From single men to couples, everyone faces their own challenges; let's encourage each other.

Previously, my wife didn't accept me, so I could only go out as a single man a few times. I did meet a few good couples, including one couple I chatted with for over a year before we became friends. We didn't meet often, but we always kept in touch. When I was single, I felt that good couples were hard to find, and their quality varied greatly. I thought it would be much easier once I was married. But now that I'm actually married, I feel it's just as hard to find a good couple. Many men immediately ask if the couple is together or directly ask for my wife's contact information. I wonder if single men driven by lust are too impulsive, rushing to the next step before even passing my test? How can I be at ease? Will they become clingy in future interactions ?
Here, I'd like to quote qwe598's article. His diary entry is very well written, highlighting several important points:
Single men must first understand that whether a couple will meet you or become friends with you is not up to the husband, but up to the wife. Most of the time, the husband is the first to vet the couple. If he thinks it's suitable or that you get along well, then the wife will
approach the couple, especially the wife. Please approach it with the mindset of pursuing a girl for the first time, not for the sake of sex or excitement. An old saying goes: Men are driven by their lower bodies (emotions), while women are driven by their upper bodies (reasons).
Not all couples participating in online dating are as promiscuous or open as you might imagine. Therefore, respecting their habits is important.
If a couple accepts your friend request, single men have a significant advantage by taking the initiative. Remember, in reality, supply exceeds demand. If you don't actively showcase yourself and chat with the couple, only to hide away looking at their photos after adding them, you'll likely end up being removed from your friend list. Since the couple has accepted your request, it means they've initially approved of you. Feel free to greet them openly and frequently. Even without chatting, repeated greetings will create a first impression.
If things develop naturally and you meet in person, single men, please prepare a small gift for your wives. The first impression online is important, but the real-life impression is even more crucial, determining the final outcome. The gift doesn't need to be expensive; it's the thought that counts, conveying sincerity and warmth, and serving as a bridge from the virtual world to reality.

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