Some thoughts on the matching process from a single man in Wuhan

I've been here on 69 for a while now. At first, it felt novel, and I had some rather impulsive ideas. After all, living alone inevitably leads to a few days when your mind wanders. But then I realized that if it were really about impulsiveness, going to hotels and clubs would probably be more direct.
So why choose to find love here instead of a one-night stand? Because, rather than wanting that passionate ending, I'm looking for a long-lost, friendly exchange and a trusting, emotional bond. We're all busy with work, always so glamorous and successful, always appearing strong, independent, and ambitious in the eyes of our superiors, colleagues, and subordinates. But who can understand the feeling of wanting to have tea and chat with someone after work, when you don't want to say anything? But life isn't always so perfect. My partner works in another province, and when I call, it's mostly just to let them know I'm safe, trying not to burden them further.
Back to the main point: how to find a match. My initial goal was to find someone of the opposite sex with similar circumstances, but I've found that with current technology, it's difficult to achieve. I can only wait. Later, I realized why bother about whether the other person has the past you want, as long as both of you share a common desire for the future, isn't that enough? So I tried meeting a few friends around 30-35 years old. The biggest problem was how to express myself. Many people on the forum talked about manners, but it's really hard to assess them in actual communication. When chatting, I was afraid the other person would feel awkward, so I would proactively mention that I have a master's degree, am 178cm tall, and weigh 70kg, but the other person would think I was being too blunt. If you're not familiar with the other person's interests, it's even harder to achieve a successful friendship from beginning to end. You need to first consider the other person's natural qualities (at least not be off-putting), then be able to chat, then consider whether both of your circumstances allow for further development, and then be conscious of how to end things. These are all things that adults need to consider.
So, after rambling on for so long, I really feel that making friends here not only tests a person's manners, but if it goes well, it also tests a person's professionalism to some extent. If you don't have that patience, just go find a prostitute, because the combined cost of energy, time, and money in this way is definitely much higher than the former!

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