Give women a double orgasm

Wash your hands thoroughly, trim your nails, making sure the nails of your thumbs and middle and index fingers don't extend beyond the fingertips, and ideally, trim them inwards as much as possible. Ensure there's no dirt or debris under your nails.

Keep a towel by the bedside, as the amount of fluid produced during female ejaculation is astonishing—like a water cannon versus a water gun compared to a man's.

Prepare some lubricant; although women can achieve intense arousal and orgasms, it's still necessary to have some on hand.

Allow ample time; the first successful ejaculation may take anywhere from 10 minutes to over an hour.

It's best to warm up your hands, fingers, and arms in the days leading up to it. If you're not feeling your best, these necessary movements may quickly tire you out.

Before the first time, talk to each other, letting her know you're preparing her for ejaculation. Female ejaculation is perfectly normal and a wonderful experience for both. Reassure her there's nothing to be embarrassed or ashamed of. Tell her before she ejaculates that it will feel like urinating. This is a difficult point for many women to accept, and many may have second thoughts. Convince her that it's impossible to urinate during orgasm; the sensation is merely the first signal that she's about to ejaculate.

The initial sensation of fluid flowing through the urethra is very similar to the initial feeling of urination, so it's crucial to emphasize this. Since people automatically develop a conditioned reflex to stop urinating when not in a urinating environment—a habit formed over many years—it's essential to tell her to relax and let the fluid flow naturally. If the reflex to stop urination begins, ejaculation will be aborted. In other words, when she feels the urge to urinate, she should urinate. Because this isn't urination at all, but simply ejaculation. Within seconds, she will clearly realize that this is indeed a different sensation. Only women can experience this feeling, and once ejaculation begins, she is able to release it with remarkable effect. Ideally, her partner should sit between her legs to prevent her from ejaculating too much, requiring more than a towel, or spraying beyond the bed, onto things like the television or stereo.

After her ejaculation, share in her joy; don't laugh at her or show any amusement. If you do this, she might not be willing to ejaculate again, at least not in front of you ;-(. Unlike men, this doesn't mean it's over. You can continue, using more stimulation to give her multiple orgasms and ejaculations. Start slowly. Use some special

foreplay

, such as stroking her back. Stimulate her clitoris with a wet finger or your tongue. While you're giving her oral sex (i.e., inserting your tongue into her vagina, see "Tongue Tour"), rubbing her breasts with your hands will also stimulate her. Continue stimulating the clitoris until her vagina is lubricated. At this point, insert two fingers into her vagina and move them along the anterior vaginal wall. About 4-5 centimeters in, you'll encounter a swollen area, which is the G-spot. It runs along the urethra and is located almost behind the clitoris. Slowly stroke this area, and it will swell even more.

Ejaculation... It's almost always triggered by G-spot stimulation, while clitoral stimulation can help her reach ejaculation and make it more intense. However, G-spot stimulation is usually necessary in the initial stages. Once she can ejaculate easily, she'll find clitoral stimulation sufficient.

There are several ways to stroke: you can use circular rubbing, or alternate between two fingers to rub back and forth, like walking, or simulate the thrusting motion of intercourse. Initially, the stimulation doesn't need to be too strong. At the same time, you can use your thumb, other hand, mouth, and tongue to stimulate the clitoris in turn. Stimulate both the clitoris and G-spot simultaneously and observe her reaction.

Simultaneous stimulation may be too intense for some women, but necessary for ejaculation for others; you'll have to explore to find out. When she's aroused, you can feel her vagina contracting and twitching. When she reaches the center of orgasm, simultaneously stimulate her clitoris and gently press the G-spot, making sure to do so quickly and rhythmically. Say to her: "You're almost there, keep going, don't worry, relax, let it come." Or something similar, being gentle in your tone. If her ejaculation makes you wet, give her confidence, don't get angry. Tell her that her ejaculation feels very erotic to you. Make her feel satisfied and content with her ejaculation.

The positions mentioned above may not be the best. If she hasn't succeeded after a while, have her roll over onto her back with her knees on the bed. You'll find it easier to stimulate the G-spot in this position, and she'll be more sensitive. Now, with your fingers pointing downwards, slowly insert them into her vagina. Find the G-spot and stimulate it continuously. You can use your other hand to stimulate the clitoris. If, after several orgasms, quick, light pressure on the G-spot still doesn't result in ejaculation, then turn your hand and place your thumb inside the vagina.

Your thumb is shorter and may not reach the G-spot, but that's okay; it will reach it during the middle of an orgasm. Place your middle and index fingers on the clitoris, so that the web of your hand... The curved shape should fit snugly between the vagina and clitoris. Apply rhythmic pressure with your thumb while simultaneously rubbing the clitoris. As she reaches orgasm, gently press with your entire hand rhythmically. She will usually ejaculate at this point. You can use a little trick: while she ejaculates, continue massaging this area with your fingers, stimulating the clitoris and G-spot. This helps her overcome the illusion of urinating, as she will be unable to stop.

Remember that women can not only achieve multiple orgasms but also ejaculate multiple times. For her, ejaculating 3-5 times before running out of semen is not unusual. Even after one or more ejaculations, you can still have intercourse with her. Rear-entry is more clitoral-stimulating than missionary position (see "A Discussion of Sexual Positions"), and women often experience new ejaculations during intercourse. Even if not, they will be very excited and sensitive. The end result is that the entire sexual experience becomes her most pleasurable and intense sexual encounter.

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