My friend's girlfriend's sex life makes me envious.

Today I want to tell you the story of a woman named Shanshan. She was also the mistress of a wealthy man, and three married men bought her cars and houses—not just one, but three men in total—all willing to spend money on her, a lot of money. Yet, she didn't climb the social ladder by using these men's connections .

Was Shanshan beautiful?

I can't describe it. My first impression of this woman was that she had a great figure and a cool, aloof appearance. Men who met Shanshan all commented: "She's hard to handle!"

How good was Shanshan's figure?

Let me put it this way: even I, a woman, couldn't help but look at her again and again. It was the first time I'd ever seen a girl with such a shapely bottom, and her waist was so slender; I felt like I could hug her tightly. The first time I met Shanshan was at a fellow villager's house for dinner. She was wearing a fitted dress, walking ahead of me, her hips swaying, her waist as supple as a willow, full of charm.

Later, that fellow villager went to Shanghai to develop his career, and Shanshan and I didn't exchange contact information, so we didn't see each other for several years.

It wasn't until the end of 1999 that I rented an apartment in a "celebrity" building in Luohu, Shenzhen. Unexpectedly, I ran into Shanshan in the elevator. She recognized me and greeted me first. Then, Shanshan warmly invited me to her home.

After moving into that building, we saw each other more frequently, and our relationship truly deepened. That's when I learned about her story.

The "celebrity" building wasn't actually famous, but rather a current term. It was the birthplace of the system where people from other provinces could get mortgages to buy houses in Shenzhen. The complex had three buildings, and I heard that most of the apartments were bought by Hong Kong people, many registered under their girlfriends' names.

Back then, I had a feeling that all the young and beautiful girls in Luohu District, Shenzhen, were concentrated there.

Shanshan's apartment was on the 22nd floor, 60 square meters, a very cozy one-bedroom apartment. She generously told me that her boyfriend in Hong Kong had paid the down payment for it.

Initially, I didn't know that Shanshan was a married man's mistress, and I was quite envious. After all, I'd never heard of someone buying me such a nice apartment in such a prime location without being married. Besides, I was young back then and didn't think much of it.

I rented an apartment on the 20th floor. Because I was close to Shanshan, she had a part-time housekeeper, and whenever she cooked something delicious, she'd invite me over for a meal. I remember she liked to sing karaoke at home; I don't know if that was disturbing the peace, but we often sang in her small apartment.

During the day, Shanshan went to the VIP room of the securities company downstairs to trade stocks (as far as I know, the starting price for a VIP room back then was 500,000 yuan; her current properties were worth over 500,000 yuan, making her a millionaire in her twenties, which was quite considerable at the time). I envied her even more.

After all, I was struggling with starting a business at the time. I had partnered with my two older sisters to open a beauty salon, and my boyfriend and I were also having disagreements, leaving me feeling quite lost…
As

time went on, women are natural sharers, especially after a few drinks; they'll share all sorts of private topics.

I learned more and more about Shanshan.

She's from Sichuan. Her parents divorced when she was young, and she moved to Guiyang with her mother. By chance, she ended up in Shenzhen, Guangdong.

Because of her parents' relationship problems, Shanshan said she was afraid of marriage, felt insecure, and didn't want children. She said her boyfriend in Hong Kong wouldn't pressure her to marry him, wouldn't make her have children, was good to her, and was wealthy. She also told me that every time her boyfriend came to visit, the first thing he did was to push her onto the bed, and Shanshan was completely infatuated with him.

Later, Shanshan's boyfriend came to Shenzhen and invited me to have tea and dinner together, which is how I met this legendary wealthy boyfriend.

He was six years older than her, I estimated he was over 180cm, impeccably dressed, wore an expensive watch, and frequently drove a luxury car with Hong Kong-China license plates. He always carried a golf bag and equipment. Upon seeing him, I exclaimed, "Wow, this man is very handsome! He and Shanshan are a perfect match. I'm so happy for you!"

At the time, Shanshan just smiled and didn't say much.

Later, I discovered that her boyfriend never came to visit on important holidays, so I asked Shanshan why.

Shanshan said her boyfriend is a self-made man from Chaoshan. He went to Hong Kong with his parents when he was young, didn't receive much formal education, and started by running a fruit stall. He then worked with foreigners in the electronic waste recycling business, a business known as "waste recycling." Her boyfriend is very generous to her, often buying her designer handbags and clothes, and always making her look very prestigious when he takes her out. However, he is married, and Shanshan knows this.

