goes, "No one is perfect, and nothing is flawless." People inevitably make mistakes, especially men. In work, in life, in interpersonal relationships, in making friends, in official conduct, and in all matters, they constantly need reminders and guidance. As the closest person to her husband, a wife should be his most sincere friend, the one with whom he can confide and speak frankly. Many things that others cannot, cannot, or are unwilling to say, a wife must say. This is the meaning of "pillow talk." If a wife is an irresponsible woman, a woman who indulges her man, then after a few years of carefree living, the man will ultimately suffer the consequences.
It is also unfortunate to marry a wife who is overly passionate. Being adept at life, carefree and romantic, full of passion and imagination, is extremely dangerous. A woman who doesn't understand life is like rotten wood; a woman who understands life too much is like poison. No man will genuinely like a woman who only knows how to stay at home and live a mundane life. A woman who knows how to occasionally add a little sweetness and spice to a mundane life is what pleases a man. Men like women who are romantic and passionate, but they are extremely reluctant to teach their wives to fantasize. In fact, the reason is very simple: men repeatedly tell their women to be docile and obedient, entirely because they are afraid that their women will accidentally slip into the whirlpool of passion and never be able to escape. How to resolve this contradiction? It's also very simple. Turn other men's wives into "passionate women." This is the despicable nature of
men. If you marry a very capable woman—self-reliant, successful, and influential—it's very sad. Wanting to advance in one's career and pursue one's life value is perfectly understandable. But placing this perfectly normal concept from a woman's perspective makes it completely wrong. The shackles of thousands of years of traditional Chinese feudal ideology—"women manage the home, men manage the outside world," and male superiority over women—are deeply ingrained. A woman spends all day out socializing, leaving a man at home to care for the family. What kind of social order is this? Look at those women who achieve great success in their careers; how many have happy and fulfilling family lives? Even if a man truly understands his wife and is willing to stay home to care for the children, do laundry, and massage her back, he'll still be shamed by his neighbors and friends when he steps outside.
Therefore, after much deliberation, most intelligent men ultimately abandon their original "wonderful" dreams and marry a docile, ordinary-looking woman, hoping for a long and happy life together.

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