Some notes about flirtatious massage

I've met quite a few friends on 69 (a dating website), some I've had good conversations with, and some whose manners are questionable. There have also been times when my manners have been questioned. Here, I'd like to elaborate on the details of my activities. Many friends have asked me about my massage techniques for flirting, so I'll answer this once and for all:
First, I know some people with ill intentions have been inspired by me and used it as a scam, causing many kind couples to leave disappointed. I hope these people will have some self-respect. There's no concrete way to judge sincerity; it all comes down to personal character.
Second, some people ask if I understand massage. I admit I'm not formally trained, and I don't understand meridians and acupoints. I just treat it as a form of flirting; it requires my patience and the woman's trust.
Third, how exactly does it work? My partner and I are in a dimly lit room with clean sheets. If you want to be more refined, you can prepare some good essential oils and fragrances. The wife receiving the massage can prepare a smooth, thin pair of underwear or a thong, preferably silk, not lace. (Note that these underwear will get oily, so don't bring the ones you're worried about wearing out.) Before the massage begins, the wife needs to wash and dry herself. The husband can wash after the massage starts. The massage will begin after the room is warmed up by the air conditioning. Specific techniques won't be described here, but it certainly won't be blindly teasing the nipples or clitoris—that's vulgar. The wife will lie face down, starting with her back and neck (it initially feels like a proper spa, haha), slowly touching some erogenous zones I know, patiently stimulating them. If everything goes well, I will touch the ultimate erogenous zone mentioned above. At this point, the husband can join in, standing at the head of the bed while his wife performs oral sex, and I will continue teasing at the foot of the bed until both partners are aroused. I will then quietly withdraw. (If you don't mind, I will stay and watch you have sex, haha. If you don't want me to join in, let me know beforehand, and I will take care of myself or leave the room.)
Fourth, safety issues. Actually, I'm more worried about this than the couple. It's legal for couples to book a hotel room with their ID cards, but I'm worried about being scammed, extorted, or my husband getting jealous and turning on me. To avoid this, firstly, you should get to know each other and have some conversation. It doesn't have to be face-to-face; you can chat on QQ, which is more open. Neither of you should be afraid to express your doubts or concerns. You don't have to focus on sex; you can talk about other topics. This will allow you to get to know each other's personalities and qualities more comprehensively, and you can also find common ground to build rapport. Secondly, I hope the meeting place is a public place, not your home. We can split the bill and find a nice love hotel, but we don't need to make last-minute changes like in a movie, which would ruin the mood. Other methods of self-protection are my own responsibility, so I won't go into them here. I also hope other couples will be more aware of self-protection.
Fifth, the choice of partner. I can't imagine what kind of single women or couples I'll meet, but I know I won't meet the following people: 1. Drug addicts, violent individuals, those with criminal records, those with bad habits, those without legitimate jobs, hardcore SM enthusiasts, gay men (I don't exclude bisexual men, but I only participate in heterosexual relationships, hehe), and professional sex workers who earn money for a fee; 2. Those who book hotels in Shanghai without an ID card; 3. If it's a single woman, I'll cover the cost; if it's a couple, we'll split the cost. If we can't split it, I don't mind the small amount of money, but I doubt your sincerity. Of course, we can discuss the level of the venue beforehand; 4. I hope to schedule the meeting during the day from Monday to Friday. Sorry, I need to rest and spend time with my family in the evenings, and I have a second job to work on on weekends. If we can't coordinate this time, we can only communicate and become friends first; 5. If it's a couple from outside Shanghai, I need to consider my schedule and communication between both parties. That's all I can think of for now. Ask me any other questions and I'll discuss them in the comments. But please be kind in your comments, and refrain from being trolls. Best wishes to everyone!

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