I finally understand what Shanshan meant when she told me that the man wouldn't pressure her to marry or have children. Knowing that Shanshan was involved in a mistress situation, as a friend, I even discussed monogamy with her. Of course, I don't like arguing; I was just expressing my opinion. I don't agree, but I don't want to blindly criticize her choices. Plus, having spent quite a while with Shanshan, I probably empathize with her more.

Of course, another reason I don't have a strong critical attitude is that it's so common for wealthy men in Hong Kong to have a girlfriend on the mainland. It's not that I think they can keep mistresses, but seeing it so often makes me less emotionally invested.

The story

takes place in 2001. My landlord announced he was selling the apartment, and I was in a hurry to find a place to move. When Shanshan found out, she told me that a home isn't a home until you own your own place.

Intrigued, I quickly started arranging a purchase, inquired about down payments and loans, calculated my available funds, and soon bought a small apartment.

As an aside, thankfully I was decisive back then, and no one held me back. Now that little apartment has increased in value tenfold, generating rent for many years. I only regret not buying two more apartments back then! Not long after buying the apartment, I got married. After my child was born, I was busy with work and childcare, and my contact with Shanshan decreased.

In 2003, Shanshan called and invited me to have tea nearby. When I arrived, she told me that her boyfriend had just reserved an apartment for her in the Shenzhen Bay Mangrove Forest, a 180-square-meter unit. Originally, her boyfriend preferred the 240-square-meter unit, but because Shanshan liked the 180-square-meter layout, he ultimately went with her.

I went with her to see Shanshan's new house. It was a luxury home, and indeed, it was beautiful. The complex faced an endless expanse of lush green golf course. Shanshan told me the monthly mortgage payment would be 13,000 yuan. Her previous 60-square-meter apartment was now mortgage-free, and she had received the full payment. Her boyfriend was about to furnish this 180-square-meter house, and she was very excited.

My feelings were mixed. Seeing that Shanshan had a big house to live in, I was happy for her, but at the same time, I was worried.

I knew that Shanshan had been unexpectedly pregnant, and her boyfriend wanted her to have the baby. Shanshan didn't want to have children; she wanted an abortion. Her boyfriend argued with her about it for a long time, and in the end, I accompanied Shanshan to the hospital for the abortion.

Maybe I was being too pessimistic, but I still couldn't help asking her, when Shanshan was very excited, if she had made up her mind to stay with this man forever. "You might never have a complete marriage in your life," I said. "Whether you have children or not, your future life is too risky."

Back in the early 2000s, women's values weren't as diverse as they are now. Being a wealthy man's mistress was already considered extremely unconventional; having a child outside of marriage, or not having children at all, was considered abnormal, and the pressure one faced was immense. I

earnestly advised Shanshan to think things through. Shanshan knew I genuinely cared for her, wanted what was best for her, so she wasn't upset at all. She said she would consider it carefully.

After that, because I had a family and children, Shanshan and I only saw each other sporadically.

Once, Shan Shan invited me to Macau, around 2005. I accompanied her to the casinos for three days and three nights. I played three rounds of small and large bets, each costing 300 yuan, and won 900 yuan before stopping.

Then, I passed by a Korean gambler's table. His table was piled high with chips of varying denominations he had won. Everyone present, including the dealers and passersby, was handing out 100 yuan—everyone got a share. When it was my turn, the gambler even gave me a 1000 yuan bonus. Everyone shouted, "Congratulations, boss, on your fortune!"

That night, when I saw the Korean gambler again, his hair was standing on end, and he was shrug, having lost everything…

During those days in Macau, when I was tired, I rested in the hotel room Shan Shan had exchanged for with her chips. When I was hungry, I went to the casino to exchange for meal vouchers for the buffet. I noticed that I was the only one focused on the delicious food; everyone else was distracted. Those who won were studying their strategy, and those who lost were regretting not taking advantage of their wins, including Shan Shan.

Gambling is truly surreal. A beautiful woman, once at the gambling table, instantly transforms into a completely different person. She can go without sleep, food, or water, even neglecting to groom herself. When I woke up in the hotel, I saw that Shanshan's bed was completely untouched; she hadn't even come back to rest.

I told Shanshan that if her boyfriend saw her like this, disheveled, he would have absolutely no interest in her. Gone was all elegance and poise; she was just a genderless tool in the casino. She was engrossed in gambling and wouldn't listen to any of this. Eventually, I couldn't persuade her and, unable to bear it any longer, I had to leave on my own.

I don't know when Shanshan became such a gambler; was it because she was too bored?

