My experience with *** (from a girl's personal account)

On May 20th, my boyfriend and I were lying in bed scrolling through our phones as usual. He freed one hand to stroke me, and I, feeling incredibly aroused, turned to caress his firm muscles in return. Suddenly, he said to me, "How about we try anal sex?" I

hadn't had sex for a while due to an allergic reaction on my inner thighs, and then my period started, so we had both been holding back for a long time. Without thinking, I agreed.

Actually, this wasn't the first time we'd explored anus. He often inserts a finger (about one knuckle), and I don't mind the feeling. In fact, and I'm not afraid to admit it, when I was a child and couldn't sleep, I would sometimes inexplicably explore with a finger, finding it both fun and self-reproachful for doing something so "dirty."

I was still a bit apprehensive about penetrating him, after all, I had an unpleasant experience before—he had tentatively tried to enter, but I was too impatient and nervous, so I cried out in pain after only the head of his penis went in, and for the next week, I felt the punishment from my anus every time I went to the toilet. So it's impossible not to have some psychological trauma.

But strangely, that failure didn't make me give up; instead, it ignited my desire to challenge myself: so many girls who have tried it say it's great, why can't I? I must be doing it wrong. If it's wrong, then I should learn! We have so much patience to study academics, why can't we try and explore more when it comes to something as wonderful as sex? So, I secretly read a lot of popular science articles on backdoors and prepared myself.

Okay, today's the day! I must make a breakthrough!

I took a finger cot, a condom, and a bottle of silicone lubricant from the bedside table and handed them to him, saying shyly, "Honey, use your finger first." He looked at me with an expression that said, "This is an expert."

Some people might think that since anal sex carries no risk of unwanted pregnancy, using a condom is unnecessary. However, using a condom in this situation is primarily for safety. The anus is often dry, unlike the vagina where natural lubrication is produced. If there's accidental friction and bleeding during intercourse, the risk of contracting diseases increases significantly. Not only do you need a condom, but a well-lubricated one.

As for silicone-based lubricant, it's because it lasts longer, doesn't evaporate as easily, and provides a smoother feel compared to water-based lubricants. We're both experienced, so having these things on hand is essential for a good time!

We opted for the rear-entry position, probably because we both found it easier to penetrate. I saw online that the spooning position (both lying on their sides) is better for first-timers; those who want to try it can give it a shot. Ultimately, positions are just a guideline; there's no absolute standard. Finding the one that suits you best is key. More important than position, in my opinion, is relaxation. Both your mind and the sphincter muscles in your anus need to be relaxed. I'm very grateful to my boyfriend for this.

Throughout the entire process, from preparation to final success, he kept reminding me to relax and assuring me he wouldn't do anything inappropriate, telling me to move however I felt comfortable. Seeing my initial discomfort, he said, "Baby, if it hurts, we won't continue." Noticing my worry, he reassured me, "Just relax, it's okay if you can't hold back."

So, guys who want to explore their girlfriends' anuses can take note. A friendly reminder to girls: if you have an upset stomach or diarrhea that day, don't try it!

As for the experience of anal sex… initially, it feels a bit like having a bowel movement. Pain, swelling, and stinging are inevitable for first-timers, but don't give up easily because of the pain (think about how our first few sexual encounters weren't always pleasant, right?). As long as you're safe and relaxed, you can try it boldly. Later, you'll experience a bittersweet pleasure, somewhat like suddenly having your bowels clear after days of constipation, or the feeling of suddenly finding yourself in a terrible traffic jam.

Passing gas afterward is normal; I spent almost half an hour on the toilet. I remembered seeing online about people inserting their fingers into their anus to facilitate bowel movements, and suddenly I understand why they did it. Of course, some girls don't actually need to go to the bathroom.

My anus was still slightly sore the next day, but I didn't regret it. I was so glad I didn't bleed at all, so the importance of proper preparation is self-evident.

I talked to my boyfriend about it, and he felt that because the anus was tighter than the front, ejaculation was faster, but because the wrinkles and lines in the anus weren't as clear as in the front, the pleasure was slightly less.

Honestly, the psychological pleasure and satisfaction from this was greater than the physical pleasure—I felt like my body was being fully explored by the person I loved, which deepened our understanding of each other. Our cooperation during the exploration greatly improved our tacit understanding. I enjoyed this feeling of being conquered and possessed; it felt like my whole being was complete, and I looked forward to more possession. As the aggressor, his desire to conquer was also satisfied.

Of course, if you try it and find anal sex uncomfortable and don't want to do it again, there's no need to force yourself. Most people can experience pleasure through anal stimulation. Some enjoy being licked but refuse penetration, while others do the opposite, so communication is crucial.

However, I strongly disagree with those who reject anal sex without even trying it themselves, labeling it shameful, dirty, and perverted.

Think carefully: what are you rejecting when you refuse anal sex?

If it's because your upbringing forbids such "non-traditional sexual behavior," there's no need to be. As long as it doesn't harm others, what's wrong with making yourself and your loved one comfortable, and mutual pleasure? If you

're only worried about health, avoid it during hemorrhoid flare-ups, clean yourself before and after, and use a condom and lubrication to dispel your worries.

If you've tried it but didn't enjoy it, relax and try again next time.

In short, I feel that anal sex, like vagina, becomes more pleasurable with repeated exploration. Although I didn't particularly enjoy it the first time, I believe it's only a matter of time. Maybe next time, I'll open the door to sex toys, put on a "fox tail," and experience the dual pleasure of "being unprotected from both ends."

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