Later, I received an emergency call from Shanshan at home. She immediately asked how much money I had. Thinking she had some urgent need, I went to the bank, withdrew some fixed deposit money, and even delivered it to a private room at a teahouse near her house. When I entered the teahouse, I gasped in shock—she had somehow found a way to play online baccarat again!

I pulled her aside and said with concern, "You mustn't gamble anymore, it'll ruin you." Shanshan only verbally agreed.

Later, I heard from our mutual friends that Shanshan started borrowing money everywhere and gambling more and more heavily. Her boyfriend came home from abroad late at night without his keys, couldn't reach her by phone, and waited for her downstairs. When he found out she was gambling again, they had a huge fight and threatened to break up. Shanshan said she was okay with breaking up, but on the condition that he pay off her gambling debts of hundreds of thousands of yuan.

To be honest, this man was quite good. He had survived the 1997 Asian financial crisis, almost going bankrupt, and it took him several years to recover from negative assets. To take care of Shanshan and satisfy her extravagant lifestyle, he had always worked very hard. Balancing his family and not neglecting his wife, supporting two families at the same time was no easy task. So, in the end, he couldn't take it anymore, and her boyfriend broke up with her, paying off all her gambling debts and repeatedly telling her to quit gambling.

After the breakup, the two were still entangled for quite some time.

It's a bit superstitious, because Shanshan and I went to a fortune teller together. We're both wood-elemental people, while her boyfriend is fire-elemental. The fortune teller said that if they were together, Shanshan would bring good fortune to her boyfriend, making his career successful. If they weren't together, Shanshan's health would suffer.

I didn't believe it at the time, but then Shanshan broke up with him, and his business ran into trouble. They got back together, and his business immediately improved. So, her boyfriend still wanted to be with Shanshan.

But not long after, the gambling addiction kicked in again, and he repeatedly incurred gambling debts, getting bombarded by creditors. He had no choice but to break up with her completely…

That year, that large apartment in Shenzhen Bay had risen to 7 million yuan.

When I heard this, I thought that even if Shanshan broke up with that guy, her life wouldn't be too bad, at least she had the property. Alas, she never quit gambling. She was constantly borrowing from Peter to pay Paul. With a monthly mortgage of 13,000 yuan, without that guy to support her, she was overwhelmed and sold the apartment for a pittance of 3.9 million yuan.

And that small apartment in the internet-famous building was also sold off cheaply.

If Shanshan hadn't developed her vices, those two apartments would be worth 30-40 million today...

Later

, a few years ago, Shanshan had two more romantic relationships, both involving knowingly being a third party.

And both men treated her well.

One was from a hospital that pioneered gene transplantation in Northeast China, but he was ruined by her gambling addiction and returned to his family. The other was a Macau businessman in Dongguan, who also went bankrupt for Shanshan... This Macau businessman helped Shanshan arrange a sham marriage to come to Hong Kong, and even while in debt himself, he still gave Shanshan 50,000 a month for living expenses.

When Shanshan arrived in Hong Kong, I was also in Hong Kong, and I met her twice:

once when I visited her rented two-bedroom apartment. When I went, there was only a broken sofa in the apartment; I couldn't believe she was in such a sorry state. And even in that state, her biggest concern was still where the mahjong parlor downstairs was; she was still gambling. I was speechless...

The other time was during the Lunar New Year, when Shanshan took the initiative to ask me out because her mother was visiting Hong Kong.

When we met that time, I noticed that Shanshan was no longer the same as before; she looked very haggard and older.

I treated Shanshan and her mother to a meal at Langham Place and gave the aunt a few hundred yuan to buy some food. While Shanshan was in the restroom, the aunt couldn't help but shed tears: "Look how good you are, your child is all grown up, you have such a normal life, and she's still gambling. She sleeps all day and goes to the mahjong parlor all night..." Before she could finish speaking, Shanshan came back, looking impatient, and the aunt didn't dare to continue...

After that parting, Shanshan completely disappeared from my life and never contacted me again.

Perhaps we drifted apart because of different life philosophies, and things changed! Or perhaps no one wants to show their unpleasant side to others, so Shanshan and I never saw each other again, but I still sincerely hope that she has quit gambling. She

is one of the very few examples among the people around me who started strong but ended poorly.

Now, when our girlfriends get together, we often still talk about Shanshan. While we were all struggling financially, Shanshan was living a life of luxury, decked out in designer brands. Her boyfriend, though married, was incredibly generous to her. Now that we sisters are all doing well, she's made a mess of things, squandering a perfectly good hand.

Perhaps this is what happens when wealth is uncontrollable; it's bound to be lost sooner or later. And gambling—you absolutely must never touch it.

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